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  • What It Really Takes to Settle in Bosnia Long-Term
    2025/08/14

    Welcome to Postcards from Bosnia, where I share personal stories, conversations, and moments of everyday life from my adopted home in Bosnia and Herzegovina.

    Whether you’re curious about the culture, thinking of visiting, or just enjoy a slower pace of storytelling, there’s something here for you.

    Pull up a chair — this one’s a ramble, but the good kind.

    It’s a Wednesday evening in northwest Bosnia. The sun’s just dipped behind Kozara National Park, painting the sky in that deep red you only get here.

    Tamara’s in Banja Luka with her mum, Predrag (her father) is off with a chainsaw (don’t ask), and I’m here with two dogs, seven cats, and my thoughts.

    This episode is about what it really takes to live here long-term.

    Not the glossy “buy a house in Portugal” kind of podcast episode, but the truth about visas, bureaucracy, and why most foreigners in Bosnia are here because they’ve married locals.

    I talk about property, residency permits, and why embracing the culture and language isn’t optional. It’s survival.

    There’s a little bit of Hemingway, a little bit of homesickness, and a lot of reflection on what it means to be happy in later life.

    If you’ve ever thought about packing up and moving somewhere far from home — or you’ve done it and know that strange tug of wanting to visit “home” but never really go back — this one’s for you.

    If you like the sound of crickets under a Balkan sunset and the idea of living somewhere without an expat bubble, hit play. This is life, unfiltered.

    Thanks for listening. If you enjoyed this episode, you can support the podcast by leaving a review or buying me a coffee, it really does help keep things going.

    Want to hear more or catch up on past episodes? Visit anenglishmaninthebalkans

    For a deeper look into life here in the Balkans, check out my Blog at Coffee and Rakija.

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    Until next time — stay curious.

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    15 分
  • The Numb Lip That Brought It All Back - A Story of Illness, Recovery, and Resilience
    2025/08/06

    Welcome to Postcards from Bosnia, where I share personal stories, conversations, and moments of everyday life from my adopted home in Bosnia and Herzegovina.

    Whether you’re curious about the culture, thinking of visiting, or just enjoy a slower pace of storytelling, there’s something here for you.

    How a strange sensation reopened the door to a forgotten chapter—Guillain-Barré Syndrome, a brush with paralysis, and learning to rest without guilt.

    What if a small sensation—like a numb lip—could transport you back nearly 40 years?

    In this reflective episode, I share a story I don’t often tell.

    One that begins with pins and needles and ends with walking again after months of paralysis. Back in 1987, while serving with the British Army in Germany, I was unexpectedly diagnosed with Guillain-Barré Syndrome, a rare neurological disorder that left me paralysed from the chest down and in recovery for more than a year.

    This isn’t a dramatic tale or a medical deep-dive. It’s simply my account of what happened, what it felt like, and why a recent sensation, something as small as a numb upper lip—brought it all flooding back.

    I also talk candidly about the lingering fatigue that follows you after GBS, how I’ve learned (finally) to rest without guilt, and why sometimes it takes a quiet moment in the present to fully revisit the past.

    If you’ve experienced GBS, or know someone who has, or you’re dealing with unexplained exhaustion or long recovery from illness, I hope this episode gently reminds you: you’re not lazy, you’re healing.

    Please get in touch as well?

    Thanks for listening. If you enjoyed this episode, you can support the podcast by leaving a review or buying me a coffee, it really does help keep things going.

    Want to hear more or catch up on past episodes? Visit anenglishmaninthebalkans

    For a deeper look into life here in the Balkans, check out my Blog at Coffee and Rakija.

    Find us on ALL podcatchers at: PODLINK

    Until next time — stay curious.

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    13 分
  • Hannah’s Bosnia – A Return to the Unexpected
    2025/07/29

    First broadcast in March 2024, this candid village conversation explores cross-cultural travel, ćevapi debates, and what it really means to return to Bosnia, this time with the whole family in tow.

    It’s a misty Sunday morning in the village, the firewood’s sorted for next winter, and the banana plant has, miraculously, survived.

    In this special episode, first aired back in March 2024, I sit down outdoors with Hannah Thomas, a young German-American nurse who’s just wrapped up her second visit to Bosnia and Herzegovina.

    Joined this time by her father, brother, boyfriend, and younger brother, Hannah reflects on what it’s like to travel somewhere that’s not “on the list.”

    We talk about ćevapi comparisons between Croatia and Bosnia (spoiler: Bosnia wins), what shocked her the first time she crossed the border, and how it feels to slow down, embrace ćejf, and soak in a country still unknown to many.

    This is the first time a guest has agreed to chat right here, and it’s raw, real, and refreshingly honest.

    We explore:

    The contrasts between German and Bosnian culture through the eyes of a traveler in her twenties

    Why slow travel in the Balkans might be the antidote to all-inclusive burnout

    How Bosnia’s charm sneaks up on you, through smoky cafés, fruit markets, and unexpected kindness

    So brew yourself something warm, find a quiet moment, and join us for a very human story about family, curiosity, and the power of returning.

    Have you ever visited a country that completely changed your perspective, where your expectations didn’t match the reality?

    If so, where was it… and would you go back?

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  • The Dusk Chorus from Underground
    2025/07/23

    As I sit outside this evening, the sun is just slipping behind the wooded hills of Kozara National Park. The sky turns that perfect dusky pink, the kind that makes me reach for my camera, though it never seems to capture the colours quite right. I must work on that.

    But tonight isn’t about the view. It’s about the sound.

    Not the familiar birdsong, the bark of a village dog, or even the faint whir of a distant tractor.

    No, this evening’s soundtrack is coming from underground.

    Meet the Mole Cricket

    Around this time of year, late July, something remarkable happens just below the surface of the soft, river-fed soil we have all around us.A gentle, rolling trill begins to rise from the earth. At first, it sounds faint, almost electronic. Then, as the minutes pass, others join in, and the entire area begins to hum.

    These mysterious little performers?

    Mole crickets.

    Now, I’ll be honest, I hadn’t paid much attention to them until about three years ago. They’re not flashy. You won’t catch them hopping across the path or fluttering through the trees. No, they live in the quiet, deep in the soil, digging with their strong, spade-like forearms and keeping mostly to themselves.

    We accidentally dug one up during some garden work once, and I was genuinely startled. They’re not the most handsome of creatures, in fact, I’d say they’re a bit grotesque,but they’ve earned their place in my summer evenings.

    Nature’s Hidden Symphony

    There’s a particular kind of magic to their chorus.

    It starts with just one cricket calling out from its burrow. Then another replies. And another. Before long, the valley becomes filled with this strange, pulsing music, nature’s own ambient soundtrack.

    It’s not easy to miss, even if you’re busy scrolling or wrapped up in the noise of the day. But if you sit still and let yourself listen, it’s like discovering a secret concert performed just for you.

    That’s one of the many things I’ve come to love about life here. The quiet things are the main event. You begin to mark the seasons not just by the dates on the calendar, but by the sounds around you.

    In spring, it’s the frogs.

    In June, it’s the nightingales.

    And in the height of summer, like right now, it’s the shy, subterranean song of the mole crickets.

    The Rhythm of My Bosnia

    What I’m sharing here isn’t a tourist destination or a hidden gem to pin on Google Maps. It’s just a moment. A rhythm. A reminder that some of the most beautiful parts of life are the ones that hum gently in the background, waiting for you to notice.

    So wherever you are, walking, working out, winding down,I hope you’ll pause and listen to your own dusk chorus. I’d love to know what it sounds like where you live.

    Let’s Stay Connected

    If you enjoyed this little postcard from my Bosnian summer, I’d love to hear from you. You can drop me a message.

    🎧 And if you’d like to experience it yourself, I’ve included a short soundscape, just under half an hour , of the dusk chorus recorded right here in Čardačani.

    Thank You

    Thank you for listening to these little slices of my life. If you’d like to get more stories, you can subscribe to my Substack, it’s free, and if you ever want to upgrade to paid but can’t afford it, just email me. I’ll sort it out, no questions asked.

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    * What would make you hit “play” on an audio post instead of just reading?

    * What makes a podcast episode feel personal or meaningful to you?

    * Would you like me to add audio versions of my blog posts so you can choose how to enjoy them?

    I’ll give a complimentary subscription to Coffee and Rakija for life for taking the time to answer.

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    28 分
  • Hidden Waterfalls, Warm Pools, and Slow Living
    2025/07/16

    Postcards from Bosnia is an audio journey into the heart of Bosnia and Herzegovina, seen through the eyes of an Englishman who has made this place his home.

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    📍 A Walk in the Garden, and a Few Thoughts from Čardačani

    Hello and welcome back to Postcards from Bosnia.

    If you heard a funny announcement at the start, no, that wasn’t a railway station speaker! It was actually someone calling a staff member over the loudspeaker in a local supermarket. Life’s little unexpected moments always make me smile.

    I haven’t shared one of these “walking in the garden” updates for a while, so I thought today was the perfect day to do just that.

    Recent Visitors from Austria

    As I walk up the hill (you might hear a bit of huffing and puffing!), I think back over the last few days. We had Fritz and his wife Nicole visiting us here in Čardačani, that’s our little village between Banja Luka and the Croatian border.

    They’ve been here several times before and have already promised they’ll be back next year. They left just a few hours ago on their motorbike, heading back to Niederösterreich in Lower Austria after a long, winding journey.From Austria into Italy, then a ferry to Greece, up through Albania and Montenegro, and finally here to us.

    We spent the days sharing local food (Tamara always works her magic in the kitchen), enjoying some pivo and rakija, and simply relaxing. Yesterday, after nearly two weeks of travel, they were ready for a slow day, and we gave them exactly that.

    A Magical Evening by the Water

    In the evening, we took them to Slap, a beautiful little waterfall outside Banja Luka, right on the Vrbas river.

    We sat down to dinner, chatted about life, and watched Fritz capturing videos and photos.

    Afterwards, we drove past Banja Vručica, natural warm pools on the river. Even as the evening got chilly, people sat happily in the steaming water, beer cans in hand, soaking in the supposed healing properties.

    I love these places. Spots you’d easily drive past without knowing they exist. Fritz and Nicole both said they would never have discovered them on their own.

    Off the Tourist Trail

    When you come to Bosnia and Herzegovina, especially the northern region of Krajina, you’re visiting an area still wonderfully under the radar.

    If you choose to stay with us, we can show you places far away from the usual guidebook suggestions. Places you might miss unless you know a local. We move slowly, enjoy each moment, and encourage guests to embrace local food and traditions.

    As Fritz and Nicole said, they felt they’d seen a different side of Bosnia, and that’s exactly what we want to share.

    A Walk Through Banja Luka

    After the pools, we took a slow walk through Banja Luka. They were amazed by how clean and orderly the city felt, and by its fascinating blend of architectural styles: from sleek modern buildings, to the heavy, concrete lines from the Yugoslav period, to elegant Austro-Hungarian facades, and finally the older Ottoman houses.

    We passed a church where a small group of young people were singing under the guidance of a choir leader, a Syrian woman, an Orthodox Christian who now calls Bosnia home. Their voices carried beautifully through the evening air.

    I managed to pull out my phone and catch a rough recording, which is at the end of this podcast episode.

    Weather, Orchards, and Changing Seasons

    As I walk, I notice the brown patches in the grass, we’re still in the middle of very hot days, up in the mid-to-high thirties. Rain is expected tonight, and we’re hoping for a good, heavy downpour to quench the thirsty land.

    The weather patterns have shifted...

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    19 分
  • The Silence of Al Jazeera Balkans
    2025/07/14

    A Sad Farewell to an Important Voice

    Hello from Bosnia. Today, I want to share something that’s left me truly disappointed. A rare moment where I find it hard to keep my usual optimistic outlook.

    The End of Al Jazeera Balkans

    This past Saturday, 12 July, Al Jazeera Balkans closed its doors after almost 14 years of broadcasting. Whether you tuned in regularly or not, the channel has been a critical voice in the Western Balkans.A region where most media is tightly controlled by governments or big business interests. Al Jazeera Balkans stood out as an alternative, independent perspective, a place where tough questions were still asked.

    More Than Just Another Newsroom

    Of course, they had their own editorial stance. Every newsroom does. But what set them apart was their commitment to diverse, in-depth storytelling and their courage to challenge power. Over the years, they produced documentaries, investigative reports, and live debates that gave space to stories that might otherwise have been buried. And they did so in the languages of the region, from Serbian and Croatian to Bosnian and Macedonian, making their work accessible to so many.

    A Huge Loss for Media Freedom

    Officially, the closure came down to economic and organisational decisions from headquarters in Doha. But whatever the reason, the result is the same.One less independent voice, one less safe space for journalists, and fewer opportunities to hear all sides of the story.

    Around 200 staff are now without work, and in this fragile media environment, that is a devastating blow.

    Where Do We Go From Here?

    As someone who’s called this region home for over two decades, I’ve seen the struggles for media freedom up close. This feels like a big step backward. But despite this, I still believe in the region’s positive future.

    I’d love to hear your thoughts. Do you think there’s still space for independent journalism in the Balkans? Or are we slipping into a single echo chamber?

    Let’s keep the conversation going. Vidimo se opet.

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    5 分
  • A New Name, The Same Heart
    2025/06/29

    Welcome to Postcards from Bosnia.

    This morning, as I wandered through our small apple orchard here in Čardačani, I noticed apples scattered on the ground. Maybe it’s the heat, already 29 degrees and climbing to 32 today, but it got me thinking about change and cycles. As a sleek cyclist sped past, dressed head-to-toe in gear, it reminded me how life moves at different paces for everyone.

    Why the Name Change?

    After a lot of thought (and some gentle nudging from Tamara, my wife and biggest supporter), I’ve decided to rename my podcast from A Baby Boomer in Bosnia to Postcards from Bosnia. Tamara wisely pointed out that focusing on age might limit the audience. She encouraged me to share these stories more broadly, to anyone curious about life in Bosnia and Herzegovina beyond the guidebooks.

    I also ran a poll among my Substack subscribers, and the feedback was clear. It’s time to shift focus. Friends like Christian Payne echoed this, reminding me that age is just a number and that I should write for anyone eager to connect, not just my own generation.

    Reflections from Haarlem

    This change coincided with a refreshing trip to Haarlem in the Netherlands to visit my sister and brother-in-law. We traveled by bus from Banja Luka to Zagreb, flew to Amsterdam, and then took a local bus to Haarlem. For Tamara, it was her first time in the Netherlands, and she loved it.

    Haarlem felt like a perfect alternative to the bustle of Amsterdam.Full of beautiful old houses leaning gently after centuries on stilts, friendly people, and charming canals. We even took a short trip to Zandvoort to see the North Sea, a place close to my heart as a Brit. While I expected to feel waves of nostalgia, I was surprised to find no deep emotional tug. It reinforced my feeling of being an “in-betweener”. Not fully British anymore, yet not completely Bosnian either.


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  • By the Banks of the Turjanica
    2025/05/11

    A Stroll into Stillness

    It’s a bright Sunday, and I’ve taken a short wander, just a kilometre and a half from my front door, down through the fields, to the river Turjanica. No fancy kit today, just my mobile phone doubling as a microphone, minus a pop shield. The Turjanica gently winds its way near our village before slipping into the Vrbas a few bends downstream. The Vrbas itself journeys from the south of Bosnia all the way to the Croatian border.

    Unexpected Beauty

    The Turjanica isn’t always what you’d call a beauty spot. I remember one summer when it all but dried up, and I stumbled across a wild boar carcass lying in the dust. These riverbanks have seen their share of neglect, fly-tipping, plastic, and the like. But today? After some heavy rain and, oddly, a few truckloads of gravel, the place feels reborn. A makeshift beach has emerged, shingle and pebbles sculpted by the current. It’s not a resort by any stretch, but it’s oddly charming.

    Sounds and Silence

    I found a flat patch among the stones, stretched out on my bag, and hit record. The river’s chatter is now part of my sound archive. In that stillness, I imagined a folding chair, a parasol, maybe even a mobile grill. The idea of simple pleasures, undisturbed and honest. It has a magic of its own.

    A Nudge Back to Creativity

    I’ve not updated A Baby Boomer in Bosnia in over a month. Life gets in the way. But today, the swallows dancing overhead and the river’s quiet company reminded me why I do this. And if you’re someone over 40 or 50, thinking about podcasting but unsure where to begin, I’m sketching out a simple, affordable course that might just be for you.

    Looking Ahead

    Before the month’s out, I’ll be running a podcasting workshop in Banja Luka. But first, a trip to Skopje for some presentations—and a kind reminder from my hosts to take an extra night to rest. Something I’m finally learning to do.


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    17 分