Like it or not, small talk is part of life. And whether you love it or dread it, it helps to have some gravitas going into the room.

In this episode of In Confidence, Lisa shares how to approach small talk with intention so you’re not just getting through it, but actually making the most of it. Whether you’re at a networking event, a wedding where you barely know anyone, or like Lisa, your college reunion, these moments can turn into something meaningful.

What you'll get from this episode:

• The mindset shift that makes walking into a room feel less intimidating.

• 5 tips to help you make real connections.

• How to move from surface chatter to something that feels more personal.

• Plus, our downloadable PDF guide to help you prep before your next event.

Small talk isn’t about filling the silence. It’s about creating something real.

00:00 Intro

00:59 Why Small Talk Matters More Than You Think

02:15 Resetting Your Mindset

04:10 5 Tips To Master Small Talk

09:50 Final Thoughts and a Free Downloadable PDF

10:45 Outro

11:09 Disclaimer

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Have you ever been called bossy, cold, or intimidating at work? Or been told you're too quiet to lead? In this episode of In Confidence, we unpack the triple standard women face at work and how it affects how we’re perceived, promoted, and valued. Through personal stories, surprising research, and tactical ways to reframe the narrative, Lisa shares how the Leading superpower can be both your greatest strength and your most misunderstood quality. Learn how to expand the scorecard for success, advocate for yourself in real time, and lead with both clarity and connection.

Let’s redefine what leadership really looks like.

00:00 Intro

00:43 Defining the Triple Standard

02:58 The Hidden Bias Behind Promotion

03:57 Expanding the Scorecard and Helping Women Embrace and Appreciate Their Superpowers

05:40 How to Respond When You've Been Called Bossy

10:04 Balancing Leadership with Connection

13:46 Final Thoughts: You're Not Bossy, You're Leading

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