In this deeply personal and uplifting episode of the Fit Father Project Podcast, Dr. Anthony sits down with member Eli Lefferts, a 44-year-old dad from Los Angeles who’s transforming his life—physically, mentally, and spiritually—just months before welcoming his third child. What started as a search for “exercises for overweight middle-aged men” became a mission to rewrite his future.

Eli opens up about how he dropped 25 pounds in six weeks by fully embracing the Fit Father Foundations Program. But this story isn’t just about weight loss—it's about reclaiming confidence, rediscovering energy, and showing up powerfully for his family. From battling lifelong cravings to restructuring his day around hydration, fasting, walking, and strength training, Eli walks us through how he made this lifestyle sustainable.

We explore how deep “why power” trumps willpower, how defining a mission statement was the spark that lit the fuse, and how the Fit Father community and daily structure became the compass for his transformation. Eli’s honesty about setbacks, mindset rewiring, and small habit victories will resonate with every man who’s ever struggled to make lasting change.

This episode is packed with relatable struggles and empowering takeaways—whether you're just getting started, restarting, or seeking deeper consistency. Eli’s journey will remind you that it’s not about being perfect—it’s about recommitting to the path of health, one powerful decision at a time.

• Mission statement sparked deep motivation
• Hydration and fasting were early catalysts
• “Death foods vs. life foods” reshaped eating habits
• Shifted from willpower to lifestyle strength
• Mindset reframed sugar cravings
• Built consistency through structured routines
• Discovered FFP home workouts that work despite knee issues
• Resistance bands made vacation training possible
• Daily walking routine improved family connection
• Better sleep = more energy + better mood
• Weekly 24-hour fasts became non-negotiable
• Meal timing and water intake aligned for digestion
• Greater intimacy and presence with spouse
• Community support made the journey sustainable

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What do aviation, AI, parenting, and longevity have in common? Blair LaCorte. In this fast-paced episode, Episode 243 of the Fit Father Project Podcast, he shares with Dr. Anthony Balduzzi the biggest lessons from his high-performance life — and how we can all build a stronger body, mind, and purpose. Together, they explore the powerful idea that safety — both physical and emotional — is the foundation for longevity, authentic living, and effective parenting. Blair shares how formative childhood experiences shaped his entrepreneurial spirit, why midlife transitions are deeply necessary, and how self-love is one of the highest acts of love for your children.

Blair explains how your parasympathetic nervous system — the “rest and digest” network — underpins your mental, physical, and emotional well-being. He emphasizes the vital role of feeling safe, connected, and curious in both health and personal evolution. His advice? Move every hour, sleep according to your chronotype, get sunlight in your eyes first thing in the morning, and start each day with intention. From daily mantras to longevity science from the Buck Institute, Blair’s practical wisdom is packed with insights.

The conversation also dives into actionable tips for parents on creating resilient, curious, and emotionally stable kids — without overprotecting them. Blair’s candid reflection on failure, identity, and the modern health landscape is both refreshing and empowering. Whether you’re looking to optimize your body, reconnect with your purpose, or better guide your children in the AI age, this episode delivers.

• Childhood wiring shapes lifelong behavior
• Self-love is essential for effective parenting
• Authenticity is the key to a regret-free life
• Safety regulates the parasympathetic nervous system
• Your nervous system is the root of health span
• Frequent movement trumps long workouts
• Morning sunlight resets your biological clock
• Daily mantras shift your brain's focus
• Sitting is the new smoking — get up hourly
• Connection is the #1 longevity multiplier
• Food is the most important input for your health
• Kids need a safe place to fail and grow
• Random acts of kindness heal both giver and receiver

Websites: https://ppemastermind.com/

https://www.mastermindinnovate.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/blair-lacorte-68084/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTSlr8fDtSu4Ev_hF6tyqDw

Blair LaCorte is a dynamic business executive who after being raised by two entrepreneurs has taken a path less traveled, unless of course you were Forrest Gump! His career spans numerous industries such as entertainment, aviation, AI, technology, aerospace, consulting, investing and military logistics. Renowned for his insatiable curiosity, collaborative spirit, passionate oratorical skills and competitive drive, Blair consistently strives to make a positive contribution and impact in all his endeavors.

For Credibility: Blair has held CEO or “C” level strategy or operating roles in companies such PRG (largest live entertainment production company), XOJET/Vista (largest private aviation company), TPG (one of largest PE firms), Autodesk (largest CAD SW company), and Sun Microsystems / Oracle...

In this profound conversation, Dr. Anthony Balduzzi welcomes attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith to unpack how our early childhood experiences wire our nervous systems—and how that wiring can shape everything from our health to our marriages. Adam explains the science and psychology of attachment theory, revealing why so many high-achieving parents silently suffer from emotional disconnection, loneliness, and self-sabotaging health behaviors.

Listeners will learn about the three main insecure attachment styles—avoidant, anxious, and mixed—and how they show up in relationships, parenting, and health choices. Adam provides a visceral, relatable description of how these patterns develop, the havoc they can wreak, and how they can be completely healed through conscious effort, safe relationships, and nervous system regulation.

But this episode isn’t just theoretical. Dr. Balduzzi and Adam dive deep into the practical side: how men can build secure attachment through small, consistent steps, how fitness plays a critical role in rewiring the brain for connection, and how parents can start creating transformational moments with their kids—without needing to be perfect.

This episode will resonate with anyone who’s ever felt disconnected despite doing everything “right.” It’s a wake-up call for high performers, a roadmap for parents, and a love letter to those willing to do the inner work. Don’t miss the insights that could quite literally transform your relationships—and your life.

• Early trauma wires nervous system dysfunction
• Avoidant = survival mode, overwork, disconnected
• Anxious = approval seeking, learned helplessness
• Secure = calm, connected, honest communication
• Attachment issues crush hormone balance
• Most divorces = anxious woman + avoidant man
• High performers often hide deep loneliness
• Nervous system dysregulation blocks oxytocin
• Healing begins with awareness and self-reflection
• Fixing attachment transforms your physiology
• Parents must become self-correcting, not perfect
• Fitness supports nervous system healing
• Kids model what they see, not what you say
• Transparency + feedback = secure relationships
• Your health habits are also love habits

Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/

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Adam Lane Smith, MA Psych, is recognized globally for his groundbreaking work in applied attachment psychology. Over the past 15 years, he has guided more than 1,600 private clients (including top executives, Hollywood A-listers, and management professionals) towards building resilient and effective relationships, both at...