In this special episode of Queernundrum, we’re diving into the legacy, allure, and enduring queerness of the one and only Marilyn Monroe. Joining us is the fabulous Jamie Truitt, a longtime friend of our host Gary and a bona fide Monroe aficionado—with a surprising love for Tolstoy to boot!

We kick things off with some heartwarming (and hilarious) memories from Jamie and Gary’s high school days, before launching into an illuminating conversation about Marilyn’s cultural impact, her rumored same-sex trysts, and why she continues to resonate so deeply with queer audiences today.

From Jamie’s personal reflections on Marilyn’s life and misunderstood brilliance to their favorite and most underrated Monroe films, this episode blends Hollywood history, queer theory, and a whole lot of admiration for a woman who was far more than a blonde bombshell.

✨ Questions we explore:

• What made Marilyn such a powerful symbol for the LGBTQ+ community?
• Is there truth to the whispers of her queer relationships?
• What would a posthumous Monroe role look like?
• And what can we still learn from her today?

Whether you're a Monroe superfan or just curious about her legacy through a queer lens, this episode promises glamour, depth, and insight.

Tune in, and fall in love with Marilyn all over again.

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What happens when you mix the wit and charm of The Golden Girls with a fresh, queer-centric twist? You get Mid-Century Modern! In this episode, we dive into Hulu’s upcoming comedy starring Nathan Lane, Matt Bomer, Nathan Lee Graham, and the late, great Linda Lavin. We explore its connections to The Golden Girls, from its ensemble cast to its focus on chosen family and aging with humor, heart, and a little bit of sass.

💬 What We Cover:

✨ A breakdown of Mid-Century Modern—its premise, cast, and why we’re excited.

✨ The legacy of The Golden Girls and its groundbreaking LGBTQ+ representation.

✨ How Mid-Century Modern updates the formula for today’s audience.

✨ Our hopes for queer storytelling in modern sitcoms.

👀 Why You Should Listen:

If you love smart, heartfelt comedies with strong queer representation—or just want to hear us gush about our love for The Golden Girls—this episode is for you!

🎧 Tune in now! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review Queernundrum wherever you get your podcasts!

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In this electrifying episode of Queernundrum, hosts Holly and Gary dive into the fascinating world of LGBTQ+ relationships and the keys to maintaining a healthy, fulfilling sex life. Relationships thrive on connection, and that includes embracing intimacy, communication, and pleasure—all of which we explore with the dynamic duo behind Kinky Cocktail Hour, SafferMaster & Lady Petra.

Together, we break down the unique challenges and joys that queer couples experience, discussing what sets LGBTQ+ relationships apart while uncovering the universal themes that connect us all. From personal stories to professional insights, we tackle the importance of a healthy sexual dynamic in long-term relationships and why open, honest conversations about sex are vital for both emotional and physical well-being.

Join us for an eye-opening discussion filled with real talk, expert advice, and a touch of kink, as we celebrate love, desire, and the power of intimacy in queer relationships!

Tune in, get curious, and let’s talk about what makes a thriving sex life work for YOU.

Show Notes:

Kinky Cocktail Hour (podcast)

Hard Married (book and blog)

The Firm Tech Cock Ring (website)

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Queernundrum listeners, we have a serious and urgent queernundrum to unpack. In February 2025, the National Park Service (NPS) quietly removed references to transgender activists from the Stonewall National Monument website—an act that erases the vital contributions of trans people to LGBTQ+ history. This isn’t just a simple edit; it’s part of a larger effort to rewrite history, erase queer activism, and justify ongoing discrimination against trans people today.

🗣️ In this episode, we get into:

🔥 The Stonewall Uprising – how trans activists like Marsha P. Johnson & Sylvia Rivera led the fight against police brutality in 1969.

🔥 What the NPS did – the removal of transgender references from the Stonewall National Monument’s website and why this is an intentional political move.

🔥 Other instances of LGBTQ+ history being erased – from Trump’s attacks on federal LGBTQ+ protections to book bans in Florida and the rewriting of civil rights history in Texas.

🔥 How we fight back – demanding accountability from the NPS, pushing for inclusive education, supporting LGBTQ+ archives, and staying politically engaged.

📢 Queer history is under attack—again. The question is, what are we going to do about it? Tune in, get informed, and take action.

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J.K. Rowling created a world that defined a generation, but in recent years, her legacy has been overshadowed by controversy. In this episode, we dive into:

• Her rise to fame and the creation of Harry Potter
• The controversies surrounding her views on trans rights
• Her continued involvement in the Harry Potter franchise
• The upcoming Harry Potter TV reboot and the fandom’s reaction

Can you separate the art from the artist? What does the future of the Wizarding World look like under Rowling’s influence? Let’s talk about it.

🔮 Join the conversation! Find us on Facebook, Instagram, and BlueSky to share your thoughts. Are you planning to watch the new series? Can Harry Potter still belong to the fans? Let us know!

🎧 Listen now! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with your fellow Potterheads!

At a time when many corporations and public figures are quietly retreating from Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) efforts, NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell is taking a different path—doubling down on the league’s commitment to DEI. But is this a genuine push for inclusivity, or just another corporate PR move?

In this episode, we break down:

The history of the NFL’s DEI efforts, including the Rooney Rule and LGBTQ+ representation.

How the anti-woke movement is pushing companies to abandon DEI.

Why Goodell is standing firm on DEI policies while others back away.

The impact on LGBTQ+ athletes and representation in sports.

Does the NFL’s commitment to diversity actually lead to systemic change?

Join us for a deep dive into the intersection of sports, activism, and corporate accountability. Is Goodell leading a new era for DEI, or will the NFL cave under pressure?

Queernundrum listeners, we have a major queer conundrum to unpack this week. Karla Sofía Gascón, the groundbreaking trans actress who made history in Emilia Pérez, has found herself at the center of a controversy—one that raises big questions about accountability, redemption, and representation in the LGBTQ+ community.

In this episode, we dive into:

🔥 The rise of Emilia Pérez and why it was a milestone for trans representation.

🔥 The resurfacing of past social media posts that ignited backlash.

🔥 Gascón’s response—her apology, deleted accounts, and the impact of her words.

🔥 The bigger conversation: When is an apology enough? Can we separate an artist from their work? And what does this mean for trans visibility in Hollywood?

This isn’t just about one person—this is about how we, as a community, navigate accountability while championing progress. Join us as we wrestle with the tough but necessary questions that shape our future.

The challenge is balancing the celebration of trans representation in film while addressing harmful past actions. This situation highlights:

1. How do we hold people accountable while allowing for growth?
2. What does this mean for the visibility of trans actors in major film roles?
3. How do we support marginalized communities while addressing intersectional harm?

At Queernundrum, we believe in holding people accountable while also allowing space for education and growth. However, we do not excuse or condone the harmful rhetoric that has come to light in this controversy. Discrimination, racism, and any form of hate speech have no place in the LGBTQ+ community.

That being said, we also recognize that conversations about accountability are complex. Our goal is to explore this topic with nuance and provide a space where we can discuss these challenges openly, honestly, and with respect.

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🌈 Thank you for being part of this discussion. Tough conversations move us forward. Let’s unpack this together. 🎙️💖

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Hello, Queernundrum listeners! This week, we’re diving into the extraordinary life and legacy of Jodie Foster—an actress, director, and trailblazing queer icon whose impact on Hollywood and the LGBTQ+ community is undeniable.

In this episode, we explore Jodie’s remarkable career, from her groundbreaking roles in Taxi Driver and The Silence of the Lambs to her achievements as a director and producer. We’ll also take a closer look at her journey into queerness, including her unforgettable 2013 Golden Globes speech and her relationship with her wife, Alexandra Hedison.

Join us as we discuss the themes of privacy, resilience, and authenticity that have shaped Foster’s personal and professional life, making her a role model for generations of LGBTQ+ individuals.

So grab your favorite beverage, get comfy, and let’s celebrate the life and love of Jodie Foster!

Jodie Foster’s Career Highlights:

• A look back at Jodie’s iconic performances in Taxi Driver, The Accused, and The Silence of the Lambs.
• Her work as a director on films like Little Man Tate and The Beaver, showcasing her talent behind the camera.

Her Queerness and Golden Globes Speech:

• In 2013, Foster publicly acknowledged her queerness during her acceptance speech for the Cecil B. DeMille Award. Her words, “I already did my coming out about a thousand years ago,” struck a chord with the LGBTQ+ community, especially those who value privacy and authenticity.
• The speech also highlighted the challenges of navigating a public life while staying true to one’s identity.

Jodie Foster and Alexandra Hedison:

• Explore Jodie’s relationship with her wife, Alexandra Hedison, a photographer and former actress.
• Their private but enduring partnership demonstrates the beauty of queer love and the power of living authentically.

Representation and Legacy:

• How Jodie’s journey reflects the evolving attitudes toward LGBTQ+ representation in Hollywood.
• Her mentorship and influence on younger actors and directors in the queer community.

Fun Facts About Jodie Foster:

• Child prodigy: Valedictorian of her high school and a Yale graduate.
• Multilingual: Fluent in French and dubs her own performances for French releases of her films.
• Fierce advocate for privacy and living life on her own terms.

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