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  • WHY THAT RELATIONSHIP FEELS OFF.

    WHY THAT RELATIONSHIP FEELS OFF.
    2025/06/24
    Why that relationship feels off, could be because it is trauma familiarity. Here’s what I’ve learned about trauma: It doesn’t always show up as pain. Sometimes, it shows up as familiar. It teaches your nervous system, “This is what love feels like” — even if it’s unsafe. Even if it hurts. But just because it feels familiar doesn’t mean it’s right. Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening. Podcast Transcript is at the bottom of this page. I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women. Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible. Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Download my ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. Transcript: God Didn’t Send Him — Trauma Did You were right all along… something felt off, didn’t it? I thought he was an answer to prayer… but he was actually a reflection of my pain. I convinced myself it was “God’s will,” but really — it was just familiar dysfunction wrapped in hope. Have you ever spiritually justified someone who constantly triggered your anxiety, ignored your boundaries, or made you feel like you were asking for too much? Let’s talk about it — honestly, gently, and without judgment. Here’s what I’ve learned about trauma: It doesn’t always show up as pain. Sometimes, it shows up as familiar. It teaches your nervous system, “This is what love feels like” — even if it’s unsafe. Even if it hurts. But just because it feels familiar doesn’t mean it’s right. And can I just say this gently? This was never about shame — it’s about clarity. Because when you finally name the pattern… you take the first step toward breaking it. The truth is: not every relationship that feels intense is from God. Sometimes, it’s not divine alignment. Sometimes… it’s trauma reenactment. I’ve heard this story so many times — from women who are smart, prayerful, and deeply faithful… Women who love God but find themselves entangled in painful relationships that mirror the rejection, chaos, or emotional abandonment they experienced growing up. So when someone triggers your abandonment wound or treats you how your emotionally unavailable parent did… Your body might interpret that as chemistry — not danger. Trauma doesn’t just make you tolerate red flags. It trains you to chase them. Let me give you a real-life example from my practice (shared with permission, details changed for privacy): A woman I worked with kept getting involved with men who were emotionally distant — but spiritual on the surface. One man would pray with her on Monday… then ghost her by Friday. She stayed, hoping he’d change. Why? Because deep down, it wasn’t just about him. It was about a father who was present in the church… but absent in her emotional world. And when this man repeated that pattern, it felt like home. Until she did the healing work, she kept calling it “God’s process.” But really… it was unresolved trauma calling her back to familiar pain. The wilderness is lonely. Quiet. Uncomfortable. But sometimes God leads us there… not to punish us, but to heal our choosing pattern. To reset our nervous system. To remind us: You don’t need to earn love. You already are loved. Another one? In Genesis 29, Jacob loves Rachel — but gets Leah on the wedding night. He labors seven more years for love. Some of us are still laboring emotionally for someone who isn’t even ours to carry. But God never told you to work for love — He offered it freely. And until you receive His love as your anchor, you’ll keep chasing human connections that destabilize you. if you’re listening and ...
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    10 分
  • "GOD IS STILL WRITING MY STORY" - Let Faith Heal Your grief and Self Doubt

    "GOD IS STILL WRITING MY STORY" - Let Faith Heal Your grief and Self Doubt
    2025/06/05

    If you’ve ever asked, “Why wasn’t I enough for them to stay?” — this is for you. Because that question? It doesn’t just live in your thoughts. It sinks into your identity.

    In today’s episode, we’re talking about how grief, shame and self-doubt can quietly shape the way we see ourselves — our value, our relationships, even our connection with God.

    Shame and grief are heavy, hidden feelings that tells you: "There’s something wrong with me." It’s different from guilt — guilt says, “I did something wrong.” No — shame is deeper. It whispers, “I am what’s wrong.

    To unpack this tender and powerful topic, I’m joined by a beautiful soul — Mercia Strydom.

    Mercia shared how she lost her husband to cancer and the deep grief that followed—until she received God's comfort and healing.

    Hope this episode blesses you.

    Thank You! For listening/Watching.

    ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women.

    Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together

    Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible.

    Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident.

    WHAT NEXT?

    ✅ Download my ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.

    ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠

    📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠

    ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.

    ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠

    ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠

    ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠

    📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.
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    14 分
  • SHE FOUND OUT HE WASN’T HER REAL DAD #EPISODE 18

    SHE FOUND OUT HE WASN’T HER REAL DAD #EPISODE 18
    2025/05/30

    In this week’s episode, I share a story from my book Beyond the Hurt.

    It’s about a lady who never knew her biological father. She believed her stepfather was her dad — until one terrible moment shattered everything.

    After forgetting to complete some chores, her stepfather lost his temper and shouted.... listen to the full podcast and I hope it blesses you.

    Thank You! For listening/Watching.

    ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women.

    Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's thehealing we begin together

    Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect,abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible.

    Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident.

    WHAT NEXT?

    ✅ Download my ⁠free resources⁠for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.

    ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book and ⁠Paperback⁠

    📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠

    ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.

    ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠

    ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠

    ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠

    📢Disclaimer:

    I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.

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    #FatherWoundHealing #ChristianWomenHealing #FaithAndHealing #EmotionalHealingJourney #HealingFromTheInsideOut #ChristianTherapist #ChristianPodcast #WoundedButWorthy #AttachmentHealing #FaithLedHealing #BeyondTheHurt #YouAreEnough #Faiithbasedcounselling
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    11 分
  • HEALING THE FATHER WOUNDS, YOU SUPPRESSED EPISODE #17

    HEALING THE FATHER WOUNDS, YOU SUPPRESSED EPISODE #17
    2025/05/23

    One Lie You Need to Stop Telling Yourself

    "It didn’t affect me." That’s the lie so many women tell themselves. Maybe you’ve said it too.

    But if your father was emotionally unavailable, critical, orsimply absent — it left a mark. And pretending it didn’t only delay the healing your heart deeply needs...

    Thank You! For listening.

    I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi, a Psychotherapist and Faith – Based Coach who supports Christian women.

    Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together

    Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect,abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible.

    Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident

    WHAT NEXT?

    ✅ Download my free resources for guidance and healing from past wounds finding clarity & Reflective tools : https://marveladeyemi.com.au/free-resources/

    ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. :marveladeyemi.com.au/e-products/ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: marveladeyemi.com.au

    ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.

    ✅ Join my private face book group https://www.facebook.com/groups/1023834815749753

    ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. https://marveladeyemi.com.au/

    ✅ Send me an email: mav.holesomecounsels@hotmail.com

    📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.
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    21 分
  • FINDING PURPOSE & FEELING ALLIGNED Episode #16

    FINDING PURPOSE & FEELING ALLIGNED Episode #16
    2025/05/16

    Has anyone else noticed that the more you chase what looks successful, the more drained and lost you feel inside? 😔

    If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a life that looks good on the outside but feels empty on the inside, this episode is for you.

    🎙️ In this powerful conversation, I satwith Lois, Founder of Chosen Consulting, an Executive and Team Coach with over 20 years of HR experience in Fortune 500 companies. Lois is, recognised as one of the Top 15 Coaches in Shanghai, a highly experienced bilingual executive and team coach.

    She shares her own turning point and reminds us:💬 “Trying to live a plan God didn’t design for you will always leave you drained.”

    ✨ Imagine what it would feel like to finally live from the inside out — grounded, confident, and aligned with God's purpose for your life.

    click on this link to connect with Lois:

    https://umu.com/course/?groupId=170185&sKey=ee04

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/loissun

    Thank You! For listening.

    ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women.

    Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's thehealing we begin together

    Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect,abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible.

    Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident.

    WHAT NEXT?

    ✅ Download my ⁠free resources⁠for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.

    ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠

    📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠

    ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.

    ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠

    ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’reready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠

    ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠

    📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replaceprofessional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.
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    41 分
  • YOU’RE NOT TOO SENSITIVE Episode #15

    YOU’RE NOT TOO SENSITIVE Episode #15
    2025/05/09

    YOU'RE NOT TOO SENSITIVE....you're Unseen. Who you're vulnerable with matters...

    I hope this blesses you.

    Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women.

    Thank You! For listening/Watching.

    ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠,a Psychotherapist and Faith -Led Coach who supports Christian women.

    Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together

    Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible.

    Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident.

    WHAT NEXT?

    ✅ Download my ⁠free resources⁠for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.

    ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠

    📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠

    ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.

    ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠

    ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠

    ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠

    📢Disclaimer:

    I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.
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    3 分
  • THE HEALED & CONFIDENT WOMAN’S DECLARATIONS. Vol. 1

    THE HEALED & CONFIDENT WOMAN’S DECLARATIONS. Vol. 1
    2025/05/03

    Declare this with me: ❤️ I am a beautiful, confident resourceful, and virtuous woman- full of kindness, compassion, and a heart that seeks understanding. ✨ I am a, loving, respectful, and wise example for mychildren. ❤️ I am a supportive, faithful woman, a trusted friend, a safeplace, and a true wife. 🗝️ With God's help, I build my home through wise,thoughtful, and encouraging words. 🔥 I use my gift of intuition God has placed in me tocover my family - supplying inspired and discerning thoughts.

    🏠 I've created, and I'm creating, a home filled withlove, peace, and joy.

    🗺️ I'm the moral compass of my home, guiding my childrenwith a strong foundation of faith, values, and integrity. 👫 I lead my family in the ways of righteousness andhonour my husband through my words and actions.

    🙏 All of this is possible not by my own strength, butby the grace of God. 💛

    Thank You! For listening.

    I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi, a Psychotherapist and Faith -Led Coach who supports Christian women.

    Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side.That's the healing we begin together

    Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible.

    Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident

    WHAT NEXT?

    ✅ Download my free resources for guidance and healing from past wounds finding clarity & Reflective tools : https://marveladeyemi.com.au/free-resources/

    ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt.https://marveladeyemi.com.au/e-products/

    📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: marveladeyemi.com.au

    ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.

    ✅ Join my private face book group https://www.facebook.com/groups/1023834815749753

    ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. https://marveladeyemi.com.au/

    ✅ Send me an email: mav.holesomecounsels@hotmail.com

    📢 Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support,please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.
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    2 分
  • Beyond betrayal: make you your safe place #14

    Beyond betrayal: make you your safe place #14
    2025/05/01

    This short podcast is a gentle reminder that healing is possible—even after deep betrayal.

    I pray it blesses and encourages your heart today.

    Thank You! For listening.

    I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi, a Psychotherapistand Faith -Led Coach who supports Christian women.

    Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finallyfeeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side.That's the healing we begin together

    Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect,abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible.

    Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident.

    Next Actions:

    ✅ Download my free resources forguidance and healing from past wounds finding clarity & Reflective tools : https://marveladeyemi.com.au/free-resources/

    ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt.https://marveladeyemi.com.au/e-products/

    📌Work with me 1:1: book asession: marveladeyemi.com.au

    ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.

    ✅ Join my private face book group https://www.facebook.com/groups/1023834815749753

    ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’reready to dive deeper into your healing journey. https://marveladeyemi.com.au/

    📢 Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy.

    If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.
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    3 分