For the next few weeks Dave and Bethlie are taking an important break in order to focus on moving into their new home and also to enable them freedom to serve their community as it continues to deal with the recent tornados that negatively impacted their town of Poplar Bluff. They will resume normal programming very soon.

In the meantime, please enjoy this rewind episode which is part 1 of a series entitled The Challenging Seasons of Life.

Join Dave and Bethlie as the discuss a sensitive yet prevalent issue in our culture today.

What do you do when your child has been caught viewing porn?

1. Be thankful for the "caught"
2. Be matter of fact
3. Begin the conversation

1. What happened?
2. How long has this been happening?
3. What have you been viewing?
4. How did you access it?

Be willing to disciple for the long haul

1. Psalm 119:9-11

1. God's Word cleanses us
2. God'w Word strengthens us to victory

5. Take time to evaluate

1. Is there a failure in the home?
2. Is there a fault that can be corrected?
3. Is there a failure in your teaching?

1. Have you had conversations about sexuality?
2. About porn?
3. About what to do when you see porn?

6. Take time to grow the relationship

Part 3:

3. Be wise in your approach

1. 1. Questions that should be asked before a relationship becomes serious
      1. Not all of these are deal breakers, but they need wise examination and counsel
      2. Your spiritual testimony
         1. No Unequal yoke with someone who is not a believer
      3. Virginity
      4. Porn
      5. Drugs/alcohol
      6. Debt
   2. Your friends saw the red flags. Your family voiced their concerns. But you were so caught up in the excitement of new love that you missed all the warning signs. Now you’re stuck in a relationship that’s making you absolutely miserable.
   3. Why does this happen? According to researchers at University College London, “feelings of love lead to a suppression of activity in the areas of the brain controlling critical thought.” In other words, love can not only make you blind, but stupid.
   4. So, how can you keep your brain switched on while dating and dodge potential bullets in the realm of romance? According to relationship expert Dr. John Van Epp, author of How to Avoid Falling in Love With a Jerk, it’s about using both your head and your heart by taking the time to understand your partner’s F.A.C.E.S.
      1. There are areas you should examine
         1. Family Dynamics and Background
         2. Attitudes and Actions of a Mature Conscience
         3. Compatibility Potential
         4. Examples of Previous Friendship or Relationship Patterns
         5. Skills for Relationships