We’re catching up on all things mom life—what’s going on lately, what’s feeling hard, what’s bringing us joy—and then we’re diving into one of the funniest games we’ve played on the pod: Kill, Screw, Marry: Mom Edition.

Think:
• Mom brain, mom rage, and mom guilt
• Karaoke bar takeovers vs. reality TV binges in pajamas
• No sleep, no alone time, or… no clean house 😩
• Coffee, wine, or green juice—what’s really getting us through?
• The parenting milestones that tested our souls
• And the real dream: a partner who books the sitter without being asked 🙌

We’re putting all of it out there — and of course, we had strong opinions. We surprisingly agreed on a lot… and very strongly disagreed on a few (we’re still recovering from some of the answers). If you need a laugh, a little solidarity, and the reminder that not one of us has it all figured out, this one’s for you. Come play along and tell us your answers too—we know you have them.

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It’s happening!!! Our bestie Carissa (aka @broccyourbody) is having a BABY — and we’re kicking off this new chapter with all the juicy details: from finding out she was pregnant (yep, we got the full first-reaction tea) to telling Corey, navigating trimester one, and how it’s shifted her mindset, her body, and even her relationship with food.

We talk cravings, unexpected symptoms, and the emotional rollercoaster of becoming a mom after years of growing a brand, a business, and herself. Carissa gets real about identity shifts, her hopes for motherhood, and what she’d tell anyone feeling lost in their own journey. Spoiler: it might just be the pep talk you didn’t know you needed.

Whether you’re pregnant, trying, or just deeply curious and cheering on your fellow mamas, this episode is giving cozy catch-up with your favorite mom friend — press play and hang out with us!!

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

This week on Did We Just Become MILFs?, we’re joined by Jordan Younger, aka The Balanced Blonde, for an episode that’s truly out of this world—literally. Jordan opens up about her powerful healing journey from Lyme disease, blending spirituality, plant medicine (including ayahuasca!), and unwavering self-advocacy even when faced with medical skepticism. We dive deep into her intuitive gifts—yes, she’s psychic and sees face shaping in a way you’ve never heard of—and her cosmic beliefs in aliens and universal energies.

We also talk about her motherhood journey: from almost delivering her first baby in the car to navigating her second pregnancy after rectal surgery—her story is a testament to trusting yourself and listening to your body. Jordan shares how she embraces being an intuitive mom and how our children guide us more than we know. It’s an episode that’s equal parts spiritual, raw, and deeply relatable.

More From Jordan Younger:

Follow her on instagram @THEBALANCEDBLONDE

Listen to her podcast SOUL ON FIRE (our episode on here airs in a few weeks!)

Read her blog TheBalancedBlonde.com

Join her substack The Balanced Blonde

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

We’re getting real today about a topic that almost no one talks about openly: postpartum sex. We're joined by Dr. Shamsah Amersi, one of LA’s top OBGYNs (and the incredible woman who delivered both of our babies!), to dive into everything you wish someone had told you about intimacy after birth.

We’re covering what physical recovery actually looks like (hint: it’s not just the 6-week checkup), how birth injuries and breastfeeding can impact libido, the emotional side of feeling “touched out,” body image struggles, and how to navigate communication with your partner without adding more pressure.

If you’ve ever felt confused, alone, or just totally “off” when it comes to postpartum intimacy, this conversation is for you.

More from Dr. Shamsah Amersi :

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Website

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

Back with another round of The Hotline, where we answer your real, unfiltered questions straight from the DMs. No gatekeeping over here — just us, oversharing as always and trying to figure out motherhood together.

We’re talking about the stuff no one warns you about, the things keeping you up at night, and all the “wait, is this just me?!” moments. Let’s get into it:

This Week We Cover:

– Peeing your pants every time you sneeze (yes, still)
– When your baby is way more chaotic than the chill ones at music class
– How to know if you’re actually ready for baby #2
– Feeling like everyone else’s birth was perfect… and yours wasn’t
– Losing a friendship after a miscarriage (and you don’t know what to say)
– Trusting other's to watch your kids without spiraling
– A mom yelling at your kid (and you never looked at her the same again)
– Birth trauma and feeling worthless after a “not ideal” experience
– Parenting information overload: are we just overthinking it all?!

Other Episode Callouts:

– Prepping for baby #2 → Listen to Ep. 49: Things We Were Nervous About Going From 1 to 2 Kids
– Navigating loss and friendship → Ep. 10: Light After Loss with Katrina
– Postpartum workouts & confidence boost → Ep. 56 with Megan Roup
– MIL won’t respect your boundaries? Say less.

No question is too weird, too heavy, or too small. We’re all in this together — germs, drama, leaky bladders and all.

Pelvic Floor TikToks we love

Pelvic Floor Trainer

(PS!! If you listen on Spotify, you can scroll down and leave a comment for us to read back and keep the convo going!)

GIVEAWAY!!!

To keep the Mother’s Day celebrations going just a tad longer we have put together a little giveaway to treat some of the amazing mommies in our community!

2 lucky ladies will win the ultimate mom bundle ($150+ value), we’ll curate it based on where you’re at in your motherhood journey (pregnant, postpartum, newish mom etc!)

TO ENTER:

1). Make sure you’re following all 3 Instagram accounts: @didwejustbecomemilfs @taylaburke @torrsim

2). repost your fave episode to your stories with a link for friends to listen too! (make sure to tag us so that we can see)

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

You know we’re all about making birth and postpartum feel a little less overwhelming — and today’s guest, Taylor Walker Sinning, is seriously a breath of fresh air. She’s a doula, a mom of two, and basically the ultimate hype woman for mom's.

We’re getting into everything we wish we knew before giving birth:
– What doulas actually do (and why they’re not the same as midwives)
– How hypnobirthing can help you feel calm and confident going into labor
– When to hire a doula (and who it’s really for)
– Real tips for prepping mentally and physically for birth
– How partners can stop feeling useless and show up best for you
– Plus the fears nobody talks about — and how to work through them without spiraling

And because you know we had to — we made Taylor spill her doula must-haves, the wildest thing she’s seen at a birth, and the one piece of advice she wants every mom to hear.

If you’re pregnant, planning for the future, or just love a good real-talk convo — you’re gonna love this one.

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

We’re back and we're bored (not really) — but we asked you to share the most unhinged thing your MIL has ever said or done to you. And wow... you delivered.

From planning dinners at the ex’s house, sending shirtless husband pics to other women, to telling you to get a boob job before the wedding — the chaos truly knows no bounds. We’re talking baby hog accusations, wild comments about breastfeeding, licking sweet potato off a baby’s face during RSV season, and so much more. Some stories had us LOL-ing, others left us speechless.

Plus, surprise!! Some exciting announcements:

• Our MILF & Cookies box with Nowhere Bakery is officially available for Mother's Day! Our chocolate chunk cherry cookie is truly to die for! Order your box HERE or send the link to your fam to treat you for the special occasion!
• LA/OC Moms Event!: We’re partnering with New Balance for a Mom Walk on Saturday, May 10th at 10am. Come solo or bring your little one + giveaway alert: 10 attendees will win a FREE pair of shoes!! There's only limited spots so register HERE.

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori