In this episode, I talk about the complexity of the phrase "You are so strong" and the varied emotions it can evoke for Widows navigating the grieving process. Initially, it can feel more like a burden than a compliment, especially in the acute stages of grief.

It's easy to interpret these words as pressure to hide our vulnerability and minimize our pain for the sake of others. However, as time passes, we may come to see this phrase in a more positive light.

It's not about pretending to be strong; it's about recognizing the courage it takes to face each day without our loved ones. Despite the tears shed and the struggles faced, every step forward is a testament to our strength and resilience.

So, while we may not always feel strong, we can acknowledge the bravery it takes to keep moving forward on our widow journey. And one day, we may even see ourselves as strong as others perceive us to be.

As always, Widow Your Way ❤️

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What happens when you're faced with the dual trials of terminal illness and profound grief?

This episode is a deeply personal update of my journey through Stage IV Cancer and the emotional echoes of losing my husband, as I grapple with confronting my mortality and the complex layers of grief that come with it.

This is a great example of feeling like you are finally moving forward in life and how moments of intense grief can still linger, casting shadows over your achievements.

Join me for an honest conversation about how I'm trying to once again find strength, joy, and comfort amidst the isolating and exhausting realities of living with Stage IV cancer and widowhood.

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Have you ever felt like the weight of grief could define your entire existence?

In this episode, I'm here to shake things up and challenge the traditional narrative of widowhood. It's time to reclaim the journey as our own and recognize that being a widow doesn't solely revolve around our deceased husbands. Yes, we honor their memory, but we also have a life to live.

Widowhood is a chapter, not the entire book of your life and being a widow doesn't define us; it propels us forward into the next chapter of our lives. We must remember that our happiness matters too, and our late husbands would want us to find joy and purpose. It's about shifting our perspective on grief and embracing the opportunities for growth and fulfillment.

So, let's not just survive but thrive and truly live with intention as you Widow Your Way ❤️

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Join me on the Season 5 premiere as we finally get down to business on what it means to "Widow Your Way"

In this episode we are going to talk about the Widow Journey, emphasizing one crucial truth: You are not dead, just your husband!

It's time to embrace your loss, your life, and your purpose!

Whether you're still in the depths of grief or ready to explore new possibilities, this episode is a reminder that the widow journey is about YOU. It's about evolving into the person you were always meant to be, honoring your past while stepping boldly into the future.

It's How to Widow Your Way ❤️

Season 3 Episode 8: In Mourning and Discovery: A Widow's Journey
Oops! I misquoted the title of this episode but it is about grieving the loss of yourself.

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The microphone feels different this time! As I struggle with my ongoing battle against cancer, I'm reflecting on this podcast and direction it's taking. I feel the need now more than ever to be more clear with my message and purpose.

So far Widow Your Way has been more of an expression or feeling of empowerment for Widows, but not put into clear words.

I have never wanted to be someone who gives Widow advice. There are no step-by-step guides here, no one-size-fits-all remedies—just the honest, often messy, chronicles of learning to trust myself on this Widow Journey.

I love the quote by Brene Brown, "One day you will tell your story of how you've overcome what you're going through now, and it will become part of someone else's survival guide"

This podcast has always been meant as a guide for you to discover your own unique path to living happily even after. Widow your way is about trusting yourself and making your own rules.

Your Widow Journey. Your Loss. Your Life. Your Purpose.

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Growing up, I struggled with the concept of gratitude, feeling pressure to be thankful without truly understanding its depth. As a widow, this struggle intensified when faced with societal pressure to be grateful.

I share personal experiences of downplaying my grief and masking my emotions to appear strong. This is a common struggle among widows – feeling the need to put on a facade while silently battling with our grief.

Reflecting on my journey, I realized the importance of finding balance between honoring grief and embracing gratitude. It's about allowing both to coexist. True gratitude, I've learned, comes from acknowledging and feeling all emotions, even the painful ones.

This episode was inspired by my recent guest appearance on the Hilistically Speaking Podcast with Hilary Russo, who had me opening up in unexpected ways.

You can listen to our episode Ep145 - Widow Your Way from Grief to Resilience with Rebecca Johnson on Hilistically Speaking Podcast Page / Apple Podcasts / Spotify / You Tube

You may also want to listen to The Purpose Filter Podcast with Kathy Zhang. The Sneaky Way You're Doing Gratitude Wrong And How To Fix It Instead.

As always, Widow Your Way ❤️

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In this deeply personal episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on a relationship journey that's been anything but easy. Over the past few years, I've stumbled, learned, and grown through the rollercoaster of love, loss, and self-discovery.

From swiping right to clinging onto hope, I'm sharing the raw, unfiltered moments of navigating romance amidst grief. It's a candid look into the messy reality of dating after loss, where red flags are waved, boundaries are blurred, and self-worth is tested.

But amidst the chaos, there's a glimmer of truth: the most important love story begins with loving oneself. Join me as I lay bare my heart and soul, inviting you into the ups, downs, and everything in between on the journey to finding that love isn't dead, but it begins with honoring myself.

As always, Widow Your Way ❤️

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A Valentine's Day Special ✨💖

Today's episode is all about love, laughter, and a little bit of magic – because sometimes, love finds us in the most unexpected of places. Join me as I share a heartwarming love story that holds a special place in my heart.

In a two part series, I'll take you on a journey through my experiences navigating the complexities of dating and relationships as a widow. Though the road may have been bumpy at times, each encounter has taught me invaluable lessons about love, loss, and the resilience of the human heart.

So grab your favorite beverage, cozy up, and prepare to be swept away by a tale of love, laughter, and the beauty of second chances.

As always, Widow Your Way ❤️

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