Forgiveness is hard. Forgiveness after betrayal? It can feel impossible.
If you’ve ever said, “I forgave them… but I’m still hurting,” or “I can’t let go of what I did,” you’re not alone—and you're not broken.

In this episode, I was honored to be a guest on Beyond Broken Vows with Emily & Johnny Spigelmire, where we talk about the deep work of forgiveness after betrayal, sexual sin, and shame. This isn’t surface-level forgiveness. It’s a deliverance path that brings real peace.

We talk about why you still feel pain after forgiving, how to grieve with God, and why full healing includes blessing the person who hurt you.

• What forgiveness from the heart actually means (biblically)
  
  

• How to know if you’ve really let go—or just tried to
  
  

• Why grief is the missing first step in most forgiveness journeys
  
  

• How betrayed and betrayer alike can break shame and receive healing
  
  

🎧 Listen now—and if you’re ready to walk this out personally, my Journey to Healing from Injustices workbook is your next step.
It’s short, powerful, and designed to walk you through these exact steps with God.

👉 Get the workbook: heatherobrien.net/healing-from-injustices

Scripture: “Forgive from your heart… just as your Heavenly Father forgave you.” – Matthew 18:35
Prayer: God, I don’t want to carry this any longer. Teach me how to grieve with You, forgive with You, and bless even those who’ve hurt me.
Declaration: God, You said to forgive from the heart. Therefore, I am and I will walk in freedom. {insert your name}, you are and you will forgive fully and walk unchained.

🎧 Listen to Beyond Broken Vows Podcast with Johnny & Emily Spigelmire: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beyond-broken-vows-christian-marriage-adultery-pornography/id1689785999

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• Join Signature Program: https://heatherobrien.net/trauma-painkiller-roadmap
  
  

• Get the Workbook: https://heatherobrien.net/healing-from-injustices
  
  

• Sign up for Workshop (3rd Mondays): https://heatherobrien.net/workshop

Even the most faith-filled believers secretly wonder: “What if God’s promises aren’t for me?”
This episode isn’t just a message—it’s a moment. A raw, real-time deliverance session that exposes the lie that healing is for everyone but you.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in shame, spiritually dry, or like you’re cheering everyone else on while silently wondering if you’ll ever get your breakthrough—this episode is for you.

In this live coaching session with Lisa Moore and Regina Hehir, you’ll witness the exact 3-step deliverance process to break agreement with the “But Me” lie and finally believe what God says about you.

• How to discern the subconscious lies keeping you spiritually stuck
  
  

• What real deliverance looks like in the middle of emotional healing
  
  

• Why healing with prayer isn’t optional—it’s your invitation to freedom
  
  

🎧 Press play and then grab your seat for the next Prophetic Healing Workshop on May 19 → heatherobrien.net/workshop

Scripture + Prayer + Declaration

Scripture: “You shall know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” – John 8:32
Prayer: God, I break agreement with every lie that says I’m the exception to Your love and healing.
Declaration: God, You said, “You shall know the truth…” Therefore, I am and I will walk in truth. {insert your name}, you are and you will be free from the “But Me” lie in Jesus’ name.

NEXT STEPS:

• Insider Sign-Up + Free Challenge: https://heatherobrien.net/insider
  
  

• Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/healwithgod/
  
  

• Leave a Voice Memo: https://www.speakpipe.com/HealwithGod
  
  

• Join Signature Program: https://heatherobrien.net/trauma-painkiller-roadmap
  
  

• Sign up for the May 19 Workshop: https://heatherobrien.net/workshop
  
  

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You’re not doing “nothing”... but it feels like you’re not getting anywhere.
If healing feels far away and God seems radio silent, this bonus episode is your personal invite to a LIVE prophetic encounter where breakthrough is closer than you think.

Inside, Heather O'Brien shares a behind-the-scenes invitation to her free Prophetic Healing Workshop happening Monday, May 19th at 1PM Eastern — and it's not your typical webinar. It’s real-time prayer, real-time prophetic strategy, and a real chance for you to receive live prophetic coaching during the event.

Here’s why you’ll love this episode:

• You'll discover why you're not actually stuck — you just need to hear God differently.

• You'll learn about a free live coaching opportunity (and how to snag your chance at it!)

• You'll be equipped with a 3-step healing roadmap built on Hearing God’s Voice for Healing — not just wishful thinking.

Want in?
Sign up now at https://heatherobrien.net/workshop— spots for live coaching fill fast, so don’t wait!

Scripture:
“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.” — John 10:27 (ESV)

Prayer:
"God, You said, ‘My sheep hear My voice.’ Therefore, I am Your daughter and I will hear You. Heather, you are chosen, you are called, and you will walk in the healing voice of God."

Declaration:
"God, You are still speaking over my life, my healing, and my breakthrough. I choose to hear, respond, and move into the freedom You have for me!"

NEXT STEPS:

• Insider Sign-Up + Free Challenge: https://heatherobrien.net/insider

• Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/healwithgod/

• Leave a Voice Memo: https://www.speakpipe.com/HealwithGod

• Join Signature Program: https://heatherobrien.net/trauma-painkiller-roadmap

• Sign up for Workshop (3rd Mondays): https://heatherobrien.net/workshop