🎙️ Engaged As Fuck: Ep: 0017 - Barrel and Bloom Co. - Behind the Bar with Tom Janeiro 🍸✨

This week, we sit down with Tom Janeiro, the mastermind behind Barrel and Bloom Co., Colorado's mobile bar service that's redefining wedding and event bartending. From his journey out of the corporate grind to creating unforgettable cocktail experiences, Tom spills the tea (or maybe the whiskey) on building a business rooted in joy, connection, and sustainability.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

✔️ How a corporate burnout inspired a thriving wedding bartending business

✔️ The importance of creating personalized experiences for couples and guests

✔️ How Barrel and Bloom balances sustainability and top-tier service

✔️ Tips for building a strong, engaging team in the wedding industry

✔️ Tom's advice for aspiring entrepreneurs and the secret ingredient to bartending success

Grab a drink and tune in as we toast to this inspiring entrepreneurial journey!

🎙️ Engaged As Fuck: Ep: 0016 - The Case Against Same-Day Edits in Wedding Photography & Videography 📸🎥

Same-day edits might seem like a trendy offering, but are they doing more harm than good? In this episode, we unpack why same-day edits disrupt the wedding day experience, compromise quality, and cater more to professional egos than to client needs. With a focus on delivering exceptional, thoughtful memories, we challenge this industry trend and advocate for a better approach to wedding storytelling.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

✔️ Why same-day edits detract from the couple’s wedding experience

✔️ The pitfalls of rushing the editing process and sacrificing quality

✔️ How instant gratification misaligns client expectations

✔️ Why professionals need to put client experiences over their own validation

✔️ A call for thoughtful, patient editing that crafts timeless memories

Tune in as we dismantle the hype and bring the focus back to what truly matters—creating meaningful, high-quality work for your couples.

🎙️ Engaged As Fuck: Ep: 0015 - The High Cost of Second Shooters in Wedding Photography 📸✨

Are skyrocketing second shooter rates throwing the wedding photography industry off balance? In this episode, we dive deep into the controversial trend of second shooters demanding $75-$100+ per hour and how it’s impacting business owners, clients, and the entire industry. From the hidden costs of running a photography business to fair compensation and sustainability, we’re breaking down the numbers and the consequences.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

✔️ Why inflated second shooter rates are creating an industry imbalance

✔️ The real cost of running a wedding photography business

✔️ The importance of fair rates for sustainability and accessibility

✔️ How to value experience, responsibility, and collaboration in pricing

✔️ Why second shooting should be a stepping stone, not a six-figure job

Tune in for a candid, unfiltered conversation about value, sustainability, and keeping it real in the wedding photography world.

🎙️ Engaged As Fuck: The Must-Have Guide to Wedding Photography Contracts 📸✨

A great wedding photography contract is more than just a formality—it’s your business’s safety net and a key to smooth client relationships. In this episode, we dive into why contracts are essential, what they should include, and how they protect both photographers and clients from potential issues. Whether you’re just starting out or refining your business, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you level up your professionalism.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

✔️ The critical elements every wedding photography contract should include

✔️ How contracts manage expectations and protect your business

✔️ Tips for avoiding common disputes with clear communication

✔️ Why even friends and family sessions need a signed agreement

✔️ Pro clauses that save you time, money, and stress

Tune in to learn how a rock-solid contract can safeguard your business and build client trust!

🎙️ Engaged As Fuck: Thriving in the Wedding Industry’s Slow Season 📸✨

Winter may be the wedding industry’s slow season, but it’s also the perfect time to work on your business instead of just in it. In this episode, we break down actionable strategies to leverage the off-season for growth. From refreshing your website to building powerful vendor partnerships and planning killer marketing campaigns, we’re showing you how to stay productive and set the stage for an epic year ahead.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

✔️ How to optimize your marketing for engagement season

✔️ Tips for networking and creating collaborative partnerships

✔️ Why workflow evaluation can make next year stress-free

✔️ How to create content banks for future use

✔️ The value of investing in professional development during downtime

Whether you’re a photographer, planner, or venue owner, these strategies will help you dominate the slow season and crush the busy one.

🎙️ Engaged AF: Mastering the Mindset of a Wedding Photographer 📸💍

Wedding photography is more than just technical skills—it’s a mental game. In this episode, we explore the mindset needed to thrive in the high-pressure, emotionally charged world of wedding photography. From emotional intelligence and resilience to confidence and adaptability, we break down the traits that separate the pros from the rest.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

✔️ Why emotional intelligence is the secret weapon of great photographers

✔️ How to stay patient and focused during long, demanding wedding days

✔️ The importance of adaptability and problem-solving when things go wrong

✔️ How confidence and attention to detail elevate your work and client experience

✔️ Why resilience keeps you passionate and thriving in a tough industry

Tune in to discover how mastering the mental game can set you apart and help you create meaningful, unforgettable work for your clients.

🎙️ Engaged AF: The Brutal Realities of Wedding Photography 📸💍

Think wedding photography is all glamorous shoots and creative freedom? Think again. In this episode, we dive into the raw, unfiltered realities of life behind the lens. From 14-hour days and high-pressure timelines to the relentless grind of perfecting every moment, wedding photography is not for the faint of heart. But for those who are truly passionate? It’s worth every challenge.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

✔️ The demanding physical and emotional toll of wedding photography

✔️ Why people skills are as crucial as technical skills

✔️ The role of relentless work ethic and attention to detail in success

✔️ How the client experience sets top photographers apart from the rest

✔️ Why true wedding photographers thrive under pressure

Tune in for an eye-opening look at the real hustle behind capturing life’s biggest moments!

🎙️ Engaged AF: A Year in the Life of a Wedding Photographer 📸✨

Ever wonder what a wedding photographer’s year looks like? Spoiler: it’s not just snapping photos on weekends! From the hustle of peak wedding season to the planning, marketing, and personal growth of the off-season, this episode breaks down the month-to-month cycle of a wedding photographer’s life.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

✔️ How photographers juggle shooting, editing, and client management during peak season

✔️ Why the off-season is all about business planning and skill-building

✔️ Tips for avoiding burnout in a high-stakes, cyclical industry

✔️ How marketing and goal-setting play a vital role in sustaining success year-round

If you’re a wedding photographer—or just curious about the behind-the-scenes hustle—this episode is packed with insights into the multifaceted life of these creative professionals.