In this episode, Grandpa Curtis and Papa Joe, share life lessons and reflections for those in the final quarter of their lives. The episode begins with a discussion on how names chosen by grandchildren can create cherished bonds. We then delve into Matthew Kelly's book, 'The Fourth Quarter of Your Life,' exploring themes such as downsizing, the value of experiences over possessions, the importance of relationships, and letting go of control. The conversation also touches on transformative advice like becoming a better listener, offering affirmations, and the power of reconciliation. We discuss finding new talents, trusting in spirituality, and embracing the present moment over past regrets. We share personal anecdotes, from managing family expectations to the joy of giving, providing listeners with practical advice and inspiration for making their final years meaningful and fulfilling.

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Have you ever felt like the world is just too loud? In this episode, Joe and Curt explore The Classroom of Silence, a transformative concept from Matthew Kelly’s book The Fourth Quarter of Your Life: Embracing What Matters Most. Discover how intentional quiet time can help you connect with your inner wisdom, deepen your relationship with God, and clear out life’s noise. Get ready to unlock the power of silence and gain practical tips to start your own journey of self-discovery.

• The Classroom of Silence: A space for introspection and self-discovery where silence teaches us what we need to know.
• Intentional Quiet Time: Silence isn’t just absence of noise—it’s about being intentional, resisting distractions, and letting thoughts flow freely.
• Practical Approach: Start with 10 minutes a day in a quiet, distraction-free space. Sit still, let thoughts come and go, and journal immediately afterward.
• Difference from Meditation: Unlike mindfulness meditation, the Classroom of Silence encourages letting thoughts flow without control or judgment.

• Win: Received a clean bill of health after annual bloodwork—proof that regular check-ups are invaluable.
• Resource: American Primeval on Netflix—a gritty, historical fiction series set in 1857, filled with action and adventure.
• Quote: “We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence.” — Mother Teresa

• Win: Crafted a custom console table for his daughter, solving a hinge design problem through quiet reflection and persistence.
• Resource: Call of Duty: Black Ops 6 for PlayStation 5—providing relaxation and connection through immersive gaming.
• Quote: “In the silence of the heart, God speaks. If you face God in prayer and silence, God will speak to you.” — Mother Teresa

This episode reminds us of the profound power of quiet time to clear mental clutter, deepen spirituality, and find clarity. Whether you start with 10 minutes of intentional silence or pair it with structured prayer, small steps can lead to big transformations.

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Remember, even in silence, you can make progress. Just keep moving forward.

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We discuss Matthew Kelly's book 'The Fourth Quarter of Life,' offering practical advice for navigating the later stages of life, while emphasizing the importance of physical activity, mental stimulation, social engagement, finding purpose and more. You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Ever hesitate to offer advice, fearing it might be taken the wrong way—or ignored altogether? In this episode, Joe and Curt delve into the art of sharing wisdom in a way that resonates. From tough conversations with loved ones to navigating the fine line between helpfulness and intrusiveness, the Dudes break down when and how to speak up, the importance of humility, and why wisdom delivered with care can change lives.

• Listen First: People often just want to feel understood. Stephen Covey’s mantra applies: “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.”
• Ask for Permission: A simple, “Would you like my thoughts on this?” can shift the dynamic from intrusive to supportive.
• Lead by Example: Actions speak louder than words. Be someone they can trust based on your own experiences.
• Simplify Your Advice: Avoid overcomplicating solutions. Clear, actionable guidance is easier to follow and more impactful.
• Extend Grace: Whether to yourself or others, compassion is key—especially when facing tough or emotional conversations.

• Win: Enjoyed a much-needed holiday break filled with family time, movies, and quiet moments for reflection.
• Resource: “The Fourth Quarter of Your Life” by Matthew Kelly and Alan Hunt – A reflective guide to embracing what matters most in your later years. Perfect for contemplating how to live with intention and purpose.
• Quote: “Humility will open more doors than arrogance ever will.” – Zig Ziglar

• Win: Spent a memorable day with a longtime friend in New York City, exploring the Metropolitan Museum of Art and reconnecting through meaningful conversation.
• Resource: DIY vinyl record storage project, inspired by a blog post by John Vantine. A great beginner woodworking project for practical and stylish results.
• Quote: “You are as young as your faith, as old as your doubt, as young as your self-confidence, as old as your fear, as young as your hope, as old as your despair.” – Douglas MacArthur

Sharing wisdom isn’t just about knowing what to say—it’s about knowing when and how to say it. With humility, patience, and intention, your words can leave a lasting impact on those you care about. Remember, progress, not perfection, is the goal.

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This week we dive into the significance of Christmas, exploring the story of God becoming human through the birth of Jesus, and reflect on themes like humility, kindness, joy, and hope. We discuss the importance of generosity, share personal anecdotes about family traditions, and emphasize the everlasting impact of the Christmas spirit. Additionally, we highlight the importance of faith, the history behind Christmas traditions, and the joy of giving over receiving. The episode aims to uplift listeners as they transition into the New Year while maintaining the Christmas spirit. You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

As 2024 wraps up, Joe and Curt take a thoughtful dive into planning for 2025—but not with traditional goal-setting. This episode is all about aligning your life with your core values. The Dudes discuss how prioritizing values over arbitrary goals can create a meaningful year, fostering deeper connections, intentional living, and personal growth. With practical insights and relatable stories, this episode is your guide to living a values-centered life in 2025.

• Understand and Prioritize Your Values: Define what truly matters to you, such as relationships, community, or personal growth. Let these guide your decisions and actions.
• Build Habits for Consistency: Small, daily actions aligned with your values create sustainable momentum.
• Time Management with Purpose: Plan your time around your values to ensure your schedule reflects what matters most.
• Maintain Motivation and Accountability: Use reflection and accountability partners to stay on track with your values.
• Embrace Flexibility and Progress Over Perfection: Let life unfold with your values as a guide, and celebrate small wins along the way.

• Win: A fun-filled weekend with his grandkids at Winterfest and a Bengals game, creating cherished memories.
• Resource: "Things That Matter" by Joshua Becker – A minimalist guide to eliminating distractions and focusing on what truly matters.
• Quote: "Someone’s sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago." — Warren Buffett

• Win: Built a DIY storage ottoman from wood pallets—a creative and practical project aligned with his values.
• Resource: YouTube for Pallet Woodworking – A treasure trove of tutorials for beginners and seasoned DIYers alike.
• Quote: "Your beliefs become your thoughts. Your thoughts become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your values. And your values become your destiny." — Mahatma Gandhi

As you gear up for 2025, take time to reflect on your values and how they can shape your year. Whether it’s building habits, deepening connections, or pursuing meaningful projects, focus on progress over perfection. Remember, every small step counts toward a life aligned with your values.

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Dive into holiday chaos and laughter with us! In our latest episode, we explore the timeless hilarity and heartfelt moments from 'Planes, Trains, and Automobiles' and 'National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation.' Perfect to get into the holiday spirit! You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Thanksgiving—a time for turkey, pie, and the wild gauntlet of family dynamics. Whether you’re dodging controversial conversations, dealing with that one uncle who overshares, or sitting next to your least favorite cousin, there’s a way to not only survive but thrive. Today, we’ll dive into tips for keeping the peace, finding gratitude in the chaos, and laughing through it all. Because even when things get awkward, there’s still plenty to be thankful for.

• Prepare Your Mindset: Approach Thanksgiving with gratitude and the mantra: “This is temporary, and I’m thankful for this experience.”
• Redirect Conversations: Steer discussions away from contentious topics by focusing on movies, shared memories, or neutral subjects.
• Reframe the Moment: Treat awkward or tense interactions as future funny stories. Every Cousin Eddie moment can be a cherished memory.
• Find Gratitude: Reflect on the good food, the funny moments, and the people you’re with—quirks and all. Thanksgiving is about appreciating what you have.

• Win: Completed three days’ worth of work on a focused Saturday, clearing his plate for the Thanksgiving break.
• Resource: A portable cordless air compressor, perfect for inflating car tires, sports balls, and more. Handy and effective at just $30 on Amazon.
• Quote: “Thanksgiving is a time to count your blessings one by one as each relative goes home.” — Melanie White

• Win: Margita booked a last-minute Christmas trip to Disney World, complete with Disney magic and time with friends.
• Resource: PetSafe Easy Walk Dog Harness — an essential tool for enjoying walks with energetic or strong-pulling dogs.
• Quote: “Family is not an important thing. It’s everything.” — Michael J. Fox

Thanksgiving may bring its challenges, but it’s also an opportunity for connection, gratitude, and great food. Approach it with a positive mindset, a sense of humor, and a focus on making memories. Progress, not perfection—just keep moving forward.

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