I interviewed my good friend Jules who also happens to be one inspiring man. He is a Clinical Injury Rehabilitation Counsellor who works with veterans. Listen as I pick his brain about what he learnt from working with the ex-military and how both psychological ad physical injury can affect a mans sex life.

Lets learn why it feels so confusing to please women, and what you can do to change this right now!

My Dad has inspired me so much and today he opened up about difficult and vulnerable topics. He is unaware of his courage.

There's 2 different kinds of players.
We go over 10 signs that he could be playing you, remember if he has 1-2 signs that doesn't necessarily mean much, I'd say a minimum of 5 out of 10 would make it more likely that he is.

Having unrealistic expectations is expecting perfection from someone with HARMLESS character flaws, mild trauma that are NOT abusive, without giving them reasonable space and time to recover or grow IF the behaviour is at NOT potentially dangerous.

Here are the 10 signs that he likes you, as if I was coaching him:

💋 You're not just drawn to her appearance, but to her character as well
💋 Your attraction to her didn't come to you all at once. It grew stronger the more you got to know her
💋 You can see her flaws, and don't want to change them
💋 You see how she can fit into your future plans, without her sacrificing her own
💋 You'll happily tell your mates about her
💋 You're willing to get out of your comfort zone with a good attitude
💋 You enjoy when she challenges you
💋 She is ENOUGH for you. There is no FOMO
💋 When she pulls you up righteously, you happily adjust yourself
💋 You don't want to change her

But here's the twist: CALLING ALL MEN! 📢📢📢 This episode is not only for the ladies! What if I told you that this episode can help you determine whether YOU like HER? 😏

This episode unpacks whether he is lusting after you, or is genuinely considering you as in ideal partner. Healthy and real intimacy is built slowly over time, so if there is an explosion immediately, chances are he is just lusting after you.

😍 A few juicy take-aways:
💋 Healthy "like" is having a genuine interest in her, and wanting to build on it over time
💋 Falling in love with her immediately and planning your future with her is usually related to trauma, and is unhealthy
💋 Stability is healthy, extremes aren't!

It is important to take a leap out of our own heads, and see a different perspective.
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When he gives, receive.
When he doesn't, let it go.


Either you:

1. Giving too much: Give less. Let him come to you, and when he does receive it. When he doesn't chase you, don't let that define your worth. This will make you magnetising is a healthy way

2. Not giving enough: When he chases, receive it...if you don't, and he just chases you when you let him catch you he won't want you because people who just give probably have traumas that make them feel like they are attracted to people who don't want them

Either:

1. You're giving too much
2. You're not giving enough