Summary

In this episode of Queer and Here, host Alicia Nolan engages in a heartfelt conversation with Alex Vaughan, a trans non-binary individual and fitness professional. They discuss the importance of allyship in the fitness industry, the journey of coming out later in life, and the challenges faced as a transgender parent navigating the court system. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and advocacy for the LGBTQ community, particularly in the context of mental health and wellness. In this conversation, Alex Vaughan discusses their journey in creating the podcast 'I Swear I'm Real,' aimed at uplifting the trans and non-binary community. They emphasize the importance of safe spaces, representation, and advocacy within the LGBTQ community. The discussion also touches on personal experiences with hate, family dynamics, and the significance of shifting the narrative from 'What's wrong with you?' to 'What happened to you?' Alex shares insights on setting boundaries, navigating narcissistic family systems, and the importance of teaching children about healthy relationships. The conversation concludes with empowering advice for the LGBTQ community to stay loud and authentic.

Takeaways

-Allyship in fitness is crucial for creating inclusive environments. -Coming out is a continuous journey for many individuals. -Trans parents face unique challenges in the court system. -It's important to believe and support trans youth in their identities. -Compassion and empathy are key in understanding trans experiences. -The court system often fails to protect trans rights. -Transphobia is prevalent and often goes unrecognized. -Creating safe spaces is crucial for the LGBTQ community. -Representation in media helps individuals feel less alone. -Supporting queer businesses is essential for community growth. -Experiencing hate can motivate advocacy and activism. -Shifting the narrative to 'What happened to you?' fosters understanding. -Boundaries are vital for mental health and self-care. -Understanding family dynamics can aid in personal healing. -Teaching children about healthy relationships is necessary. -Staying loud and authentic is empowering for the LGBTQ community.

To follow Alex: @coachalexvaughan in IG, FB, and TikTok

www.coachalexvaughan.com

Podcast: I Swear I'm Real

Podcast: How To Be Queer!

Van Ethan Levy: https://vanethanlevy.com