Do you constantly feel like you’re not good enough at work, even when you’re trying your best? You’re not alone.

In this episode of Growing Chit Chat, I open up about my real struggles with workplace self-criticism. I share a mindset shift that helped me: comparing my career growth to the Australian driver licence system—L plate, Red P, Green P, and Full Licence.

📌 Note: I accidentally mixed up Red P and Green P in the audio! I’ve added the correct plate visuals in the video when I mention them. If you want to watch the video for this episode, feel free to visit the Growing ChitChat YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/C2Gx5w0Jfn0

🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Video:
• The concept of when to delegate, when to coach, when to direct (use NSW Drive licence as metaphor)
• How to stop judging yourself unfairly based on your learning stage
• Why we need different support systems at different growth levels
• Encouragement for anyone navigating a career change or new job

🎧 Whether you’re starting a new role, shifting careers, or just feeling stuck—this video offers mindset tools and emotional support for your growth journey.

👇 Leave a comment and share your thoughts: https://open.firstory.me/user/cm3b9rlnw044301yqgy1l9ji5/comments What “stage” are you in right now—Learner, Red P, Green P, or Full Licence?

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00:00 Introduction to Self-Criticism in the Workplace
01:17 The metaphor: From Learner to Full License
10:39 Neutrally Analyse Self-Criticism and Seeking Support
16:53 Understanding the Role of Leadership in Development