Have you ever wondered why God created both the Tree of Life and the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil? In this episode, we explore the story of Adam and Eve in Genesis, and take a biblical look at God’s design for relationship, freedom, and the human will—and how it all connects to the way we lead and love our kids.

You’ll learn:

• Why the existence of love requires the freedom to make a choice
• The deeper meaning behind the two trees in the Garden of Eden
• How God parents us through love, not force
• Why true obedience only grows in the soil of connection

Why do kids push back, resist, or seem downright defiant when we try to get them to obey? In this episode, we explore the concept of counterwill—the instinctive resistance to being controlled—and how it plays a critical role in your child's development, autonomy, and attachment.

You’ll learn:

• Why coercion and manipulation often backfire in parenting
• How healthy attachment creates true influence
• What to do when your child resists—even over simple things
• The difference between power and leverage
• Practical ways to gain your child’s attention, respect, and cooperation without bribes, punishments, or power struggles

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of conflict, this episode will help you shift from control to connection—and rediscover the real power of relationship-based parenting.

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Words have power — not just emotionally, but neurologically. In this episode, we explore how the words we use impacts brain development, emotional connection, and relational safety. Whether you're a parent, spouse, educator, or friend, understanding the science of words can transform how you communicate and connect.

In this episode we covered:

• The forming of neural pathways
• How words affect our relational connection
• How to repair relational bonds when our words are damaging
• Why our day-to-day language matters more than we think

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