It can be very easy to allow ourselves to be taken for granted or even abused, when we are in a relationship, because we want it to succeed so much, we often put up with behaviour that is detrimental to us without even realising it.

From the podcast: "Even when some women (and men) actually feel that they are a low option for their lovers, partners, or bosses, that they come last in the diary, the schedule, the job, and the scheme of things, they still hang in there taking the crumbs that fall off the table, instead of being the main bread themselves. Such a situation, where the relationship is clearly imbalanced and one-sided, is not good for either person."

Elaine explains the negative effects iof just being an option in this episode.

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You might believe that the way people treat you is entirely dependent on what they think of you. That is true in part. But there is something else about you, personally, that really triggers their reaction, often without you even knowing.

This podcast explains what it is.

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Are you the type of person who is afraid to fulfil your own needs because you tend to put others above you? To treat them more than human, and to think you are not worthy of them? 

Do you find it difficult to articulate your own needs, especially to ask someone out? You could find this podcast useful. Learn about what could be blocking your attempts, and how to get rid of them.

Give yourself the chance to build relationships confidently with the help of this episode.

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