• Men, save your marriage

  • 著者： Terry Ray
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Men, save your marriage

著者： Terry Ray
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  • Hello gentlemen and welcome to the ‘Men, Save Your Marriage Show’. My name is Terry, I’m your host. I did an autopsy on my failed marriage and now, I use the lessons I learned to help other men on how to save their marriage before it fails completely. I’m going to share with you the things I wish someone would have shared with me before my marriage failed. Each episode dives into the root causes of marital struggles, offering insights and strategies to reignite connections, rebuild trust, and become the leader your home needs. Whether you’re facing communication breakdowns, emotional distance, or just feel like your marriage is slipping away, I am here to guide you with wisdom, humor, and hard-earned lessons from my own journey. Your marriage isn’t over—this is the wake-up call you’ve been waiting for. Subscribe now, and let’s get to work saving your marriage!
    2024
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Hello gentlemen and welcome to the ‘Men, Save Your Marriage Show’. My name is Terry, I’m your host. I did an autopsy on my failed marriage and now, I use the lessons I learned to help other men on how to save their marriage before it fails completely. I’m going to share with you the things I wish someone would have shared with me before my marriage failed. Each episode dives into the root causes of marital struggles, offering insights and strategies to reignite connections, rebuild trust, and become the leader your home needs. Whether you’re facing communication breakdowns, emotional distance, or just feel like your marriage is slipping away, I am here to guide you with wisdom, humor, and hard-earned lessons from my own journey. Your marriage isn’t over—this is the wake-up call you’ve been waiting for. Subscribe now, and let’s get to work saving your marriage!
2024
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  • #32: When the Fire Fades – How to Rebuild Intimacy and Connection

    #32: When the Fire Fades – How to Rebuild Intimacy and Connection
    2025/04/17
    #32: When the Fire Fades – How to Rebuild Intimacy and Connection This episode is about what really kills intimacy in marriage—and how to start rebuilding it from the inside out. Welcome to Men, Save Your Marriage. This is Episode #32—and today, we kick off a brand-new 10-part series that might just change everything. It’s called Rebuilding Intimacy and Emotional Connection—because let’s be real, if your marriage feels cold, disconnected, and distant… you don’t need more tips. You need a wake-up call. You need a path forward. And you need to hear this: it’s not too late… but the clock is ticking. This episode is about what really kills intimacy in marriage—and how to start rebuilding it from the inside out. Spoiler: It doesn’t start in the bedroom. It starts with you. POINT 1: The Fire Didn’t Die Overnight—It Faded While You Weren’t Looking Most guys don’t realize intimacy is gone until it’s already dead. It doesn’t end with a bang. It ends with a drift. It’s the quiet moments: Long days at work. Nights on opposite sides of the couch. “Not tonight” turning into “not this month.” Silence where there used to be connection. And it’s the little decisions: Scrolling instead of engaging. Missing the shift in her eyes or her tone. Only touching her when you want something in return. Asking how she’s doing… but not really listening. Before long, you’re not lovers. You’re not even friends. You’re just roommates with shared bills and kids to raise. And then one day, you hear the words no man ever wants to hear: “I love you, but I’m not in love with you anymore.” “I feel numb.” “I just don’t feel close to you.” Listen to me: That didn’t happen last week. That’s erosion. That’s disconnection. That’s the death of intimacy—and it’s slow, silent, and deadly. But here’s the good news: if it faded, it can be reignited. POINT 2: Intimacy Is Not About Sex—It’s About Safety Here’s where most men get it wrong: You think, “If we could just have sex again, we’d feel close.” But she’s thinking, “If I could just feel close again, then I’d want sex.” You’re not speaking different love languages. You’re living in different universes. For her, intimacy = emotional safety. She needs to know: She can speak the truth without getting shut down. You see her heart—not just her body. She matters even when she’s not meeting your expectations. If she doesn’t feel emotionally safe with you, sex feels forced. Pressured. Or just another task. Trying to negotiate for more sex without rebuilding trust is like planting seeds on concrete and wondering why nothing grows. So what’s the real soil for intimacy? Listening without fixing. Pursuing her heart without agenda. Showing up consistently without expecting a gold star. Forget grand gestures. It’s the quiet consistency that melts ice. POINT 3: Stop Waiting. Start Leading. Here’s where most men fail: They wait for her to warm up before they pursue her again. That’s not leadership. That’s passivity. You go first. Even when she’s cold. Even when she’s guarded. Even when she seems done. Not with desperation—but with direction. Not by begging—but by becoming the man who: Is emotionally grounded. Leads himself first. Pursues her without pressure. Stays patient without being passive. Shows up like clockwork, not just on special occasions. She’s not pushing you away out of cruelty—she’s protecting herself from more pain. So your job? Create an atmosphere where it’s finally safe to come close again. That means: Owning your mistakes without excuse. Healing your wounds instead of bleeding on her. Leading with humility, not ego. That is how intimacy is rebuilt. Your marriage isn’t where you want it to be. Maybe it’s on life support. Maybe the silence in your house is louder than the arguments used to be. Maybe your wife has checked out emotionally—or you have. Listen, I’ve been there. And if you’re ready to stop watching your marriage die and actually do something about it— I’ve got something brand new for you: It’s called the 7-Day Marriage Reset Challenge. MenSaveYourMarriage.com/reset WRAP-UP: This Is Sacred Ground Real intimacy doesn’t explode into your marriage. It’s rebuilt in moments: A calm tone when she’s harsh. A soft touch without expectation. A handwritten note that says, “I see you.” A conversation where she feels safe to tell the truth. This is slow work. But it’s sacred work. And it starts with you. You are not powerless. You are not stuck. And you are not done—unless you choose to be. Become the man she can trust again—and the flame can come back. Not because you pressured her… But because you changed the atmosphere. CALL TO ACTION If this hit you in the chest today, don’t just nod and move on. Subscribe to the podcast. Leave a review to help other men find this. And go to...
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  • #31 Special Episode – Announcing the 7-Day Marriage Reset Challenge

    #31 Special Episode – Announcing the 7-Day Marriage Reset Challenge
    2025/04/10
    #31 Special Episode – Announcing the 7-Day Marriage Reset Challenge


    Hey fellas—real quick episode today, but it might just be the most important one I’ve dropped yet.

    If you’ve been listening to this podcast for a while, then you already know what this is about.
    Your marriage isn’t where you want it to be. Maybe it’s on life support.
    Maybe the silence in your house is louder than the arguments used to be.
    Maybe your wife has checked out emotionally—or you have.

    Listen, I’ve been there.
    And if you’re ready to stop watching your marriage die and actually do something about it—
    I’ve got something brand new for you:

    It’s called the 7-Day Marriage Reset Challenge.

    And it’s not fluff.
    This isn’t just “say something nice to your wife today” and pretend that’s going to fix years of damage.
    This challenge is built for men who are willing to look in the mirror, take real action, and start turning the ship around—fast.

    Here’s how it works:

    Every day for 7 days, I’m going to walk you through one critical move.
    One shift that will help reset your mindset, reconnect with your wife, and start changing the momentum in your home.

    • Day 1 is a wake-up call.

    • Day 2 starts rebuilding connection.

    • Day 3 hits the brakes on resentment and blame.

    • And by Day 7? You’ll have a real plan, built on real action.

    You can do it on your phone.
    It’s self-guided. No excuses.

    You’ll get:

    • A downloadable challenge PDF

    • A daily email for 7 days to guide you

    • And a chance to go deeper into coaching if you're ready for more.

    Here’s what I want you to do next:

    Head to

    MenSaveYourMarriage.com/reset


    and start the challenge right now.
    Don’t bookmark it. Don’t wait for the “right time.”
    Your marriage can’t afford for you to put this off anymore.

    You’ve tried doing nothing.
    You’ve tried just surviving.
    Let’s try something that actually works.

    Wrap-Up:

    If you’re listening to this, you’re not too far gone.
    If you’ve still got a pulse, your marriage still has a chance.
    But it won’t fix itself.

    Let’s reset your marriage in the next 7 days—
    Starting today.

    Join the challenge at

    MenSaveYourMarriage.com/reset

    I’ll see you on Day 1.
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  • #30: Mastering Communication in Marriage: Creating a Culture of Open and Honest Communication

    #30: Mastering Communication in Marriage: Creating a Culture of Open and Honest Communication
    2025/04/04
    #30: Mastering Communication in Marriage: Creating a Culture of Open and Honest Communication Let’s get real— Communication isn’t a one-time fix. It’s not something you “check off” like taking out the trash. And it’s definitely not a bandaid for deeper wounds. Communication is a culture. It’s the heartbeat of your marriage. And like any culture, it doesn’t just happen—it’s built. Brick by brick. Word by word. Moment by moment. In this final episode of our communication series, I’m handing you the blueprint for a marriage that doesn’t just survive the storms—but thrives in truth, trust, and deep emotional connection. This is how we move from silence and surface-level exchanges… To real talk. Real connection. Real love. 1: Make Space for It Let me hit you with something bold: You can’t have connection without intention. That’s the truth. You will not drift into meaningful communication. It doesn’t happen accidentally. It happens on purpose. Life is loud. The kids are screaming, work is never-ending, and the to-do list keeps growing. If you don’t fight for space to connect, the chaos of life will choke out your conversations. Here’s what works—and it’s so simple, it’s almost offensive: Pick a time. I recommend Sunday night. Just 15 to 20 minutes. No phones. No TV. No distractions. Just the two of you—face to face, heart to heart. It’s not therapy. It’s a reset. It’s you saying, “Hey… how are we really doing?” Let me tell you about Mike and Lisa—one of the couples I coached. They were living in survival mode. Kids, work, bills, schedules—it was like a business partnership, not a marriage. They hadn’t had a real conversation in months. So I challenged them to set a weekly check-in. First week? It was awkward. Like a middle school dance. Second week? Lisa cried. She finally let it out: “I feel like I don’t matter to you anymore.” And Mike? He just listened. That night changed everything. You want that kind of connection? Then make space for it. This week, say to your wife: “Can we carve out time—just us—to check in weekly?” Then ask simple but powerful questions: “How are we doing?” “What’s been weighing on you this week?” “How can I support you better?” When she knows there’s room for her voice, she’ll start using it. And when you start making that space sacred… That’s when your marriage shifts from chaos to connection. 2: Model the Honesty You want openness from her? Then you go first. You’ve got to model what you want to multiply. Because leadership in marriage isn’t about control—it’s about courage. Start small. Start real. “I’ve been feeling overwhelmed at work lately.” “I’ve been worried we’re not really connecting.” “I miss how things used to be between us.” That’s not weakness. That’s strength. That’s emotional leadership. Let me tell you about Sean. When he came to me, his wife was completely shut down emotionally. Cold. Distant. Disconnected. He kept trying to fix it with logic and advice. Didn’t work. Finally, I told him: “Forget solutions. Just open your heart.” So one night, he looked her in the eye and said: “I’m scared we’re drifting apart. I don’t want to lose what we have.” And that cracked her open. For the first time in months, she responded—not with sarcasm or silence—but with vulnerability. She said, “Me too.” Study after study shows that when men take the lead with vulnerability, their wives respond with trust and openness. It’s like a key turning in a lock. So here’s your challenge this week: Say one honest thing that matters. Then follow it with: “That’s where I’m at. How are you doing?” That’s not just a conversation—that’s connection. And connection is the oxygen of your marriage. 3: Celebrate the Wins Here’s something most guys miss: When she finally opens up—when she takes that risk to be honest—don’t brush it off. Don’t shift the topic. Don’t fix it. Don’t minimize it. Honor it. That’s gold. You want her to keep talking? You want her to feel safe with you again? Then celebrate the moment. Say things like: “Thank you for sharing that with me.” “I love when you open up like that.” “That means a lot—I’m glad you told me.” You’re not just flattering her. You’re reinforcing a behavior. You’re saying: This is safe. You can do this again. Let me tell you about Tom. Tom’s wife barely spoke. Everything was “fine.” Until one night, she vented—just a little—about feeling overwhelmed with the kids and the house. Tom didn’t fix it. He didn’t jump in with advice. He said: “It means a lot that you shared that with me. I’m here.” Guess what happened the next night? She talked again. And again. Why? Because he rewarded her vulnerability with safety—not solutions. Science backs this up: positive reinforcement doubles the likelihood of open ...
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    21 分

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