This week, Elle and Vee chat with OG sexual wellness icon Pamela Madsen on all things erotic. From extended orgasmic states to the joy of adult play, and how cultivating your erotic persona can transform your sex life. Plus, hear about the Oprah-featured Lotus Lift Meditation and what men can do to truly empower the women in their lives. Pulling from so much experience, Pamela had some serious wisdom to share!

Climax isn’t the point: orgasmic states and elongated pleasure. (3:20)

Back to the Body Method vs Sexological Body Work: what’s the difference? (5:39)

Embodying Sex: “Women perform sex vs BEING sex.” (9:07)

Blocks to embodiment: what holds us back from being IN OUR BODY and in the sexual experience? (10:05)

Lotus Lift Meditation (featured by Oprah 2x!). (13:16)

What can men do to empower the females in their lives? (15:06)

Immersion: the importance of in-person learning around sex, and what creates hyper vigilance in women. (16:13)

What is sexological bodywork? (18:28)

Slowing down for hotter sex, and communicating your needs. (20:28)

Sex is adult play: bringing joy, laughter and play back to the bedroom. (22:38)

Erotic Personas: how do you discover and cultivate your erotic persona? And the thing that makes Vee most uncomfortable in the bedroom! (26:22)

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

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How can ropes and shibari be used in different ways? At play parties to understand a new partner quickly, as a mode for a transformational or transcendental experience, as a method for submission or dominance... In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Rina Trevi about her journey from dominatrix to tantrika and vulnerability coach, the spiritual side of shibari, and how rope play at parties can be a path to pleasure, presence, and a whole lot of surrender.

From dominatrix to tantrika: What pulled Rina into the world of tantra/ropes/embodiment? (2:36)

First experience submitting to ropes … in a five hour session! (5:23)

Ropes as a transcendent experience. Shibari = Ayuhasca? Ropes as a medium to access higher levels of consciousness. (9:42)

Ropes at a play party: Setting an intention to play with ropes for fun at a play party. (13:17)

Ropes during sex. (18:48)

Training in ropes. How important is it to be trained vs just knowing attunement and body manipulation? (27:39)

How to stay present and attuned. Breath, sound and non-verbal communication. (33:21)

How to hold space for the rope bottom to feel what comes up, and read body language. (36:03)

Bringing elements into rope: earth, air, fire, water. (39:50)

Surrender vs submission. (51:17)

Intimately Tied and Yoni Massage - Rina’s current passions and upcoming offerings! (56:59)

Transformational shibari experience. (1:02:18)

LINKS:

Website: www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com

Instagram: @rina_trevi

Ropes: www.intimatelytied.com

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

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Elle and Vee recap their weekend at a mansion airbnb with 45 of their friends, celebrating several birthdays and a bachelor bachelorette!

Gemini Bach Bash (00:00)

Theme nights (04:54)

Seal team slut olympics (06:32)

Intentions and elle’s announcement! (19:12)

Thursday Night Highlights (28:01)

Before Kiss Someone New, Do You Get Consent From Their Partner? (32:37)

Sensual Loving and Sweaty Sex (35:02)

Cumming at Play Parties: Priority or not? (39:22)

Homemade Porn Compilation Videos (41:19)

MFM (42:53)

MMFF: Navigating Agreements with New Couple Using Fears, Desire and Boundaries (47:20)

One Dom Two Subs: Getting Permission to Cum and Dealing with Denial, Bondage, Riding Crop to the Pussy (55:29)

Testing Pain Threshold With Claws and Clips and Aftercare (01:03:24)

Blow Job Train (01:08:17)

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.