In today’s episode, Dr. Sasha High dives into a powerful mindset barrier in weight loss: fighting reality. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “It’s not fair that I have to work so hard,” or “I shouldn’t have to track what I eat,” this episode is for you. Dr. High explains how these thoughts may feel justified but are actually holding you back. She discusses how accepting reality, instead of resisting it, can pave the way to real progress in your health journey.

Key Takeaways:

1. Resisting Reality Creates Emotional Suffering
2. • Fighting against the facts of your situation leads to frustration, resentment, and sometimes anger. This emotional resistance drains your energy and makes it harder to stay motivated on your weight loss journey.
3. Fighting Reality Leads to Inaction
4. • When you focus on the unfairness or difficulty of your circumstances, it’s easy to give up. This mindset makes you feel like your efforts are futile, keeping you from taking the steps that will actually move you forward.
5. Ignoring the Power of Acceptance
6. • Acceptance doesn’t mean you have to like your situation; it just means you stop resisting it. Accepting reality allows you to focus on actions within your control instead of wishing things were different.

Practical Strategies to Move Forward:

1. Acknowledge What’s Within Your Control
2. • Identify the habits and responses that are in your hands, rather than wasting energy on aspects you can’t change.
3. Reframe Your Thoughts
4. • Shift your language from “I shouldn’t have to…” to “I choose to… for my health.” This reframe puts you in control and helps you own your actions.
5. Practice Radical Acceptance
6. • Accept your reality without judgment. Radical acceptance frees up energy to focus on actionable steps instead of resisting what is.
7. Focus on What’s Working
8. • Instead of dwelling on what’s unfair, celebrate small wins and focus on the progress you’re making. These positive steps forward will keep you motivated.

Fighting reality will only hold you back. Accepting your situation allows you to focus on what you can control and take meaningful actions that lead to progress. Embrace your reality, stay empowered, and keep moving forward.

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In today’s episode of High on Life, Dr. Sasha High continues her series on self-sabotage in weight loss, focusing specifically on limiting beliefs. These are the thoughts and stories we tell ourselves that hold us back and keep us stuck in patterns that sabotage our health and weight loss goals. Dr. High discusses common limiting beliefs, such as “I’ll never lose weight,” “It’s too hard for me,” and even situational beliefs like “Vegas is Vegas.” She explains how these automatic, often subconscious thoughts shape our actions and outcomes.

Key Takeaways:

1. Your Thoughts Shape Your Reality: If you believe weight loss is too hard, it will be. By questioning your limiting beliefs, you can start to make changes that align with your goals.
2. Thoughts Are Not Facts: Recognizing that thoughts are just beliefs we’ve internalized opens up the possibility for change.
3. Thought Dump Exercise: A practical exercise where listeners can write down all their thoughts on a topic, identify the most painful or limiting thought, and then question it to open up new, empowering beliefs.
4. The Power of Small Actions: You don’t need to be overly positive; you just need enough resilience to take the next small step.
5. Questioning Limiting Beliefs: Asking yourself questions like “Is this true?” and “What else could be true?” can lead to new perspectives and better choices.

Resources:

• Best Weight Program: If you’re ready to take charge of your weight loss journey and feel mindset is a barrier, consider joining Dr. Sasha High’s Best Weight program. This program uses cognitive reframing to help reshape your thoughts, habits, and approach to weight loss, creating a sustainable, healthy lifestyle. Learn more at www.sashahighmd.com/bestweight.

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Today we’re continuing my series on self-sabotage in weight loss and we are focusing on perfectionism another word for this is all-or-nothing thinking.

Perfectionism inhibits forward progress, and perfectionism is the enemy of consistency. When it comes to weight loss, trying to “get it right” may be holding you back in ways you haven’t even realized.

Here’s what it can sound like:

• “Now’s not a good time to start losing weight, I’m too busy, I have too much going on.”
• “I screwed up already today. I may as well just keep eating and start over tomorrow morning.”
• “This week has been a bust. I’ll start over on Monday with a clean slate.”
• “There are too many celebrations in December, I’ll start in January.”
• “There are too many vacations and social events over the summer, I’ll start in September.”

Can you see the theme here? Perfectionism leads to procrastination and misleads you into believing there will be a better time to re-start.

On today’s episode I’ll share some tools to help you overcome perfectionism, including:

• Next Best Choice
• Self-Compassion
• Psychological Flexibility
• Habit Focus

Remember, you don’t need to wait for the perfect time to start focusing on your health. Starting with today’s Next Best Choice is 100% better than not bothering until some indeterminate time in the future!

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