FIP Radio – Dr. Lynn Steinberg on Parental Alienation

Host: Dr. Allen Lycka

Guest: Dr. Lynn Steinberg

Introduction

• Dr. Allen Lycka welcomes listeners to FIP Radio, featuring fantastic professionals inducted into the International Order of Fantastic Professionals (IOFP).
• This episode highlights Dr. Lynn Steinberg, a pioneer in trauma healing, parental alienation, and conflict resolution, with over 40 years of expertise and a 99% success rate in resolving parental alienation cases.

Understanding Parental Alienation

• How Dr. Steinberg Became Interested in Parental Alienation:
• Early encounters with families where children rejected a parent without valid reasons.
• Her personal experience with parental alienation during her divorce.
• What Is Parental Alienation?
• A situation where one parent manipulates a child to reject the other parent.
• Distinguished from cases of legitimate abuse.

The Impact of Parental Alienation

• Approximately 3.7 million children in the U.S. are affected by parental alienation.
• Parental alienation is considered a form of child and parent abuse.
• Global Responses to Parental Alienation:
• Countries like Denmark, Mexico, Brazil, and Romania have laws addressing the issue.
• The U.S. has faced setbacks with laws like Cadence Law, which Dr. Steinberg critiques.

Stages of Parental Alienation

1. Disbelief:

• Parents struggle to understand the rejection by their children.

1. Realization and Legal Struggles:

• Parents face court battles and false allegations.
• Emotional and financial toll often leads to despair or, tragically, suicide.

1. Resolution or Permanent Alienation:

• Parents either reunite with their children or lose contact permanently.

Dr. Steinberg’s Family Reunification Program

• Four-Day Intensive Program:
• Court-ordered therapy focused on rebuilding parent-child relationships.
• Day 1: Reconnection through photos, memorabilia, and open dialogue.
• Day 2: Addressing accusations and exploring memory distortion.
• Day 3: Preparation for new living arrangements.
• Day 4: Family reunion with extended relatives.
• The program’s success highlights the importance of addressing parental alienation therapeutically.

Dr. Steinberg’s Book: You’re Not Crazy: Overcoming Parent-Child Alienation

• A guide for alienated parents to navigate their experiences and find hope.
• Offers strategies for legal battles and emotional resilience.
• Advocates for legislative reform to protect families from parental alienation.

Closing Remarks

• Dr. Steinberg expresses gratitude for her induction into the IOFP and her mission to educate others on parental alienation.
• Dr. Lycka invites other experts to join the IOFP and share their expertise globally.
• Contact IOFP at www.iofp.co.

BIO:

Dr. Lynn Steinberg is an expert in Parental Alienation and the author of the book, "You're Not Crazy, Overcoming Parent/Child Alienation". Parental Alienation is when one parent weaponizes the children to reject the other parent without a valid reason. 22 million parents and extended family are affected by this devastating phenomenon. For the past 10 years, Dr. Steinberg has specialized in working with Parental Alienation by being an expert witness in the courts to prove parental alienation. She also reunifies parents and children in her four-day family reunification program. She has a 100% success rate.

Dr. Steinberg is herself an alienated child and alienated mom. She speaks and writes widely in order to educate the general public including professionals such as therapists, lawyers, judges, teachers, and DPS. She is also working to pass legislation requiring mandatory training and reporting of this abuse for professionals working with those working with children.

Social Media:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LynnSteinbergPhD/

Twitter: @DrLynnSteinberg

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lynnsteinbergphd

FIP Radio – Dr. Jan E. Patterson

Episode Title: Integrative Medicine, Grief, and Wellness with Dr. Jan E. Patterson

Host: Dr. Allen Lycka

Guest: Dr. Jan E. Patterson, MD

Introduction

Dr. Allen Lycka welcomes listeners to a heartfelt conversation with Dr. Jan E. Patterson, MD, a pioneer in integrative healthcare and a valued member of the International Order of Fantastic Professionals. Together, they explore Dr. Patterson’s journey into integrative medicine, the inspiration behind her book Breath for the Soul: Self-Care Steps to Wellness, and her powerful insights on grief, resilience, and holistic healing.

Dr. Jan E. Patterson’s Journey

• Transitioned from over 30 years in academic medicine and infectious diseases to integrative medicine.
• Personal challenges, including the loss of her son to suicide, her mother’s death, and her battle with cancer, shaped her holistic approach to wellness.
• Realized the importance of therapies like breathwork, meditation, essential oils, and spirituality alongside traditional treatments.
• Formal training at the Andrew Weil Center for Integrative Medicine led her to establish an integrative medicine program in her hospital.

Integrating Holistic Therapies into Traditional Medicine

• Addressing skepticism from traditional practitioners:
• Emphasizes the evidence-based benefits of breathwork, meditation, and aromatherapy.
• Positions integrative medicine as complementary rather than alternative to traditional treatments.
• Highlights the empowering nature of holistic therapies for patients.

Managing Grief and Finding Resilience

• Dr. Patterson’s grief journey:
• The loss of her son and how her faith, holistic therapies, and counseling helped her cope.
• Acceptance and reframing guilt as part of understanding mental illness and life’s challenges.
• Techniques for dealing with waves of grief:
• Using essential oils for emotional regulation.
• Leaning on faith and belief in continued spiritual connection with loved ones.

The Power of Breathwork

• Overview of breathwork and its benefits for stress, anxiety, and overall well-being.
• Explanation of Box Breathing:
• Inhale for 4 counts, hold for 4 counts, exhale for 4 counts, and hold for 4 counts.
• Popular technique used in the military for managing stress.
• Dr. Patterson incorporates breathwork into her daily routine to combat stress in a high-pressure medical environment.

Living a Fantastic Life

• Dr. Patterson’s keys to living well:
• Faith as a foundation for resilience.
• Positive relationships with family and friends.
• Finding joy through meaningful work and helping others.
• Incorporating movement, such as yoga and outdoor activities, into daily life.
• Encourages others to make small, actionable changes in their lives:
• Practice breathing exercises.
• Add more fruits and vegetables to meals.
• Start simple physical activities like walking or chair yoga.

Dr. Jan E. Patterson’s Book: Breath for the Soul

• Breath for the Soul: Self-Care Steps to Wellness explores breathwork, movement, nutrition, and spirituality to address stress, anxiety, and grief.
• Available on Amazon and through local bookstores.

Closing Thoughts

Dr. Lycka emphasizes the importance of taking small steps toward wellness and applying Dr. Patterson’s insights to live a fantastic life. He invites listeners to explore his website for upcoming services, a new newsletter, and weekly golden pearls.

BIO:

Dr. Jan E. Patterson is an integrative medicine and infectious diseases physician who has practiced and taught medicine for more than 30 years. She trained at University of Texas, Vanderbilt, Yale, and the Andrew Weil Center for Integrative Medicine at University of Arizona. She believes in using all the tools in the toolbox for better health, and works to integrate holistic therapies with conventional ones.

Social Media:

Twitter @drjanpatterson

Instagram:@drjanpatterson

LinkedIn Jan Evans Patterson, MD, MS

Website https://www.drjanpatterson.com

My latest book: Breath for the Soul

Episode Title: Tania Anderson – Courage, Compassion, and Living a Fantastic Life

Podcast Host: Dr. Allen Lycka

Guest: Tania Anderson

Episode Summary:

In this episode of Fantastic International Professionals, Dr. Allen Lycka welcomes Tania Anderson, the 2024 and 2025 recipient of the Diversity and Inclusion Advocate Award. Tania shares her incredible journey as a flight attendant for over three decades, her experiences in war zones, and her work supporting underserved communities worldwide. From flying into conflict zones to visiting leper colonies and supporting Afghan refugees, Tania's story is one of bravery, empathy, and making a global impact.

Highlights from the Episode

Receiving the Diversity and Inclusion Advocate Award

• Tania discusses her shock and gratitude at receiving the prestigious award.
• The honor recognizes her contributions to fostering inclusivity and diversity through her global efforts.

Flying into War Zones During the Gulf War

• Tania shares her experiences flying into Saudi Arabia during Desert Storm.
• Despite the risks, Pan Am flight crews volunteered for these missions, showcasing extraordinary courage.
• She recounts a similar experience in 2013 flying into Afghanistan’s Bagram Air Base under dangerous conditions.

The Afghan Translator Rescue Mission

• Tania reflects on her involvement in the airlift of Afghan translators to safety in the U.S. during the U.S. withdrawal from Afghanistan.
• She shares heartwarming updates about a young Afghan translator she stays in touch with.

Global Humanitarian Efforts

• Tania recounts her visits to leper colonies in Nigeria, where she witnessed both hope and hardship.
• She details her time at Mother Teresa’s orphanage in India, highlighting the struggles of young girls abandoned due to dowry traditions.

Acknowledging Global Kindness

• Tania and Dr. Lycka discuss Canada’s hospitality during global crises, including Gander’s response on 9/11 and the country’s ongoing refugee support.
• Tania emphasizes the importance of paying kindness forward, citing her habit of collecting hotel amenities to donate to those in need.

The Power of Empathy and Open-Mindedness

• Tania credits her open heart, willingness to listen, and ability to connect with people from diverse backgrounds as keys to her fantastic life.
• She highlights the importance of building bridges through shared human experiences.

Memorable Quotes

• Dr. Allen Lycka: "Ordinary people can live extraordinary lives if they just decide to move forward."
• Tania Anderson: "The whole world belongs to us. We're human first, and we're all in this story of life together."

About the Guest

Tania Anderson is a seasoned flight attendant, global humanitarian, and advocate for diversity and inclusion. Her memoir, On Butterflies’ Wings, recounts her travels to 78 countries and her mission to honor the human spirit.

Call to Action

Know someone making an extraordinary impact? Nominate them for the International Order of Fantastic Professionals award at www.fantasticprofessionals.com.

Connect with Us:

• Website: Fantastic Professionals
• Follow Dr. Allen Lycka on social media for more inspirational stories and updates.

Show Notes for "FIP Radio: Interview with Gina Gardiner"

Episode Title: Thriving Through Adversity with Gina Gardiner

Host: Dr. Allen Lycka

Guest: Gina Gardiner, Best-Selling Author, Radical Change Catalyst, and Empowerment Leader

Introduction

• Dr. Allen Lycka introduces Gina Gardiner, a #1 international best-selling author, motivational speaker, award-winning spiritual mentor, and transformation leadership trainer with over 35 years of experience.
• Gina shares insights into success, happiness, and fulfillment, and her radical approach to leadership and empowerment.

Gina's Journey: Overcoming Adversity

• Gina reflects on her early career as a teacher, quickly rising to leadership roles.
• A life-changing ski accident led to paralysis, forcing her to manage her career and life from a wheelchair.
• Despite challenges, she became a successful headteacher for over 20 years, fostering a culture of radical responsibility among her staff.
• Transitioned into coaching and leadership training after retiring from education.

Core Themes: Leadership and Responsibility

• Gina emphasizes the importance of taking "radical responsibility" for one's thoughts, actions, and beliefs.
• Leadership begins with self-awareness and aligning actions with core values.
• Highlights the necessity of moving from habitual reactions to conscious decision-making.

Key Concepts Discussed

• E + R = O (Event + Response = Outcome): Adapted by Dr. Lycka to include "Pause," stressing the importance of reflection before reacting.
• Habitual vs. Conscious Living: The power of awareness in shaping a fulfilling life.
• The Role of Challenges: Challenges can act as "rocket fuel" for personal and professional growth.

Living a Life of Purpose

• Gina shares insights into finding purpose through intentional living and service to others.
• Encourages starting with small, purposeful actions that align with one's values.
• Introduces the Japanese concept of ikigai, emphasizing the balance of passion, skill, service, and sustainability.

Practical Takeaways

• Approach life with curiosity and openness, like a child discovering the world.
• Choose happiness daily by appreciating small moments and maintaining a positive mindset.
• View challenges as opportunities to grow and evolve into the best version of yourself

Gina's Book: "Thriving, Not Surviving"

• Explores the "Five Secret Pathways to Happiness, Success, and Fulfillment."
• Key pathways include beliefs, relationships, choices, transitions, and purpose.
• Available on Amazon.

Connect with Gina Gardiner

• Email: gina@genuinely-you.com
• Website: Genuinely-You.com
• Social Media: Find Gina on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram.
• Free Resource: Request a "Spiritual Blueprint" by emailing Gina with "Blueprint" in the subject line.

Closing Remarks by Dr. Allen Lycka

• Celebrates Gina’s achievements and recognizes her as a member of the International Order of Fantastic Professionals.
• Invites listeners to learn more about the organization at FantasticProfessionals.com.

Gina Gardiner is a multiple #1 International Best-Selling Author, Motivational and Radical Change Catalyst Speaker, award winning Spiritual Mentor and Empowerment, Transformation Leadership and Media Trainer and Coach with 35 years’ experience. Gina is a master strategist helping individuals achieve happiness, success and fulfillment and Business Leaders achieve sustained high levels of holistic, profitable success.

Contact Info: georgina.gardiner@gmail.com