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In this episode, host Tara McCausland and therapist Geoff Steurer discuss principles to help youth already caught in the trap of pornography and other problematic sexual behaviors. The episode focuses on providing guidance to parents on creating a supportive environment where children feel safe discussing their struggles. Geoff emphasizes the importance of a relationship-first approach, validating children's sexual curiosity and modeling self-compassion, relational repair, and open communication. Highlights include the encouragement for parents to own their own struggles around device use, pornography and sexuality, and teaching discernment over mere avoidance. The powerful impact of connection before correction is emphasized. The conversation also explores when professional help might be necessary, especially in cases of recurring or developing compulsive behavior. This episode underscores the importance of ongoing, open conversations and compassionate guidance in helping children navigate these challenges.

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This episode re-shares a foundational discussion with Dr. Anna Lembke, a leading expert in addiction medicine, on the importance of radical honesty in recovery. Dr. Lembke explains the neuroscience behind addiction, highlighting the roles of dopamine and the brain's pleasure-pain balance. The conversation also delves into the necessity of rigorous honesty for long-term recovery, the concept of dopamine fasting, and the benefits of pressing on the pain side to maintain sobriety. Additionally, the episode provides insights into the role of pro-social shame in motivating change and offers practical advice for newcomers and those in long-term recovery.

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00:00 Introduction and Episode Repost Announcement
01:09 The Importance of Honesty in Recovery
02:19 Upcoming Women's Workshop and Contact Information
03:13 Introduction to Dr. Anna Lemke
04:49 Understanding Addiction and the Brain
07:18 The Pleasure-Pain Balance
12:13 The Role of Radical Honesty in Recovery
22:16 Dopamine Fasting and Pressing on the Pain Side
33:22 The Concept of Pro-Social Shame
37:11 Final Thoughts and Advice for Newcomers and Veterans

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In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, co-host Justin B, has an interesting and meaningful conversation with Steve T., a recovering sex and multidisciplinary addict. They delve into the topic of rigorous honesty, a key piece of the new SAL recovery puzzle. The conversation highlights the importance of complete honesty in the recovery journey, addressing how self-deception and partial honesty can hinder true healing. Steve shares personal experiences, offering insights on the necessity of rigorous self-examination, acceptance, and turning outward to serve others as essential steps for lasting recovery. The episode also includes an introduction to the new SAL recovery book and puzzle, emphasizing the transformative power of God and community in overcoming addiction.

00:00 Introduction and Announcements

01:18 Guest Introduction: Meet Steve T

01:57 Understanding Multidisciplinary Addiction

04:27 The Root of Addiction: Selfishness and Self-Centeredness

06:22 The Solution: Connecting with God and Serving Others

10:37 The SAL Recovery Puzzle: Rigorous Honesty

13:34 The Importance of Rigorous Honesty in Recovery

26:29 Acceptance and Control in Recovery

37:40 Final Thoughts and Advice for Newcomers

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