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  • Why Women Cheat: The 3 Things She's Not Getting at Home
    2025/06/13

    Why do women cheat—even when they love their partner? It’s rarely just about lust. In this powerful episode of Finding Love, Jenni & Stephen Hendrix break down the emotional and psychological voids that quietly build over time in relationships.

    From emotional neglect to lack of fulfillment, we explore the core needs women crave: protection, connection, and purpose. If you’ve ever wondered why good women walk away—or worse, step out—this conversation will open your eyes and start a deeper dialogue.

    Plus: a raw moment on the rise of a new breed of “predator women”—and what it means for modern dating.

    ✅ Watch this if you’ve ever asked:
    • Why did she check out emotionally?
    • What makes a woman feel safe, seen, and chosen?
    • How do I stop love from growing cold in my relationship?
    • Is she cheating—or just surviving?

    ⏱️ Chapter Timestamps:
    0:00 – Intro: The Unspoken Reasons Women Step Out
    2:48 – What Does “Protection” Really Mean to Women?
    6:32 – The Four Kinds of Protection Women Look For
    9:45 – The Difference Between Being Loved and Being Fulfilled
    13:10 – How Women Start to Emotionally Check Out
    15:56 – Is She Just “Nagging” or Is Something Missing?
    19:25 – Why “Feeling Like a Lady” Matters in Long-Term Love
    20:04 — A New Breed of Women: Cheating From Entitlement, Not Hurt
    22:40 – When Her Needs Aren’t Met, This Happens…
    25:18 – Stories of Betrayal and the Slow Drift
    28:05 – What Makes a Woman Faithful Even in the Driest Seasons?
    30:12 – Final Thoughts: What Makes Love Worth Staying For

    If this episode hit home, drop a comment below. We read every one.
    And don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs to hear this.

    🎙️ From the Finding Love Podcast with Jenni & Stephen Hendrix.

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    29 分
  • I Fell for a Single Parent… Now What?
    2025/06/06

    Dating someone with kids isn’t just about love—it’s about timing, maturity, and serious decisions. In this episode of Finding Love, Jenni & Stephen Hendrix dive deep into what happens after the spark: when you’ve met the child, things are serious, and the road to marriage is real.

    We break down the challenges that come after “I love you”—from co-parenting dynamics and family loyalty, to boundaries, discipline, and long-term planning. If you’re building a life with someone who already has children, this conversation is a must.

    🎯 Watch if you’ve asked:
    • What changes once I meet their child?
    • Am I ready to become a stepparent?
    • How do I balance my needs with theirs?
    • What boundaries do we need with the ex?
    • Are we truly ready to blend our lives?

    ⏱️ CHAPTER TIMESTAMPS
    00:00 – The viral post that sparked this conversation
    01:30 – When love gets real: meeting the child
    04:45 – Parenting roles vs. stepparent identity
    09:12 – Boundaries with the ex (and in-laws)
    13:05 – What your partner needs from you now
    16:40 – Co-parenting is a team sport (or a warzone)
    20:25 – Money, loyalty, and unspoken fears
    24:45 – What your relationship teaches the kids
    28:00 – Respecting parenting styles (without losing yourself)
    32:30 – Final advice if you love a single parent

    Drop a comment if you've ever loved someone with kids—or if you're in it right now. What did no one warn you about? What advice would you give your past self?

    👉 Like, subscribe, and share if this hit home.
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    36 分
  • Dating a Single Parent? The Questions You Must Ask First
    2025/05/30

    Dating a single parent isn’t just about chemistry—it’s about clarity. In this raw and revealing episode of Finding Love, Jenni and Stephen Hendrix walk you through the exact questions you must ask before dating someone with kids.

    Whether you're dating a single mom or dad, this episode breaks down what emotional maturity, co-parenting dynamics, and future planning really look like when children are in the picture. We’re helping you navigate the complexity—so you don’t fall in love with potential and overlook the real parenting realities.

    🧠 Watch this if you’ve ever wondered:
    • When is the right time to meet their kids?
    • What should I ask about their child’s other parent?
    • Am I really ready to date someone with kids?

    ✅ Whether you're the single parent or you're dating one—this episode gives both sides the clarity needed for real connection.

    🎯 Key Topics We Cover:
    Questions to ask a single mom or dad before dating
    Emotional accountability and parenting baggage
    Vetting someone seriously when kids are involved
    Co-parenting conflict and how it can impact your relationship
    Why casual dating is a distraction for serious single parents

    ⏱️ Chapter Timestamps:

    00:00 – When dating a single parent requires more than vibes
    02:20 – Know the facts: relationship status, co-parenting dynamics, living situation
    06:00 – Accountability and the danger of getting stuck in someone else’s cycle
    09:15 – Vetting a single parent: not just for who they are, but how they parent
    13:02 – Why casual dating drains single parents’ time and energy
    16:40 – Meeting the child: when, how, and if it should happen
    20:15 – Challenges: the other co-parent and parenting values mismatch
    24:00 – Are you emotionally ready to join a family?
    27:12 – Plans, intentions, and future conversations that must happen
    30:10 – Final thoughts: Dating a single parent isn’t harder—it just requires more clarity

    📌 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!
    Comment below: What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned from dating someone with kids?

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    34 分
  • 5 Things Men Really Need From Women
    2025/05/23

    It's not just about love. In this powerful episode of Finding Love, Jenni & Stephen Hendrix break down the top 5 things men truly need to thrive in a relationship. From emotional safety to loyalty, and from intimacy to respect-this conversation gets raw, real, and revealing.

    If you've ever found yourself asking:
    "Why does he pull away?"
    "What does he really want from me?"
    "How can I connect with him deeper?"
    ...this episode is for you.

    ✅ Whether you're dating, engaged, or already married-understanding these needs can transform your connection and unlock intimacy in ways you didn't expect.

    🎯 Topics We Cover:
    -How sex connects vs. confuses men
    -The difference between intimacy and access
    -Why loyalty is the bridge to vulnerability
    -How men respond to respect in conflict
    -What makes a woman "his peace"

    ⏱️ Chapter Timestamps
    00:00 – Intro: Why This Conversation Matters
    00:40 – What Women Get Wrong About Men & Sex
    03:05 – The Truth About Intimacy: It's Not Just Physical
    06:30 – Married vs. Dating: How Sex Shifts
    09:00 – The Miscommunication Behind "Not Tonight"
    11:00 – Loyalty: What It Means to Men
    13:10 – Vulnerability: The Deepest Layer of Trust
    15:00 – Respect Over Love: How Men Feel Secure
    17:30 – Reassurance: Why He Needs to Feel Valued
    20:00 – Be His Peace, Not His Pressure
    22:00 – Recap: The 5 Things Every Man Needs
    23:15 – Final Toast & Season 2 Announcement

    If you're ready to go beyond surface-level advice and into the real work of building a lasting connection-tap in.

    👇 Let us know in the comments: What surprised you the most about this list?

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    We release new episodes every Friday on dating, love, marriage, co-parenting, and everything in between.

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    24 分
  • 3 Things Every Woman Wishes Men Knew!
    2025/05/16

    Are you trying to figure out what women really want from a man? Whether you're dating, committed, or married — this conversation is for you.

    In this powerful episode of Finding Love, Jenni & Stephen Hendrix break down the three most important things women need from men in relationships. From emotional connection and communication to real leadership and support, this isn’t about grand gestures — it’s about everyday intentionality.

    💥 This episode answers questions like:

    “What am I missing when it comes to women?”

    “How can I show up better in relationships?”

    “Why does she keep saying she’s tired… but not telling me what she needs?”

    🔔 Tune in if you're ready to stop guessing and start showing up in a way that truly lands.

    ⏱️ CHAPTER TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 – What Women Really Want (Intro)
    01:00 – Stop Using Historical Data to Love Her
    03:00 – Don’t Wait Until She’s Silent to Listen
    05:20 – How to Hear Her Without Her Repeating Herself
    07:00 – The Power of Active Listening & Observation
    08:45 – Leadership Is About More Than Money
    10:30 – How Real Men Lead Emotionally, Spiritually, & Practically
    12:00 – Responding Without Defense & Being Her Peace
    14:20 – Navigating Life Stages as a Couple
    16:00 – Why Leadership Means Sacrifice and Structure
    17:50 – #3: Lighten Her Load (The Real MVP Move)
    20:00 – Deposits vs Withdrawals: How to Pour Into Her
    22:00 – Small Acts That Change Everything (Motherhood, Nails, & Reset Days)
    24:00 – Don’t Stop Dating Her After Marriage
    26:00 – The Bonus Rule: Take the Kids on Mother’s Day
    27:15 – Final Toast: Take Some of These Good Women Off the Streets
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    29 分
  • Should I Stay or Should I Divorce? The Truth About Marriage, Disconnection & Difficult Choices
    2025/05/09

    This episode of the Finding Love Podcast is a deep, vulnerable conversation for anyone navigating a breaking point in marriage. If you're emotionally drained, questioning your commitment, or struggling with unmet expectations—this one is for you.

    We open up about what really happens behind closed doors, from emotional detachment to the invisible weight of resentment, and how the culture of instant gratification has altered our view of marriage. This is not a how-to, but a heart-to-heart about the power of love, loyalty, grace—and knowing when it’s truly time to walk away.

    🎯 Watch this if you’re asking:

    *Am I doing everything I can to save this?*
    *Is my marriage worth fighting for?*
    *What if I'm tired of repeating myself?*
    *What is divorce really going to solve?*

    ⏱️ CHAPTER TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 – Vows & Real Talk: What marriage really demands
    01:28 – The cultural pressure to marry... then divorce
    04:00 – Marriage is not the destination
    07:14 – Uncommunicated expectations and emotional burnout
    11:02 – Playing house vs building partnership
    14:20 – When you’re exhausted, disconnected, and carrying too much
    18:35 – “Unload the dishwasher” = unmet needs and quiet resentment
    22:00 – The danger of 50/50 scorekeeping in relationships
    25:10 – What is divorce going to solve for you?
    28:03 – How your kids are impacted even when you try to shield them
    30:00 – Have you really tried everything?
    32:00 – 4 final questions before you leave your marriage
    33:30 – A heartfelt toast to those at the crossroads
    34:15 – Why we created this podcast: love, legacy, and lasting partnership

    Enjoyed this episode?
    Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Drop a comment if you’ve ever wrestled with this question—and let us know what other topics you’d like us to cover.
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    35 分
  • Should I Stay or Should I Leave? How to Know When the Relationship Is Over
    2025/05/02

    How do you know if it's time to walk away from a relationship-or keep fighting for it?

    In this vulnerable and honest episode of Finding Love, Jenni & Stephen Hendrix unpack the subtle signs, internal conflicts, and hard conversations that come up when deciding to stay… or leave. If you've ever felt torn between peace and potential, this is for you.

    🎯 Whether you're married, dating, or deeply unsure about where your relationship stands, this conversation gives you clarity, validation, and tools to make decisions from a healed place.

    In this episode, we break down:
    • How to know when love turns into obligation*
    • Why women often leave emotionally before they ever physically exit*
    • The difference between protecting peace and avoiding growth*
    • What emotionally unavailable men get wrong*
    • When couples therapy is a bandaid, not a solution*
    • And how to stop internalizing someone else's lack of effort*

    Chapters:

    00:00 – Is the Relationship Still Serving You?
    02:06 – Why Women Leave Emotionally First
    03:54 – Confusion Between Conflict and Misalignment
    05:35 – Are You Exhausted or Just Unfulfilled?
    07:58 – Do You Want Them or the Idea of Them?
    10:27 – What Happens When You Lose Yourself
    13:02 – They Say They're Trying… But Are They Really?
    14:49 – Why Some Men Wait Until It's Too Late
    17:18 – Choosing Peace Doesn't Mean You're Quitting
    19:22 – The Trap of "Trying to Make It Work"
    21:55 – False Hope, Missed Therapy, and Bandaid Fixes
    25:01 – When You're the Only One Carrying the Relationship
    28:08 – No One Else Is Coming to Save You
    30:12 – Finding the Courage to Choose Yourself

    If you're in the middle of an emotional crossroads, let this be the episode that helps you take your power back.

    📩 Subscribe for more truth-filled conversations on love, marriage, healing, and self-worth.

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    34 分
  • Biggest Dating Mistakes People Always Make!
    2025/04/25

    Before you fall into the next rinse-and-repeat cycle of dating, let’s talk. In this honest episode of Finding Love, Jenni & Stephen Hendrix unpack the four biggest mistakes people make when dating — and why these mistakes can sabotage your next relationship before it even begins.

    From dating without intention to falling in love with someone’s potential, this conversation is a mirror and a manual. If you’re looking for love that lasts, start here.

    In this episode, we break down:

    -Why dating without intentionality keeps you in situationships
    -The hidden cost of falling in love with someone’s “potential”
    -How dating habits actually prepare us for divorce, not marriage
    -Why knowing someone’s true view of partnership is everything


    Chapters
    00:00 – Intro: From Healing to Awareness in Dating
    01:13 – Mistake #1: Dating Without Intention
    04:38 – Mistake #2: Practicing for Divorce (The Rinse & Repeat Trap)
    07:27 – Mistake #3: Falling in Love with the Idea of a Person
    11:05 – Why That Checklist Might Be Holding You Back
    12:17 – Mistake #4: Not Understanding Their View of Partnership
    14:46 – What Loyalty, Trust & Conflict Teach You Early On
    16:39 – Final Takeaways: Are You Interviewing for Marriage or Settling?
    17:59 – A Toast to Healing, Dating Smarter, and Finding Love

    This one is for the intentional, the healing, and the hopeful.
    Whether you’re dating again after heartbreak or trying to break old patterns, this episode gives you the clarity to move forward with confidence.

    🎯 Subscribe for weekly episodes on love, relationships, co-parenting, and emotional healing.
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    20 分