In this episode of Not All There, host Chad Johnson sits down with Barney Whiter, one of the UK’s leading financial coaches, for an honest and revealing conversation about the connection between money, fear, and alcohol.

Speaking from his home just outside London, Barney opens up about how his drinking once fueled his drive and dulled his childhood anxieties around financial security—but at a cost. What started as a coping mechanism became abarrier to his health, his happiness, and his professional fulfillment.

Barney shares intimate details of what life was like before, during, and after his drinking, and how sobriety reshaped not only his relationship with alcohol, but also with money, purpose, and self-worth. If you've ever wonderedhow high-functioning professionals mask deep-rooted fears with booze—or how it feels to strip all that away and start again—this one’s for you.

This is a story of financial expertise, personal reckoning, and the clarity that comes when the fog lifts.

Takeaways

Barney Weider transitioned from finance to coaching after experiencing burnout.

He emphasizes the intersection of finance, career, and health in his coaching.

Burnout is a significant issue in modern work culture.

Barney's journey involved a 35-year drinking career that he reflects on critically.

He highlights the gradual nature of addiction and its creeping effects.

COVID-19 impacted many people's drinking habits, including his own.

Health scares prompted Barney to confront his alcohol use.

Self-awareness is crucial for personal growth and recovery.

Barney uses various techniques to help clients find their own paths.

The process of recovery is about discovery and understanding oneself.