Will Consensual Non Monogamy (CNM) ever replace traditional monogamy and marriage? I explore the concept of open relationships and polyamory, discussing its implications, challenges, and the reasons why traditional marriage remains prevalent. These are five different reasons CNM will never replace traditional marriage/relationships based on stats, research, and personal experience. I emphasize the emotional complexities involved in sexual relationships and the societal perceptions surrounding non-traditional arrangements. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead? Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Understanding Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) 02:29 #5: CNM Favors Women 04:50 #4: CNM Adds Complexity 07:26 #3: Flawed Family Dynamics 09:20 #2: Social Stigma of CNM 10:20 #1: Sex Is Complicated 12:45 Summary and My Thoughts

Let’s talk sex! In this episode, I discuss the concept of boring “scheduled sex” and how it can be transformed into exciting sex dates. I emphasize the importance of scheduling intimacy in busy lives, the need for communication, and the benefits of anticipation in maintaining a healthy sexual relationship. I provide practical tips on how to create the right environment for sex dates and when to schedule them for maximum enjoyment.

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What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?

Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.

Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1

Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠

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Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

Chapters

00:00 Sex Dates vs. Scheduled Sex

01:48 Why Sex Dates?

02:49 When Should You Have Sex Dates?

05:14 Where Can You Have Sex Dates?

08:00 Important Tips

12:55 Have Fun!

Infidelity is one of, if not the worst thing that can happen in marriage. In this episode, I discuss the complex issue of infidelity in marriages. I highlight the six most common ways affairs begin based on my past coaching experience. I stress the importance of understanding the impact of infidelity on relationships and the necessity of setting boundaries to prevent these situations. I explain my strong stance against cheating and advocate for honesty and communication in relationships. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead? Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. Check out “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:07 Old Boyfriend/Girlfriend 02:02 Neighbor 02:55 Kids Sports 04:44 Friend of Spouse 06:10 The Gym 07:48 Coworkers 10:45 My Perspective of Infidelity

I discuss the pitfalls of texting in relationships, emphasizing the importance of face-to-face communication. I highlight how texting can lead to misunderstandings due to the lack of non-verbal cues and tone. I share personal experiences and generational perspectives on communication, offering practical advice for maintaining healthy relationships.

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What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?

Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.

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Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

I recently listened to a female therapist in a podcast saying “Marriage makes your lover a relative.” I completely disagree. In this episode, I discuss the complexities of marriage, emphasizing the importance of maintaining attraction, prioritizing relationships, and navigating the challenges of parenthood. I argue against the notion that marriage diminishes romantic connection, advocating for continuous effort and individuality within the partnership. I share personal insights from my 20 years of marriage, highlighting the need for couples to prioritize their relationship and maintain a loving environment for their children. Chapters 00:00 Challenging Conventional Marriage Wisdom 01:58 The Importance of Prioritizing Your Relationship 02:50 Maintain Your Individuality in Marriage 03:40 Don’t Forget to Date Your Spouse 04:42 Navigating Parenthood and Marriage 06:45 Maintain Connection in Marriage 08:00 Maintain Your Sense of Self _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead? Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

In this heartfelt episode, I reflect on the tragic murder of Brian Thompson, the United Healthcare CEO whose death deeply affected the central Iowa community where we both grew up. I share my personal memories of Brian, discuss the tribute article I wrote that went viral, and critique the negative responses it received. I explore the broader implications of social media on society, emphasizing the need for empathy and human connection in a world increasingly driven by online interactions. I conclude with a call to action for listeners to engage positively with their communities and to remember the humanity behind the headlines.

Chapters

00:00 Remembering Brian Thompson

03:31 The Impact of Social Media on Public Perception

09:48 The Dangers of Online Discourse

14:40 A Call for Humanity and Connection

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What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?

Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.

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Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

In this episode, I explore the evolution of marriage over the past century, discussing historical, cultural, and technological changes that have shaped modern relationships. Topics include the impact of the Industrial Revolution, agriculture changes, the sexual revolution, no-fault divorce, and technology. I also address the economic independence of women and the influence of technology on dating and relationships. While marriage has changed, it is not dead! I offer insights into how to navigate modern relationships successfully.

Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:55 Industrial Revolution

03:01 Early 1900s: Cultural Shifts

04:20 WWII and the Baby Boom

05:25 Hormonal Birth Control

06:45 1970s: No-Fault Divorce

07:45 Women in the Workforce

08:30 Gen X and Latchkey Kids

11:25 Mass Exodus of Rural Areas

13:10 Tech Boom and Its Effects

15:27 2000s and Social Media

16:58 2007: Smartphones

18:40 Dating Apps

20:08 Summary and Consequences

24:00 Marriage isn't Dead! It Just Changed

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What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead?

Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.

For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠

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In this episode, I tell another story detailing what life-long love looks like. Many people don’t know what healthy relationships look like. I share insights on what constitutes a healthy relationship and the essence of long-lasting love. I emphasize the importance of recognizing real-life examples of love in your everyday life. Marriage is beautiful when approached with care and commitment. One of my main goals is to inspire others to seek meaningful connections and to appreciate the depth of love that can be achieved in a committed relationship. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Healthy Relationships 00:48 The Elderly Couple 02:40 The Value of Marriage _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn’t Dead? Marriage Isn’t Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠