Patience - Patient like JesusThis message is from Lead Pastor Dan Painter in week four of the sermon series “Patience - Patient like Jesus”. Grace Pointe is a church dedicated to seeing a world full of healthy churches by making as many people as much like Jesus in the shortest time possible. We are a multi-site church in Illinois with a campus in Naperville, IL and Plainfield, IL. If you would like to learn more about Grace Pointe Church, please visit www.gracepointe.us. Grace Pointe Naperville: Sunday services at 8 am, 9:30 am, and 11 amGrace Pointe Plainfield: Sunday services at 9 am and 11 amDiscover how to cultivate patience in challenging relationships by following Jesus' example. This message explores the concept of relationships as 'hard gifts' - blessings that also challenge us because they involve imperfect people still growing in faith. Learn from Jesus' response in Gethsemane, where He showed remarkable patience with disciples who repeatedly fell asleep during His hour of greatest need. Understand that true patience isn't permissiveness or passivity, but a deliberate response rooted in love and understanding. Explore practical ways to develop Christ-like patience: expecting relationship challenges, remembering God's patience with you, and practicing patience through imagination and reflection. Perfect for anyone struggling with difficult relationships, marriage challenges, church community tensions, or personal growth in Christian virtues. This teaching offers biblical wisdom on patience, forgiveness, community, sanctification, spiritual growth, Christian relationships, emotional regulation, and walking in love. Discover how the messy, non-linear process of sanctification requires patience with ourselves and others as we grow together in faith.Important Verses1 Thessalonians 5:14Matthew 26:36-46Ephesians 4:1-3Hebrews 4:15-16Think about it!How does understanding sanctification as a process help us be more patient with others?What makes it difficult to be patient with other believers in the church?How does remembering Jesus' patience with us help us be more patient with others?In what ways do you see the church as both a 'hard gift'?What's the difference between patience and passive acceptance of wrong behavior?How can we practice 'imaginative patience' in our daily interactions?What role does reflection play in developing greater patience?How can we maintain patience when others repeatedly disappoint us, as the disciples did with Jesus?Apply it!This week, practice 'reflective patience' by pausing before responding in frustrating situations. Take a moment to remember Jesus' patience with you and ask Him to help you respond with similar grace to others. Keep a journal of these moments and how choosing patience impacted the situation.Key TakeawaysExpect that patience will be needed in Christian community - it's normal, not a sign of failureRemember Jesus' ongoing patience with us in our own sanctification processPractice both imaginative and reflective patience in our daily interactionsPatience isn't passive acceptance but loving engagement that promotes growthOur ability to be patient flows from receiving and experiencing Christ's patience with us