Do you catch yourself deferring to others for things you could easily handle yourself—from what to eat, asking others to fix things that break, or constantly asking your spouse where your damn phone is?

This episode is your invitation to reconnect with your inner authority.

In a world full of opinions, expectations, and endless advice, taking responsibility for your capacity and capabilities requires effort — especially around food decisions and your food lifestyle. Today, I’m talking about self-reliance: how to cultivate it, why we outsource it, and why reclaiming it can shift everything from your weight loss journey to your confidence in everyday life.

You’ll learn:
✅ Why over-relying on others erodes your self-trust
✅ How to stop mirroring other people’s eating habits and follow your own cues
✅ The emotional payoff of solving “small” problems yourself
✅ What self-reliance really means (hint: it’s not isolation)
✅ How this one skill helps you feel calmer, clearer, and more in control—especially when life gets chaotic
✅ A two-week challenge to help you build your self-reliance muscle in easy, empowering ways

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Self-reliance doesn’t mean doing everything alone. It means learning to trust yourself first.

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If you’ve ever struggled to follow through on a plan you were totally committed to in the moment… this episode is for you.

Whether it’s your eating habits, exercise routine, or just showing up for yourself, real transformation doesn’t come from being perfect—it comes from building the skill of follow-through, especially when life gets “farkakte” (Yiddish for covered in shit).

In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly why follow-through is so hard—and how to make it feel easier, more sustainable, and even enjoyable.

You’ll learn:
✅ Why habit change starts with interrupting your automatic patterns
✅ The dopamine trap that keeps you stuck in a negative self-image
✅ How to shift from “planning mode” to actually doing the thing
✅ The surprising connection between follow-through and self-trust
✅ What to do when life derails your best-laid plans
✅ Why small wins matter more than perfect plans
✅ How to become the “CEO” of your weight loss journey

This episode isn’t about doing more—it’s about doing the right things consistently in a way that actually feels doable in real life.

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Today’s podcast is an honest, personal, and experiential-informed conversation about my experience with crash dieting, chronic stress, perimenopause and hormone replacement therapy (HRT). I tell you about how and why I chose HRT when I was navigating perimenopause, dealing with burnout, and struggling to lose weight—even while doing “everything right.”

You’ll walk away from this episode knowing how restrictive dieting affected my body and hormones and how I sought answers and navigated my way through it. My hope is that in sharing my story and what I’ve learned in the process you might yourself become a more empowered to advocate for your health and well being during peri/menopause and beyond.

**You’ll learn:**
✅ What HRT is and why it’s so misunderstood
✅ How menopause impacts metabolism, mood, and weight
✅ The hidden damage of under-eating and extreme dieting on hormones
✅ How I used HRT to reverse hot flashes, and extremely disruptive sleep issues
✅ Why finding the *right* doctor matters—and how to start that conversation
✅ What the Women’s Health Initiative got wrong—and what that means for you today
✅ How to track your symptoms and create a personalized plan

If you are struggling I want you to know that there are options to help you feel better. You deserve to understand your body and what it needs.. I hope this episode be the beginning of a helpful conversation and a beautiful journey for you!

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🎁 Become a VIP Subscriber at HBeardsley.com/subscribe
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Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.