In this special episode, we welcome a very important member of our family—our dog, Christmas! 🐾 From the moment he entered our lives during a dark and uncertain time, Christmas brought light, love, and unexpected healing. Today, we reflect on what it means to be pet owners, how dogs truly become part of the family, and why Christmas was a divine gift just for us.Lindsey and Aaron share how raising a dog prepared them for parenthood, the importance of training, and how the timing of getting a pet can shape a relationship and a household. Whether you're a pet lover or considering adding a furry friend to your home, this episode will pull at your heartstrings and maybe even inspire a trip to the shelter.

Poll Question:Do you believe pets prepare you for parenting?Yes, 100%

Kind of, but not the same

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”In this week’s episode of First Comes Love Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron open up about one of their most personal and ongoing challenges—building a supportive village while living far away from their home base. As partners, parents, and individuals, they reflect on how community is essential not just for raising kids, but for sustaining a healthy relationship.This letter to their future children is a reminder: your support system matters, and building one intentionally is a life skill worth learning. The hosts get honest about their wins and misses in creating that village, and share the kind of family and community they hope their kids will be better at building for themselves.Poll Question:When it comes to dating, which birth order position makes the best partner?OldestMiddleYoungestOnly ChildMake sure to like, subscribe, comment, and follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm to join the conversation and share your answer

On this week’s episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron are getting real about MISTAKES. What’s the difference between a genuine accident and a true mistake? And once it happens—then what?

The couple opens up about the times they’ve stumbled, how they made things right (or at least tried to), and how they handle the lingering feelings of regret. It's an honest and heartfelt look at taking accountability, growing from your missteps, and learning to forgive yourself and your partner.

And yes—we’re even asking: was it just a mistake… or was he being a jerk?

This episode is about owning your truth, learning, and moving forward with love. Don’t miss it!

This week’s poll:
Can you come back from a big mistake in a relationship?

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It’s a celebration! This week on First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, we’re showering our amazing host Lindsey with birthday love. In true podcast fashion, we turn this personal moment into a meaningful conversation about gratitude, appreciation, and the joy of celebrating life’s big and small wins.

Aaron and Lindsey dive into what makes a good gift—is it the thought that counts, or does the price tag matter? They also reflect on the milestones of the past year and the power of pausing to appreciate how far you’ve come.

Whether you’re in celebration mode or need a reminder to give yourself some flowers, this episode is for you!

This week’s poll:
Do you prefer a thoughtful gift or an expensive gift?

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With Mother’s Day just around the corner, it's only right we pass the mic to our podcast’s very own super mom—Lindsey! In this honest, warm, and funny episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey opens up about what it really takes to juggle motherhood, marriage, work, and still make time for herself.

Aaron dives in with the tough and tender questions: How does she keep everything running smoothly? Does she ever feel like she’s losing herself in the title of “Mom”? And yes—we even go there—should parents admit to having a favorite child?

Whether you’re a mom, love a mom, or just want to hear the real deal about parenting, this episode is a must-listen.

Poll Question: What do you want for Mother’s Day?
Spa Day?
Breakfast in Bed?
Nails Done?
Flowers?

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What does success really look like—and are we living up to it? In this reflective and heartfelt episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron sit down to ask each other: Do we feel successful? Do our parents think we’re successful? And more importantly—are they proud of us?This week’s conversation dives into what it means to be a successful spouse, parent, and individual. The hosts share honest thoughts on how they define success today, how that’s changed over the years, and the pressure many of us feel to “make our parents proud.”They also explore the expectations passed down through generations and the unique balance between building a life for yourself and still wanting that nod of approval from the ones who raised you.Poll Question: What’s more important—mental success or financial success?Like, subscribe, and join the convo in the comments. Follow @firstcomeslovetcm on Instagram for more behind-the-scenes insights from Lindsey and Aaron.

Who were we before the diapers, dance recitals, and school drop-offs? In this heartfelt and introspective episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron reintroduce themselves—not just as parents, but as people.

This episode is a love letter to identity beyond parenthood. The couple shares stories, dreams, and lessons from their pre-kid life, reminding their children (and themselves) that while life changes, character and purpose evolve—not disappear.

It’s a beautiful reminder that growing up doesn’t mean losing yourself—it just means becoming more of who you’re meant to be.

Poll Question: Do you think you’re past your prime... or aging like fine wine? Let us know in the comments and join the convo!

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With Easter Sunday around the corner, Lindsey and Aaron are diving into all things tradition! In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, they reflect on the customs their parents passed down—from getting dressed up for church to those little habits that sneak into our own parenting style.

What family traditions are worth keeping? Which ones do we outgrow? And what funny or unexpected traits have you inherited from your parents without even realizing it?

Plus, a spicy side convo—are there such things as “good” curse words? You might be surprised where this discussion goes!

Poll Question: Do you think there are “good” curse words? Drop your answer and tell us why in the comments.

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