Originally aired on Jason's You Winning Life Podcast

Dr. Jim Van Allan is an accomplished speaker and trainer for schools and organizations across the country. He is also a Professor of Communication Studies with Keiser University. Dr. Van Allan is the host of the hit podcast 'Communicate To Motivate' which focuses on different areas of communication applied to real life situations. His goal is to turn personal experiences into powerful learning moments with engaging stories, research, and takeaways.

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Originally aired on Jason's You Winning Life Podcast, this episode is a must listen to anyone trying to build a healthy relationship.

Premarital cohabitation has consistently been found to be associated with increased risk for divorce and marital distress in the United States. Two explanations for this "cohabitation effect" are discussed: selection and experience. We present an empirically based view of how the experience of cohabitation may increase risk for rela-tionship distress or divorce for some people beyond what is accounted for by selection. Specifically, using a commit-ment framework, we suggest that some couples who otherwise would not have married end up married because of the inertia of cohabitation.

Leading researcher Dr. Scott Stanley discusses concerns over the patterns of contemporary relationships that most impact a couple's long-term commitment: Sliding through major transitions before making clear Decisions about what they want for the future.

Dr. Scott Stanley, Research Professor and Co-Director of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver, presents his definitions and suggestions for building and sustaining a dedicated commitment in a relationship.

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We are back!! 
Yes, it's been a while but we can happily blame Chava for getting married since our last episode!
Chava and Jason open up the conversation about understanding "Emotional Infidelity" through each stage of relationships from dating to marriage.
Of course, we talk about co-dependence, healthy boundaries and what's needed to navigate the dating/relationship world.

We discuss:

• Can you just be friends with someone of the opposite sex and creating boundaries with the opposite sex while dating and once you are in a relationship
• Where we spend our time and energy leads us to the outcomes we get in life
• How to be honest with yourself about what your needs are and how you get them met
• Navigating the friend zone

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