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Change is hard. From launching her daughter to college, taking on new work demands, and navigating midlife challenges, Nicole reflects on the changes happening in her life and how God continues to invite each of us into transformation—no matter our season of life.

In this "Lord, Hear My Prayer" series, listeners will walk through how to pray through complex emotions—like fear, sadness, confusion, and more—as we hear from God in the realest parts of our lives.

Key Takeaways

🔹 Real Talk About Change

• Whether your stress is eustress (positive, but still demanding) or unwanted hardship, change is inevitable and hard.

• Midlife can bring resistance to growth, yet God still invites us into deeper spiritual transformation.

• Making space for God means facing reality—and that can be incredibly courageous work.

🔹 When We’re Scared

• Fear comes in many forms: anxiety about the future, feeling out of control, or grieving change.

• God does not promise to change all our circumstances—but He does promise His peace.

• Nicole shares a simple, practical way to use your Bible’s concordance to find verses that speak directly to your emotional state.

✍️ Scriptures to Reflect On 📖 John 14:27 (Jesus' Words)

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”
Key Insight: Jesus offers peace in the midst of fear—not by removing it, but by overriding it with His presence.

📖 Psalm 118:5–7

“Out of my distress I called on the Lord; the Lord answered me and set me free. The Lord is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me?”
Key Insight: God’s presence sets us free, even when our circumstances don’t change.

Practical Application: Try This Prayer Method:

1. Name your fear: “Lord, hear my prayer because I’m scared about ___.”

2. Use your Bible’s concordance to find relevant Scriptures (look up “afraid” or “fear”).

3. Write down one or two verses in a journal or on a notecard.

4. Repeat them aloud daily—say them in prayer, in your car, or when anxiety arises.

5. Notice the shift: The power of God's Word reorients your mind and strengthens your spirit.

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In this final episode to the Summer Q&A Series, Nicole responds to a heartfelt question from a listener:

“I feel the Holy Spirit urging me to speak, but I’ve been taught that women should not preach. How do I stay obedient to the Spirit?”

Nicole unpacks Scripture—including the often-debated passages in 1 Corinthians—to explore how spiritual gifts are given to both men and women for the building up of the church. She highlights the difference between preaching and prophesying, and reminds listeners that obedience to God’s voice is never limited by human rules.

Nicole also shares what’s coming this fall: a brand-new series on the book of Daniel, exploring how to live “right-side up” in an upside-down world. Don’t miss the preview at the end of the episode!

Key Takeaways

🔹 The Gift of Prophecy is for Everyone

• According to 1 Corinthians 12, spiritual gifts—including prophecy—are given by the Holy Spirit to all believers for the building up of the Church.

• Prophesying is not the same as preaching. Prophecy often includes exhortation, encouragement, or Spirit-led truth for a specific moment.

🔹 Women Are Called to Speak

• 1 Corinthians 11 references women prophesying in public worship, assuming it’s a normal part of church life.

• Women like Deborah (Judges 4) and Huldah (2 Kings 22) are explicitly named as prophets and leaders in Scripture.

• God’s Spirit is not limited by gender: “In Christ, there is neither male nor female...” (Galatians 3:28).

🔹 Interpreting 1 Corinthians 14 with Context

• The call for women to “remain silent” (1 Corinthians 14:34) must be understood within the broader letter’s context: Paul is addressing disordered worship in Corinth.

• Scripture interprets Scripture—Paul already assumed women were prophesying earlier in the same letter.

🔹 Obedience Over Platform

• You don’t need a microphone or a stage to use your gift.

• If the Spirit prompts you to share, pray, write, or encourage—be faithful in the small steps.

• God is responsible for the impact of your obedience. You are responsible for your yes.

📜 Bible Verses Mentioned

• 1 Corinthians 12:4–7 – Spiritual gifts are for the benefit of the whole church

• 1 Corinthians 11:5 – Women prophesying with proper decorum

• 1 Corinthians 14:34–35 – The debated silence passage, seen in light of context

• Galatians 3:28 – “There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female…”

• Judges 4:4 – Deborah, a prophet and judge

• 2 Kings 22:14 – Huldah, prophetess consulted by King Josiah

🔔 Announcements 📚 Coming Fall 2025:

“Living Right-Side Up in an Upside-Down World”
A brand-new study series through the book of Daniel

• Explore how to live with conviction, compassion, and courage in a culture that doesn’t reflect your faith.

• Includes a free reading guide, group tools, and weekly in-depth study with Nicole.

• Launches right after Labor Day. We will be send more out on this soon!

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• 📖 Revisit other episodes in the Summer Q&A Series for biblical insight on doubt, fear, identity, and calling.

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In this episode of the Summer Q&A Series, Nicole answers the profound listener question:
“What’s one of the most effective methods you’ve personally found to cultivate your integrity?”

Nicole redefines integrity as spiritual alignment, where our thoughts, emotions, and actions match our belief in Christ. She walks listeners through a 3-part daily rhythm rooted in Scripture and real-life experience: daily praise, daily noticing, and daily confession. This soul-training practice helps listeners learn to live more fully into God’s peace, wisdom, and joy—even in the everyday chaos of life.

If you’re longing for a life where what you believe matches how you live, this episode is your roadmap.

Main Takeaways

• Integrity means inner alignment: It’s not just about moral perfection—it’s about connecting your heart, mind, and actions to God’s purposes.

• It’s a daily journey, not a one-time decision: We don’t just say “yes” to Jesus once—we say it again and again as we walk with Him each day.

Nicole’s 3-Step Practice to Cultivate Integrity:

1. Daily Rhythm of Praise – Begin each day acknowledging God’s goodness and aligning your heart with His will.

2. Daily Noticing – Pay attention to moments of anxiety, anger, and apathy—they often reveal areas where God wants to work.

3. Daily Confession – End the day in honesty and grace. Confess missteps and receive the cleansing God promises in 1 John 1:9.

• God’s Mercy is New Every Morning: Confession isn’t about guilt; it’s about freedom and renewal.

• You don’t have to feel it to start: Spiritual disciplines begin as choices—and your emotions will often follow your habits.

📜 Bible Verse References

• 1 John 1:8–9 – “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive…”

• Psalm 139:23–24 – “Search me, God, and know my heart…”

• James 3:2 – “We all stumble in many ways.”

• Psalm 51:10 – “Create in me a clean heart, O God…”

• Matthew 6:11 – “Give us this day our daily bread…”

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• Try Nicole’s daily rhythm this week and journal what changes for you.

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🔗 Relevant Links & Resources

• NicoleUnice.com – Tools, devotionals, and updates on upcoming studies

• BibleStudyTools.com – Full Scripture references for study

• Recommended Song: “Lord, I Need You” by Matt Maher – for morning praise practice

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