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Meet Bryant. He’s just landed a new Senior Director role at a pharmaceutical company, but instead of feeling elated, he’s staring out the window, consumed by nerves and self-doubt. Over the past 5 years, Bryant has faced 3 layoffs, each one forcing him to ask hard questions: What went wrong? Was it office politics, bad luck, or something he’s missing? Now, as he prepares for his new role, Bryant reflects on his past and wonders how to avoid repeating the same mistakes. He’s determined to find a new path to success. Jay sits down with Dr. Clara Seeger to uncover how Bryant can tackle his emotional hurdles and emerge as a more balanced leader. Dr. Seeger, a specialist in mindfulness and executive coaching, offers invaluable insights on managing emotions and enhancing leadership skills. Tune in to discover the power of sustainable well-being, self-compassion, and mindfulness practices in improving leadership effectiveness and overall emotional health. In This Episode: (00:00) Bryant’s story (01:11) Bryant's first layoff (01:41) COVID layoff (02:22) Realization after layoffs (02:47) Introduction of Dr. Clara Seeger (03:47) Clara's background in banking (08:31) Cultivating a balanced mind (09:40) Pursuit of happiness (14:35) Bryant's emotional struggles (16:59) Bryant's lack of self-awareness as a key issue in his leadership (20:04) Neuroscience of emotional triggers (23:46) Neuroplasticity and emotional regulation (25:13) Five finger breathing technique (27:22) The importance of redirecting attention (28:09) Self-compassion practices (30:14) Understanding cause and effect (33:25) Identifying with feelings (37:05) Formal vs. informal mindfulness practices (40:30) Recommended practices for Bryant (47:06) Maintaining awareness throughout the day (52:31) The habit of self-reflection (53:23) Insights on wellbeing (53:31) Self-awareness and triggers (54:51) Letting go of feelings (55:58) Five finger breathing technique (55:58) Three-step mindfulness practice (55:58) Maintaining a portion of attention on oneself during interactions Notable Quotes [25:47] “The beauty of this practice is that it really calms down your nervous system, which is obviously in a very heightened state when we are anxious and stressed.” — Dr. Clara Seeger [28:31] “One of the things that becomes a big issue for them is how harsh they are towards themselves, how they beat themselves up so much. Oh, you did it again. Oh, you're going to do it again. You're going to fail.” — Jay Abbasi [29:05] “Compassion practice is really important in the sense of getting in touch with the moment of suffering that is experiencing and noticing the judgments, and normalizing that, accepting that this is a moment of suffering.” — Dr. Clara Seeger [50:19] “When we are angry, look at the anger. Don't look at the person who's triggered the anger because they're only triggering. Turn our awareness back onto ourselves and say, what's happening in my own mind?” — Dr. Clara Seeger [53:31] “Sustainable well-being is something that we cultivate from within, with practices such as gratitude, mindfulness, and compassion.” — Jay Abbasi [55:58] “Bringing 10 to 20% of your attention to yourself throughout the day helps cultivate self-awareness and makes it habitual.” — Jay Abbasi Our Guest Dr. Clara Seeger is a distinguished accredited coach, corporate facilitator, speaker, and author. She partners with international companies and individuals to deliver transformative mindfulness interventions, cutting-edge neuroscience-based leadership development, and personalized executive coaching. Her work empowers leaders and teams to achieve exceptional growth and resilience in today’s dynamic environment. Resources and Links Unstuck Podcast Website Jay Abbasi Website LinkedIn Instagram Facebook YouTube Dr. Clara Seeger Website LinkedIn Mentioned Judson Brewer's YouTube Video on Five Finger Breathing Mindfulness at Work in a Week