Zoe’s made the leap to San Francisco—and narrowly dodged sharing a bed with her brother?? Now Zoe and Taylor are cohabiting like feral, spiritual roommates: tan, topless, and thriving. This episode is a cocktail of chaos and clarity, covering everything from SF hotness inflation (a San Diego -11 becomes a SF 9) to bender energy, type A vs. type C dynamics, and why the coworker-on-a-business-trip is the most dangerously single demographic alive.

We dive into the “Taxi Cab Theory,” cheating epidemics, Mormon reality TV, and the existential spiral of wondering if we’ll ever get married—or if that even matters. Through all the madness, one thing is clear: we’re here to explore, stay open, and trust the universe (even if we’re hungover doing it).

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This week Taylor shares her latest stats (3 kisses, 1 week, zero regrets), and discusses pegging with 8 CMOs, CEOs, and whatever other acronym. Then we critique casual dating, and why hook-up culture is so freaking exhausting. Like—how are you forehead kissing me, taking me on dates, saying you like me… then acting confused when I think you like me??

We’ll be brave and just say it. Dating with intention is hot! Respect, curiosity, and emotionally intelligent conversations are sexy! And finally, we ask the hard question: did dating apps and social media ruin romance or are we just dopamine junkies with commitment issues?

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This week we go over our 2025 ins and outs list.

In: country club activities, tasers, and polycules

Out: hills, run clubs, and meetings before 9am

We also share our experience plugging in our metaphorical avatar hair with the tree of life when exploring the mystical world of plant medicines (think oiud, magic mushrooms, and mother Aya),

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This week we’re giving you a very special bonus episode because we can't stop thinking about the art of dating. We dive into some of our best and worst first dates and share those little details that make the difference.

Remember kids - dating should be fun, splitting the bill at a boujee restaurant is not hot, and the post-date text is more important than you think.

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You asked for a sexy episode–and we delivered, you curious little freaks. Ever felt stuck in a rut with your partner? Craving something new in the bedroom? Wondering if your fantasies are “normal”? (Spoiler: they probably are.) This week, we dive into kink, communication, and keeping things spicy with topics like eating ass, sexting, and solo play—plus a few taboo treats you’ll have to hear to believe.

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This week, we get brainy. Taylor has a new dating theory called “the cup” and it explains why some people can only give a little while others can give a lot. Zoe has a new and exciting crush, he’s a bit older, like 3000 years older, but age is just a number. We also answer the age-old question - does size really matter?

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This week, we’re diving into a masterclass on yearning—Victorian-style. Nobody did longing quite like them: intense eye contact, sweetly stolen moments, and the guts to actually say how you feel. Fast forward to today, and it’s all “come over if you want,” which, let’s face it, I don’t... We’re breaking down what makes a makeout unforgettable (hint: dry humping is so back). Plus, we’re tossing in a bonus medical lesson on how to cure hysteria and give your insides the deep cleanse they desperately deserve. Tune in for some romance, health tips, and a dash of historical sass ;)

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Marrying stalkers, zodiac killers and dad lore. This week we talk about what's happening in the press and asking your parents about the serial killer they went to high school with. It’s a little all over the place, but so are we ;)

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