In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the essence of leadership within a marriage. They emphasize the importance of both spouses contributing to a thriving, God-fearing relationship. Drawing from Ephesians 5:21, the discussion covers mutual submission, the roles of spiritual leadership, and the dynamic of co-leadership in various aspects including parenting, finances, and spiritual growth. Through anecdotes and thoughtful insights, they highlight how mutual respect, wisdom, and collaboration are crucial for a successful and balanced partnership. This episode also addresses common challenges and offers practical advice on nurturing each other’s strengths and maintaining unity in the pursuit of a shared vision.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:16 The Heart of Leadership in Marriage

00:39 Spiritual Leadership and Mutual Submission

01:31 The Role of Co-Leadership in Marriage

02:28 Challenges and Solutions in Marital Leadership

06:06 Encouraging Growth and Support in Marriage

13:30 Leadership in Different Aspects of Marriage

15:33 The Importance of a Supportive Village

15:51 Co-Parenting in the Same Household

16:21 Unified Parenting Strategies

18:15 Balancing Humor and Responsibilities

19:51 Embracing Each Other's Gifts

22:12 The Role of Leadership in Relationships

24:28 Navigating Sleep and Work Balance

28:35 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford discuss the critical influence of one's social circle on personal growth, relationships, and faith. They emphasize the importance of surrounding oneself with wise and supportive individuals as per Proverbs 13:20, and examine the negative impacts of toxic company. From dating advice to maintaining a healthy marriage, the discussion covers curating your social media, setting boundaries, and recognizing unhealthy behaviors such as gossip, competition, and lack of support. The hosts also outline the qualities of trustworthy and honest relationships, and the significance of having stretch friends who challenge you to grow. Concluding with a reflection exercise, this episode provides actionable insights for creating a positive and faith-aligned social circle.

00:00 Welcome and Introductions

00:13 The Importance of Your Circle

02:01 Influence of Habits and Company

06:11 Toxic Company and Social Media

07:52 Identifying Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships

10:03 The Dangers of Gossip

12:19 Competition and Jealousy

15:04 Lack of Support in Relationships

18:10 The Dangers of Comparison

18:35 Jealousy and Hard Work

20:41 The Importance of Trust in Relationships

22:13 Shared Values and Accountability

25:21 Stretch Friends and Growth Mindset

29:50 Setting Healthy Boundaries

33:15 Reflecting on Your Circle

Navigating In-Laws in Marriage: Love, Respect, and Healthy Boundaries

In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford tackle the sticky subject of in-laws and offer guidance on navigating these relationships. They emphasize the importance of setting clear boundaries, having open communication, and approaching in-laws with love and respect. The discussion covers first impressions during dating, maintaining a positive outlook, and the biblical mandate to honor parents. They also address handling difficult in-laws, the significance of healthy boundaries, and the role of forgiveness. Concluding with advice for maintaining healthy family dynamics and promoting their ebook on effective communication, this episode is a valuable resource for couples aiming to build strong, respectful relationships with their in-laws.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:12 Navigating In-Laws: First Impressions

03:07 Setting Boundaries and Expectations

08:45 Honoring Parents in Marriage

13:09 Healthy Boundaries and Wisdom

17:34 Unchanging Principles in Relationships

18:32 Navigating Rocky Relationships

20:51 Handling In-Law Conflicts

24:08 The Power of Forgiveness

27:02 Advice for Women on In-Law Dynamics

29:50 Men and Cooking: A Modern Perspective

30:32 Conclusion and Resources