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What if freedom costs more than an apology?

In this gut-wrenching episode of Rooted & Recovered, Dan and Justin unpack Step Nine of the 12-Step journey:
“Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.”

This is where recovery gets real. It’s no longer about admitting the damage—it’s about repairing it. Step Nine isn’t just about saying “I’m sorry.” It’s about stepping into holy ground with trembling hands, a repentant heart, and the bold humility to say, “I broke it… now I want to help make it right.”

This episode will challenge everything in you that still wants to hide, justify, or forget. But healing won’t let you skip this step. Because making amends isn’t about control—it’s about character.

Key Highlights:

• Why apologies soothe guilt but amends restore dignity
• The difference between seeking closure and walking in freedom
• Why you may be rejected—and why it still matters
• Jacob and Esau: A story of bold return and unexpected grace (Genesis 32–33)
• What it means to stop running and finally face it

Scriptures Covered:
Romans 12:18 • Genesis 32–33 • Matthew 5:23-24 • 2 Corinthians 5:17

Final Truth:
Making amends isn’t about rewriting the past—it’s about proving it no longer owns you. The world may remember who you were, but grace declares who you are now. Show up not for a perfect response, but for holy obedience. Because when grace leads, guilt doesn’t get the final word.

Pray for courage. Share with someone who’s ready to stop hiding. Tag a brother or sister walking through Step Nine and remind them: you’re not alone in this.