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Could your family's digital habits be destroying your relationships more than any banned book? While parents storm school board meetings over inappropriate literature, the unbridled use of technology in homes might be the real enemy we should be fighting.

The passionate debates about removing certain books from schools have dominated headlines, but this episode explores a more insidious threat lurking in the palm of your hand. Most children today barely read physical books—they're consuming content through devices with far fewer restrictions and much more dangerous consequences.

Research consistently links excessive screen time with anxiety, depression, poor self-esteem, and social isolation. Despite being called "social" media, these platforms often replace genuine human connection with artificial interactions. Many young people now lack basic conversational skills because they spend more time communicating through screens than in person. Family dinners, once essential for connection, have been replaced by individual family members retreating to separate rooms with their devices.

Physical consequences are equally concerning—from "tech neck" and early arthritis to disrupted sleep patterns and decreased physical activity. Even our cognitive abilities are changing, with basic memory skills deteriorating as we outsource remembering to our devices. As one educator notes: "We're training our brains to think in 30-second increments, then wondering why we can't sit down and work through complex problems."

The solution isn't banning technology entirely, but establishing healthy boundaries. Start with tech-free zones or times in your household. Take your family fishing, hiking, or engage in other activities that foster conversation. These shared experiences build resilience, teach valuable life skills, and create the sense of belonging children need.

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A Florida charter captain's viral meltdown (Brock Horner) serves as the perfect backdrop for our most powerful discussion yet on the critical virtue of self-control. When this captain boarded another man's boat in a fit of rage, he didn't just create a social media sensation – he lost his reputation, business, and possibly his freedom in mere minutes. Sound familiar? It should, because the same explosive pattern ruins marriages, families, and careers every day.

Self-control isn't about suppressing your emotions or pretending they don't exist. As we explore through biblical wisdom and practical psychology, it's about experiencing your feelings without being controlled by them. "Let go of what you feel, hold on to what is real" becomes our guiding philosophy as we dissect what happens when emotions hijack our responses.

The consequences of losing control extend far beyond the moment. Children growing up in environments where adults regularly erupt learn to normalize chaos, becoming uncomfortable with peace and stability. Marriages deteriorate when pride prevents self-regulation during disagreements. But there's hope! We share actionable techniques for developing self-control: deep breathing exercises, counting before responding, finding physical outlets, and prayer – creating that crucial space between stimulus and response where wisdom can enter.

Jesus provides our ultimate example of self-control. While being crucified after hours of torture, He responded with "Father, forgive them" rather than retaliation. If you're ready to break cycles of emotional reactivity in your life, marriage, or parenting, this episode offers the perspective shift and practical tools you need. Subscribe, share with someone who needs this message, and leave us a review to help others find their way to stronger self-control. #loveisaverb @selfcontrol #Jesus #Jesuschanges #brock #floridacharter

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What if the secret to a stronger marriage was as simple as laughing together more often? In this refreshingly candid episode, we dive into the surprising power of humor in relationships—including those awkward bedroom moments that couples rarely discuss publicly.

Marriage shouldn't feel like a business arrangement where two people fulfill assigned roles without joy or genuine connection. Yet many couples fall into exactly this pattern, maintaining careful facades and losing the playfulness that initially drew them together. We explore how breaking down these barriers through shared laughter creates deeper intimacy and resilience through life's challenges.

Drawing from both scientific research and biblical wisdom, we examine how humor physiologically changes our brain chemistry—reducing stress hormones and increasing feel-good neurotransmitters that strengthen our bonds. As Voltaire noted and Scripture confirms, "a cheerful heart is good medicine," offering couples a powerful tool for diffusing tension and gaining perspective during disagreements.

Through personal stories of financial hardship, loss, and everyday frustrations, we demonstrate how maintaining a sense of humor proved essential for our own relationship survival. When the enemy seeks to steal our joy and destroy our marriages through constant stress and distraction, intentional laughter becomes an act of spiritual warfare.

With your days numbered by God before birth, why spend them in needless misery? Tonight, do something unexpected to make your spouse laugh. Your marriage—and your testimony—will be stronger for it. Questions about strengthening your relationship? Reach out to us at info@missioncent.org or find us on social media.

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