In this episode, we start with some lighthearted conversation about recent events, including a T-Pain and Akon concert we attended, where we had both a fun and frustrating time dealing with a Lactaid mishap and questionable opening acts. We share laughs about the unpredictable experiences, such as dealing with unexpected stomach issues despite taking extra Lactaid, and the unconventional music choices from the event’s DJ.

Later, we shift into a playful “Would You Rather” game, tackling a series of funny and bizarre questions that spark debates between us. From deciding between being too hot or too cold, living in a haunted house, giving up showering, or picking between money and time, each prompt brings out our differing perspectives and quirks. The game brings plenty of laughs and reveals our personalities, preferences, and some relatable challenges that come with daily life and parenting.

Overall, the episode mixes humor with some real talk, giving listeners a glimpse into our lives and a break from the usual discussions with a fun, lighthearted episode.

In this episode, we welcome everyone and share how excited we are about the podcast's growth and the support from our listeners. We dive into some quirky news, starting with a bizarre festival in Colorado celebrating tarantula mating season, which one of us finds unsettling. We joke about how places with strange animal sightings, like Australia, are off our travel lists. The conversation takes a humorous turn as we imagine scenarios like finding raccoons or spiders overtaking a house, leading to exaggerated plans for immediate escape. Then, we shift gears to discuss a more personal, serious topic—raising our son, Ryker, who has ADHD, OCD, and anxiety, and might be on the autism spectrum. We talk candidly about the unique challenges we've faced since he was born, including his early birth and time in the NICU, which contributed to his sensitivity to noise and sleep struggles. Unlike our older son, Ryker struggled with milestones like crawling and walking and displayed specific preferences and phobias, such as his intense fear of ants and dogs. Our journey with Ryker has been filled with ups and downs, from his challenging behavior to managing his sleep and dietary needs. At times, it felt isolating and exhausting. We share about seeking help from pediatricians and specialists, who offered advice but limited solutions. These experiences shaped our perspective on parenting a child with special needs, inspiring us to share our story in hopes of connecting with others facing similar journeys.

In this episode, we kicked things off by diving into some random and bizarre news stories. One that really stood out was about a Russian man lost at sea for 67 days—tragic and unbelievable. He tied his brother and nephew to the boat after they didn’t survive, just so they wouldn’t drift away. It was a heavy start, but then we lightened things up with a story about a zoo in China that painted dogs to look like pandas. We couldn’t help but laugh at how they thought no one would notice!

We also shared some thoughts on cruises. While some people love being on a ship for weeks, we had a good laugh about how we’d rather stay on land, especially if it means enjoying great food without being stuck on the water for days.

But then, we transitioned into a more serious and personal topic that’s close to our hearts: betrayal, infidelity, and moving forward after something like that. This is something we’ve personally experienced, and it’s a conversation that resonates with many of our listeners. We often get questions about how to rebuild trust and enter a healthy relationship after experiencing betrayal.

For us, it’s been a journey. One of us went through the trauma of an affair, while the other has been the support system, helping to heal and rebuild. Being in a relationship with someone who’s dealt with this kind of hurt requires a lot of patience and understanding. We’ve learned how to navigate that delicate balance together.

One of the key lessons we’ve learned is that you can’t make decisions based on fear—especially the fear of being alone. It’s important to reach a place where you’re comfortable with yourself, whether you’re in a relationship or not. For us, the turning point came when we realized we needed to be okay with whatever the future held, even if that meant being alone. Once we let go of that fear, we were able to build a stronger, more trusting relationship.

Throughout our relationship, we’ve had a lot of important conversations about trust, boundaries, and expectations. We’ve worked hard to create a healthy dynamic, and it hasn’t always been easy. But being intentional and transparent with each other has made all the difference. We hope that by sharing our experiences, we can help others who might be going through similar challenges. It is possible to move forward after betrayal, and to find healing and trust again.