In this episode of The Messy Middle Matters, Indra and Amanda dive into the surprisingly powerful world of icebreakers, those sometimes awkward, sometimes delightful moments that set the tone for team connection. Whether you're leading a virtual kickoff, hosting a new hire orientation, or just trying to get humans to look each other in the eyes, the right icebreaker can ease social anxiety, build rapport, and foster inclusive environments.

They explore:

• Why icebreakers matter (even for well-established teams)
• What makes an icebreaker effective, and what makes it flounder
• Tips for adapting to different personalities, cultures, and formats
• Their favorite (and least favorite) icebreakers
• How to avoid common pitfalls and keep it purposeful

If you're leading teams or planning meetings, this one's for you. It’s all about creating small moments that invite human connection, without forcing it.

Useful Links:

• Where Should We Begin - A Game of Stories Pro tip: remove the NSFW cards https://game.estherperel.com/products/where-should-we-begin-a-game-of-stories-2nd-edition
• We’re Not Really Strangers https://www.werenotreallystrangers.com/
• Be Plucky - 1:1 Cards Pro tip: The Mentor pack is Indra’s favorite for ice breakers About the cards: https://www.beplucky.com/category/11cards/ Buy the cards: https://shop.beplucky.com/
• So… a collection of questions for deeper discussions https://www.socards.org/
• Creative Sprint Card Deck Can be leveraged for icebreakers; especially good for creative teams https://www.anotherlimitedrebellion.com/the-creative-sprint-card-deck
• Gamestorming Great resource for frameworks for business problem solving. Some can be simplified rather easily Site: https://gamestorming.com/ Book: https://a.co/d/hobgwn2
• The Messy Middle Matters Merch shop.themessymiddlematters.com
• The Messy Middle Matters Glossary www.themessymiddlematters.com/glossary
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