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In this episode of Q&A w/ T&C, Tim and Christian focus on helping men overcome the idol of sex and sexual sin.

Drawing from biblical principles, especially from John 10:10 and Romans 12:2, they discuss how sex was created by God for the confines of marriage but has been perverted by the enemy.

They examine the challenges men face due to cultural influences and emphasize the importance of renewing the mind, trusting in God's boundaries, and understanding one's identity as a protector.

They also stress the need for male brotherhood, discipleship, and practical steps to live a life that honors God.

The episode wraps up by previewing the next topic on stewardship.



00:00 Introduction to Q&A with T&C
00:15 The Purpose of the Podcast
00:41 The Enemy's Influence and Idols
01:25 The Topic of Sex and Its Perversion
01:39 God's Design for Sex
01:47 Cultural Perspectives on Sexual Sin
02:56 The Consequences of Sexual Sin
04:18 Renewing the Mind and God's Will
05:45 The Role of Boundaries and Stewardship
19:24 Practical Steps for Overcoming Sexual Sin
24:48 The Importance of Identity and Protection
34:38 Conclusion and Teaser for Next Episode

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In this episode of Q&A w/ T&C, Tim and Christian address a commonly asked question about what real and biblical success looks like.

They look at the difference between cultural definitions of success and the biblical perspective and talk about how success can become an idol.

They discuss how societal pressures and materialism can skew our understanding of true success, which should be based on faithfulness, obedience, and producing fruit for God’s kingdom.

Drawing from their personal and professional experiences, they emphasize the importance of alignment with God's will, avoiding the pitfalls of comparison, and the necessity of maintaining strong relationships. They conclude by highlighting the ultimate reward of hearing Jesus say, 'Job well done, good and faithful servant.'

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:16 Defining Success: Cultural vs. Biblical

01:28 International Perspectives on Success

02:36 Faithfulness and Obedience as True Success

06:57 The Dangers of Comparison and Materialism

07:50 Balancing Success and Family

10:17 Handling External Pressures and Expectations

21:46 Spiritual Success: Faithfulness, Obedience, and Stewardship

31:12 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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In this episode of Q&A w/ T&C, Tim and Christian discuss the concept of idol worship, particularly in the context of modern-day distractions such as sports, hobbies, and entertainment.

They explore what constitutes an idol, highlighting anything that diverts attention from our mission of loving God and loving others.

The conversation tackles the balance between healthy engagement in recreational activities and when these activities become harmful distractions. They share personal experiences and provide practical advice on maintaining this balance while ensuring that such activities do not interfere with spiritual responsibilities and relationships.

Additionally, they briefly touch on the upcoming topic for the next episode: the potential idolatry of politics.

00:00 Welcome and Introduction
01:09 Understanding Idol Worship
02:26 Identifying Modern Idols
04:26 The Idol of Sports and Entertainment
07:09 Balancing Hobbies and Responsibilities
18:26 The Importance of Stewardship
21:34 Navigating Youth Sports and Faith
25:59 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview

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In this episode of Q&A w/ T&C, Tim and Christian continue their discussion on respect in relationships, talking about the importance of trust as its foundation.

They explore how trust is linked to effective communication, emphasizing the need for clear, intentional, and quality communication in various relationships, including marriages, families, and workplaces.

They also discuss practical tools like clarifying questions and the role of humility in resolving conflicts.

Furthermore, they stress that cultivating good communication is a skill that enhances trust, love, and respect, which are crucial for strong, healthy relationships.

The episode also touches on challenges men face in prioritizing relationships and the importance of refining communication skills to build a legacy of trust and respect.

00:00 Introduction and Teaser Recap
00:52 The Five-Letter Word: Trust
02:22 Building Trust Through Communication
04:22 The Importance of Quality Communication
08:07 Prioritizing Relationships and Communication
10:48 Clarifying Questions and Effective Dialogue
12:38 Balancing Work and Personal Life
13:26 Godly Priorities and Avoiding Idolatry
17:26 Teaser for the Next Episode
18:23 Building Better Relationships
18:41 The Importance of Trying
18:55 Effective Communication
20:00 Taking the First Step
23:01 Humility in Relationships
24:49 Advice for Single Men
27:39 Communication Skills for Leadership
30:11 Final Thoughts on Respect and Communication
32:02 Conclusion and Encouragement

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In this episode of Q&A w/ T&C, Tim and Christian delve into the topic of respect from a man's standpoint, emphasizing its critical role in how men receive love.

Drawing from biblical principles, particularly Ephesians 5, they explore the concept of respect and challenge the common misconception that respect is equivalent to obedience or authoritarianism. The hosts discuss three key components of respect: respecting others as creations of God, respecting responsibility, and respecting character.

They address the importance of earning and cultivating respect through service, leadership, and character development. They also tackle the challenges men face in marital relationships where cultural misconceptions about respect can lead to conflict.

To help navigate these issues, they emphasize the value of open communication and continuous self-improvement. Christian teases a five-letter word that will further unlock the concept of respect and love in the next episode, leaving the audience eager for more insights.

00:00 Introduction
00:43 Understanding Biblical Respect
01:56 Respect Across Cultures
02:45 Defining Respect: Misconceptions and Truths
03:57 Respect in Relationships and Leadership
07:15 Three Types of Respect
09:31 Challenges in Earning Respect
14:38 Positional vs. Earned Respect
17:45 The Importance of Cultivating Respect
18:26 Respect in Different Contexts
18:53 Relational Bank Accounts and Leadership
20:35 Respect in God's Culture vs. National Culture
24:08 The Role of Men in Cultivating Respect
28:31 Encouragement for Men in Marriage
32:33 Conclusion and Teaser for Next Episode

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In this episode of Q&A w/ T&C, hosts Tim Couet and Christian Lenty discuss the foundational concept of a man's identity from a Christian perspective.

They discuss the importance of understanding one's identity in Christ and the roles of serving, protecting, and conducting oneself righteously.

The conversation includes insights on how a man's identity impacts his thought life, relationships, and actions. They also highlight the rewards of living a life aligned with God’s assignment, ranging from personal fulfillment to strengthening trust and intimacy in relationships.

They share practical examples and theological insights to help men embrace their God-given identity and fulfill their purpose.

00:00 Welcome to Q&A with T&C
01:25 The Importance of Identity
03:16 Understanding Identity in Christ
05:56 The Role of Service and Protection
08:22 Practical Applications of Identity
12:56 The Reward of Righteous Living
28:49 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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The inaugural episode of Q&A w/ T&C focuses on a foundational question for men: How can they manage their thought life effectively, particularly as Christian believers? The hosts discuss the importance of stewarding one's thoughts, just as one would steward time, money, or health. They emphasize that thoughts can originate from three sources—God, oneself, or the enemy—and that the key lies in responding to these thoughts in a godly way.