That’s a wrap on Season One! From personal milestones to insightful conversations, each episode has brought us closer to our mission. Thank you for being a part of this incredible journey. Your support means the world to us, and we can’t wait to continue growing together. This summer, we're taking a break to recharge and come back with even more exciting content. Remember, rest isn't just a luxury; it's a necessity for personal and professional growth. Enjoy your summer, and we’ll see you soon for Season Two!

Part two! The conversation continues with Eden interviewing Stacie about her extraordinary marriage journey, which includes marrying her husband twice. Stacie shares the emotional turmoil of her separation and divorce, her deepening faith, and the transformative power of prayer. She recounts a pivotal moment of surrender to God's will, leading to personal growth and resilience. The conversation highlights themes of faith, personal transformation, and the importance of embracing life’s challenges. Stacie's story serves as an inspiring testament to the strength found in surrender and the journey toward healing.

What is Discussed:

Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)Eden welcomes listeners back for Part 2 of Stacie's Marriage Story picking up where they left off last week.

Unraveling of the Marriage (00:01:08)Stacie shares the chaos and emotional turmoil surrounding her marriage and subsequent move back to her parents' house.

The Beginning of the Breaking (00:02:26)Stacie reflects on the shocking realization of her life's unraveling despite her efforts for perfection.

Living in Purgatory (00:03:10)Stacie describes her confusing state of being married yet living a single life during the separation.

Surrendering to God's Will (00:04:24)Stacie discusses her journey of surrendering control and embracing God's plan for her life.

A Pivotal Moment in Church (00:05:43)During a church service, Stacie receives a powerful message about letting go of control over her situation.

The Revelation of God's Plan (00:09:31)Stacie shares a divine message she received, emphasizing the importance of God's timing in her marriage.

Divorce and Its Aftermath (00:11:16)Stacie discusses her decision to get divorced and the unexpected feelings of depression that followed.

A Trip to the Caribbean (00:12:16)Seeking clarity, Stacie takes a solo trip to the Caribbean, determined to find guidance from God.

Daily Prayers for Her Ex-Husband (00:13:24)Stacie reveals her challenge to pray daily for her ex-husband, leading to profound realizations about grace and worthiness.

The Power of Prayer (00:16:16)Stacie discusses her transformation into a prayer warrior and the importance of prayer in her journey.

Divine Timing (00:17:15)Stacie shares her realization about God's timing regarding her interactions with her husband.

Dinner Invitation (00:18:02)Stacie reflects on her decision to go to dinner with her husband and the encouragement she received.

Confronting Fear (00:18:52)She talks about overcoming her fears of revealing her prayers and waiting for God's restoration.

Struggles with Mental Health (00:19:47)Stacie opens up about her past battles with depression and suicidal thoughts.

Marriage Restoration Journey (00:20:53)Discussion about the process of being remarried, including guidance from their pastor.

Challenges in Marriage (00:22:04)Stacie reflects on the unexpected difficulties faced after their remarriage.

Passion for Marriage (00:24:20)Stacie expresses her belief in the importance of strong marriages for society.

Navigating Divorce (00:25:30)She shares her perspective on divorce as a necessary option when needed.

Rising Again (00:28:36)Stacie discusses the meaning of her name and how it reflects her journey of resilience.

Impact of Personal Experience (00:30:19)Eden acknowledges the beauty that emerged from Stacie's struggles and her passion for helping others.

Future Conversations (00:32:45)Eden hints at the possibility of a...

In this episode, Stacie and Eden are flipping the script. Eden is interviewing Stacie about her incredible marriage journey. Imagine being married twice…to the same person! Stacie shares her story of marrying George twice, reflecting on their nine-year dating period, their challenges, and the personal growth that ensued. The conversation delves into themes of self-awareness, the impact of peer groups, and the importance of prioritizing personal goals. Stacie’s candid reflections offer valuable insights into navigating relationships and the transformative power of embracing one's journey. Stay tuned for part two, where Eden and Stacie will continue to explore the intricacies of Stacie’s experiences, offering more insights and encouragement for those navigating their own challenges in love and life.

What is Discussed:

Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)Eden and Stacie introduce the podcast and share their excitement for the episode.

Switching Roles (00:00:17)Eden explains the role reversal for the episode, focusing on Stacie's marriage story.

FDTD Special Guest (00:02:28)Eden mentions her one-month-old son, Bomani, present during the recording.

Meeting George (00:03:32)Stacie recounts the unique circumstances of meeting her husband, George, multiple times.

Signs of Destiny (00:06:11)Stacie reflects on the concept of destiny and signs regarding her relationship with George.

First Marriage Timeline (00:09:00)Stacie shares that she dated George for nine years before getting married.

Growing Together (00:10:42)Stacie discusses how she and George pursued their education and careers concurrently.

Peer Influence on Relationships (00:14:35)Stacie notes the impact of her peer group on her perspective about marriage and relationships.

Influence of Peer Groups (00:16:46)Discussion on how peer groups impact children's development and life choices.

Personal Focus in New York (00:18:33)Eden shares how living in New York City fosters personal and career growth.

First Significant Relationship (00:19:04)Stacie reflects on her first meaningful relationship and the importance of shared values.

Long-Term Relationship Mindset (00:20:38)Stacie explains her approach to dating with a focus on long-term compatibility.

Breakup and Healing (00:22:06)Stacie describes the difficult breakup and her decision to cut off communication.

Reconnecting After Breakup (00:23:49)The couple reconnects after a friend's death, leading to therapy and healing.

Marriage Timeline (00:25:41)Stacie discusses the transition from dating to marriage after years of relationship.

Traditional Wedding Experience (00:26:50)Stacie shares details about their grand wedding in New York City.

Post-Wedding Reality (00:27:42)Stacie describes the challenges faced immediately after their wedding.

Isolation and Struggles (00:29:22)Stacie expresses feelings of isolation and confusion about her marriage.

Community Support (00:30:48)Discussion on the importance of community support during difficult times.

Loss of Control (00:32:28)Stacie reflects on feeling a loss of control in her life and marriage dynamics.

Understanding Control in Marriage (00:33:09)Discussion on the feeling of losing control when entering marriage and its implications.

Frustration and Lack of Solutions (00:34:55)Exploration of initial frustrations and the struggle to find solutions in a challenging marriage.

The Breaking Process (00:35:06)Insight into the transformative...

Stacie and Eden delve into the profound and often perplexing question: "Am I Ready?" This episode is a heartfelt exploration of readiness, uncertainty, and the unexpected challenges that life throws our way. Stacie and Eden share personal anecdotes and insights, offering listeners a relatable and inspiring perspective on navigating significant life events. Whether you're contemplating marriage, moving in with a partner, or facing unforeseen obstacles, this episode provides valuable guidance on embracing uncertainty and building resilience.

What is Discussed:

The beginning (00:00:00)Introduction to the podcast and the episode's format.

Defining "Am I Ready?" (00:01:13)Discussion about the concept of being ready and its relation to imposter syndrome.

Personal experiences with readiness (00:04:14)Sharing personal experiences related to feeling ready or unprepared for significant life events, including motherhood and marriage.

Unexpected challenges (00:09:21)Discussion about unexpected challenges when moving in together and dealing with illness.

Adapting to unexpected changes (00:11:31)Adapting to unexpected changes in a relationship due to illness and the impact on daily life.

Reflection on navigating unexpected challenges (00:14:22)Reflection on navigating unexpected challenges and the need to pivot in response to unforeseen circumstances.

Choosing Hard Now (00:19:25)Discussion on the importance of choosing hard now for a better future and the concept of agency in making tough decisions.

Am I Ready? (00:21:33)Exploration of the tension between feeling ready or unready for significant life events, and the impact of delaying decisions.

Moving to New York (00:24:28)Personal story of making the decision to move to New York despite feeling unready, and the realization of being able to handle hard things.

Do It Anyway (00:29:57)Emphasis on the importance of doing things anyway, regardless of feeling ready or not, and the value of gaining evidence that you can handle tough situations.

Choosing Your Hard (00:32:17)Discussion on choosing to face challenges now to avoid greater difficulties later in life.

Being Ready and Growing Into the Future Version of Yourself (00:33:34)Exploration of the idea that the future version of oneself is ready and waiting, and that growth occurs during the process.

The Right Question: When, Not If (00:34:19)Emphasizing the importance of taking action now, regardless of feeling ready, and the need to focus on the present.

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Stacie and Eden explore the intricate balance between feeling grateful and experiencing other, seemingly contradictory emotions. Eden shares her personal journey of balancing motherhood with a newborn and a two-year-old, expressing her challenges with exhaustion and guilt. Stacie and Eden emphasize the importance of acknowledging and processing all emotions without judgment, and discuss societal pressures that often hinder this process. They advocate for intentionality in thoughts and actions, likening it to a pilot adjusting coordinates. The episode encourages listeners to embrace their emotions, practice mindfulness, and the importance to create supportive communities for holistic conversations.

What is Discussed:

Gratitude and Tension (00:00:00)Exploring the tension between feeling grateful and having other conflicting emotions, using personal experiences as examples.

New Motherhood Challenges (00:02:12)Discussing the challenges and conflicting emotions of being a new mother while feeling grateful for the blessings.

Acknowledging Negative Feelings (00:05:48)Encouraging the acknowledgment of negative feelings and the importance of giving oneself permission to feel them.

The Impact of "Shoulding" (00:08:00)Discussing the negative impact of societal and external pressures on one's ability to listen to their own instincts and make choices.

Permission to Feel (00:10:54)Exploring the idea of giving oneself permission to feel conflicting emotions and the importance of recognizing and addressing them.

Reframing and Acknowledging Emotions (00:13:00)Highlighting the significance of acknowledging emotions as a prerequisite for reframing and reorienting one's perspective.

Creating a Space for Conversations (00:16:11)Emphasizing the need for a community and space for holistic conversations about the challenges and responsibilities that affect women's lives.

Gratitude and tiredness (00:17:18)Discussion about feeling tired and struggling to feel genuinely grateful.

Therapy and emotions (00:18:08)The benefits of therapy in recognizing and processing emotions without judgment.

Imagination and reframing (00:20:53Exploring the impact of imagination on emotions and the importance of reframing negative thoughts.

Self-regulation and gratitude (00:22:10)Learning to self-regulate emotions and focusing on personal control for gratitude.

Being present and content (00:25:27)The challenge of being present and finding contentment in the present moment.

Practicing presence (00:33:22)The importance of practicing presence and overcoming default thinking about the past or the future.

The importance of intentional thinking (00:34:05)The speakers discuss the importance of being intentional with thoughts and decisions to avoid drifting off course.

The power of intention (00:34:55)The conversation emphasizes the need to be intentional in daily life, with a focus on making new choices and thoughts.

Acknowledging and reframing feelings (00:37:23)The discussion centers around acknowledging one's true feelings and reframing them to create space for gratitude.

The impact of intention on life's course (00:41:25)The analogy of a pilot intentionally changing coordinates is used to illustrate how small shifts in intention can significantly impact life's trajectory.

Coping mechanisms and delaying personal work (00:44:08)The speakers discuss the tendency to delay personal growth and the importance of acknowledging one's coping mechanisms.

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Stacie & Eden continue the conversation on the complexities and transformative potential of marriage. Stacie shares her personal journey, emphasizing the importance of managing expectations and finding fulfillment beyond the marital relationship. Both hosts discuss the significance of personal growth, open communication, and the balancing act of dependency within marriage. They highlight the concept of "iron sharpens iron," illustrating how partners can challenge and refine each other. Throughout, they underscore the need for a supportive community and a strong relationship with God to navigate marital challenges and growth.

What is Discussed:

The complexities of marriage (00:00:59) Discussion about the challenges and transformations experienced in marriage.

The pain and struggles in the beginning of marriage (00:01:56) Exploring the difficulties and pain experienced by some wives in the early stages of marriage.

Managing expectations in marriage (00:04:05)The speaker shares her experience of letting go of expectations and finding a new perspective on marriage.

Marriage as a path to holiness (00:10:28)Exploring the concept of marriage as a journey towards holiness rather than just happiness.

Challenges and growth in marriage (00:12:23)Discussion about the challenges and growth experienced in the early stages of marriage.

Adjusting to differences in marriage (00:14:19)The speakers talk about adjusting to each other's differences and the growth it brings.

Challenging Each Other (00:16:22)Discussion on the positive impact of being challenged in a marriage, personal growth, and emotional support.

Iron Sharpens Iron (00:17:23)Comparison of marriage to the concept of iron sharpening iron, highlighting the role of a partner in personal growth and transformation.

Dependency and Balance (00:22:45)Exploration of the concept of dependency in marriage, finding a balance between independence and interdependence.

Enduring Together (00:27:54)Reflection on enduring through challenging seasons in marriage and the importance of community support and endurance.

The Mystery of Marriage (00:31:48)Discussion on the evolving nature of marriage, personal growth, and the role of faith and intimacy in navigating challenges.

Find Community (00:32:50)Stacie discusses the importance of finding a supportive community, using the analogy of a midwife or sherpa for guidance.

Longevity in Marriage (00:33:55) Stacie expresses her desire to learn from long-married couples and emphasizes the importance of enduring through challenges in marriage.

Seeking Community (00:35:04)Stacie encourages seeking community support in challenging times, highlighting the value of online resources and not giving up when facing difficulties.

Endurance and Wisdom (00:36:06) Stacie emphasizes the value of endurance and seeking wisdom in difficult times, cautioning against making hasty decisions in relationships.

Challenges of Marriage (00:37:10)Stacie discusses the mysterious and challenging aspects of marriage, emphasizing the need to seek guidance and stay close to God.

Navigating Challenges (00:38:04) Stacie and Eden reflect on their own marriage challenges.

Beauty in Marriage (00:40:42) Stacie and Eden discuss the beauty and pain in marriage, highlighting the growth and beauty that can come from enduring the challenges.

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Stacie and Eden dive into the complexities of marriage, sharing personal experiences and insights. Stacie empathizes with women facing early marital challenges and encourages open dialogue. Eden, celebrating two years of marriage, discusses societal pressures and the reality of her non-traditional journey. They emphasize the importance of commitment, communication, and understanding each other's traumas. Stacie shares her faith-driven approach to overcoming marital struggles, while Eden reflects on navigating triggers and conflict. Their candid conversation inspires listeners to reframe expectations and celebrate the ongoing commitment in marriage.

What is Discussed:

The mystery of marriage (00:00:24) Stacie and Eden introduce the topic of marriage as a mysterious and complex experience.

Challenges at the beginning (00:01:57) Stacie discusses the challenges and unexpected experiences that some people face at the beginning of their marriages.

Unmet expectations and reframing (00:05:46) Eden shares her realization about unmet expectations and reframing her ideas about marriage, including the pressure of societal norms.

Challenging societal programming (00:14:51) Stacie and Eden discuss the need to challenge societal programming and expectations related to marriage, including the pressure for extravagant weddings and expensive engagement rings.

Marriage Realities (00:15:58) Discussion about atypical marriage experiences and the mismatch between social media imagery and reality.

Celebrating Commitment (00:17:48) Emphasizing the importance of commitment over grand weddings, and the possibility of celebrating commitment repeatedly over time.

Navigating Turbulence (00:20:46) Navigating through bumpy experiences, managing expectations, and processing trauma in relationships.

Trusting Through Imperfection (00:26:28) Understanding the need to trust in imperfect experiences and the journey of deepening faith through tumultuous times.

Triggering Each Other (00:30:19) Recognizing and learning to manage triggering each other's trauma responses in a relationship.

The tumultuous beginning of the relationship (00:32:20) Discussion about the condensed time and intense experiences at the start of their relationship.

The challenges of moving in together (00:33:11) Challenges and pressures of moving in together, including interracial marriage and societal pressures.

Rapid change and its impact (00:36:57) Eden's now husband's quick change, how it affected their relationship, and their subsequent challenges.

The moment of realization and feeling seen (00:39:16) Discussion about when they knew they wanted to marry each other and the feeling of being truly seen and understood.

Building a strong foundation before marriage (00:43:24) The foundational work done in their relationship before marriage and the challenges they faced, leading to a strong foundation.

Reflection on the challenges and beauty of relationships (00:45:26) Reflection on the challenges and beauty of relationships, and the importance of working through difficulties.

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Stacie and Eden delve into their personal journeys with therapy. Initially resistant due to skepticism and past negative experiences, both eventually embraced therapy, discovering its transformative power. They discuss various therapeutic approaches, including EMDR and hypnotherapy, and emphasize the importance of addressing past traumas for personal growth. Stacie and Eden highlight the empowering nature of therapy, advocating for its value in healing and self-improvement. Their candid conversation aims to destigmatize therapy and inspire listeners to consider it as a tool for unlocking their potential and achieving personal growth.

What is Discussed:

Initial Resistance to Therapy (00:01:07)Stacie and Eden discuss their initial resistance to therapy and the encouragement they received to seek therapy.

Negative Childhood Experience with Therapy (00:03:38)Eden shares her negative childhood experience with therapy, including feeling othered and not being willing to seek therapy despite recognizing the need.

Transformation through Therapy (00:07:33)Eden discusses her transformative experience with therapy, including initial resistance, discovering new emotions, and changing her mindset about therapy.

Reframing Relationship with Therapy (00:14:12)Eden reflects on reframing her relationship with therapy, realizing the value of therapy for healing, growth, and evolving beyond past experiences.

The need for healing (00:15:16)Discussion on the need for healing instead of seeking answers to past trauma and experiences.

Understanding childhood programming (00:16:18)Exploring how childhood experiences and programming can lead to distorted perceptions and beliefs.

Unpacking subconscious messaging (00:17:22)The impact of subconscious messaging and programming on beliefs, feelings, and ideologies.

Reframing beliefs in therapy (00:18:16)The role of therapy in identifying and reframing incorrect programming and beliefs.

Unconscious processing and mindset (00:20:43)The subconscious nature of processing and the importance of becoming consciously aware of beliefs and mindset.

The transformative power of therapy (00:23:33)The transformative impact of therapy and the importance of self-care and self-focus during therapy sessions.

Different types of therapy (00:24:45)Exploring traditional talk therapy, counseling, EMDR therapy, and hypnotherapy, and their unique approaches to healing and reframing beliefs.

Empowerment through reframing (00:31:16)The empowering nature of reframing beliefs and thoughts in hypnotherapy, leading to a sense of control and healing.

Hypnotherapy and Reframing (00:32:52)Stacie discusses the process of hypnotherapy and how it helps reframe her subconsciousness.

Somatic Work and Yoga (00:37:02)Eden talks about the use of somatic work and yoga to address trauma stored in the body.

Parts Integration and Subconscious Work (00:38:47)Discussion about parts integration, subconscious techniques, and the importance of addressing subconscious thoughts and feelings.

EMDR and Seeking Therapy (00:43:20)Speaker 1 shares her curiosity about EMDR therapy and the process of seeking therapy to address underlying issues.

Multi-Dimensional Therapy and Individualized Support (00:45:10)The conversation delves into the multi-dimensional nature of therapy, addressing trauma in the body, and the importance of individualized support for personal growth.

Self-Care and Therapy (00:47:24)The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-care through therapy and how it contributes to serving others in a healthier...