• #253 | How To Stop Getting Stuck Under The Weight Of Grief & Sadness - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For Dads
    2025/01/24

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    Ever wondered how you’d handle life’s most unexpected and heart-wrenching challenges?

    Or how you'd find the resilience to guide your family through it?

    In this episode, we’re joined by breakthrough consultant and father, Brian May, to dive into the complex journey of personal healing and resilience after devastating loss.

    If you’ve faced mental health struggles, moments of doubt, or even felt crushed under the weight of grief, you’re not alone—and this conversation offers practical insights on taking steps forward even when it feels impossible.

    In this episode, you will:

    1. Learn actionable techniques to help you cope on those days when nothing seems right, giving you a path to small, meaningful wins.
    2. Discover how to reframe painful experiences into positive lessons, finding purpose and strength in your personal journey.
    3. Gain practical tips on managing difficult conversations with your children, empowering you to be present, honest, and supportive.

    Join us for a powerful, heartfelt conversation on turning grief and setbacks into a journey of growth, resilience, and even gratitude—listen now and take a step toward finding peace in your own path.

    Contact Bryan May Here

    https://www.bryanisamazing.com/

    IG:

    https://www.instagram.com/bryan.may/

    CAN YOU HELP THE PODCAST?

    Dear Podcast Listener, thank you, I appreciate your support. This podcast aims to support dads all over the world, especially those struggling with their mental health.

    This podcast is my hobby, but I'd like it to become much more than that one day.

    For that to happen, I need the support of either one very wealthy angel investor or a few thousand, possibly slightly less wealthy (but no less generous) angel investors.

    To develop the podcast and hopefully support more dads, I need some help.

    With that in mind, if you enjoyed this episode and want to help me with what I'm trying to do,

    here is the link where you can leave a tip.

    ALL tips, regardless of size, are hugely appreciated, and as a thank you, anyone who leaves a tip will be entitled to a voice note message from me on their next birthday.

    Just contact me via the website

    Thanks again for your support, and take care of yourself

    James

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    ABOUT ME

    Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

    After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

    As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

    Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

    In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

    To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad,

    Click this link

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    For your free digital copy of my book One...

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  • #252 | What's The Iceberg Strategy Hack for Busy Dads? - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For Dads
    2025/01/22

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    What if your child’s outburst or bad behaviour isn’t the real issue?

    Could it just be the tip of a much bigger problem lurking beneath the surface?

    As parents, we often react to our kids' behaviour without considering what's driving it.

    In this episode of Dad Mind Matters, James explores how to see beyond the immediate tantrums and outbursts, uncovering the hidden reasons behind them.

    By understanding the bigger picture, you'll be better equipped to handle challenges with patience and empathy, creating a more harmonious home environment.

    In this episode, you will:

    1) How the "iceberg" method helps you stay calm and understand what’s really going on beneath the surface of your child's behaviour.

    2) Why investigating the root causes of their reactions can build trust and communication.

    3) How small acts, like introducing yourself and fostering imagination, can positively shape your child’s development.

    Press play now and discover the simple but powerful strategies that will transform how you handle difficult parenting moments!

    CAN YOU HELP THE PODCAST?

    Dear Podcast Listener, thank you, I appreciate your support. This podcast aims to support dads all over the world, especially those struggling with their mental health.

    This podcast is my hobby, but I'd like it to become much more than that one day.

    For that to happen, I need the support of either one very wealthy angel investor or a few thousand, possibly slightly less wealthy (but no less generous) angel investors.

    To develop the podcast and hopefully support more dads, I need some help.

    With that in mind, if you enjoyed this episode and want to help me with what I'm trying to do,

    here is the link where you can leave a tip.

    ALL tips, regardless of size, are hugely appreciated, and as a thank you, anyone who leaves a tip will be entitled to a voice note message from me on their next birthday.

    Just contact me via the website

    Thanks again for your support, and take care of yourself

    James

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    ABOUT ME

    Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

    After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

    As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

    Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

    In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

    To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad,

    Click this link

    USEFUL RESOURCES

    For your free digital copy of my book One Dad & His Dog

    Please click this link

    Again to be double awesome & leave a review on Amazon

    Please click this link

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  • #251 | What's A Dad Burden & Do You Have To Manage It Alone? - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For Dads
    2025/01/20

    How does being a dad impact your mental health, and why do so many fathers struggle in silence?

    Fatherhood comes with unique emotional and mental challenges, yet men are often expected to just "get on with it."

    In this episode, entrepreneur and father of two, Anthony Lindsay, joins me to discuss the differences between raising boys and girls, the unseen pressures dads face, and why it's so hard for men to ask for help.

    By tuning in, you’ll learn:

    1) The key differences in parenting boys versus girls and the emotional dynamics at play.

    2) How societal expectations contribute to men's mental health struggles.

    3) Practical strategies to manage stress, loneliness, and the "man burden" of responsibility.

    Listen now for an open and honest conversation that will help you navigate fatherhood, mental health, and the challenges of being a modern dad.

    You can contact Anthony via LinkedIn

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/anthony-lindsay-cemap/

    CAN YOU HELP THE PODCAST?

    If you have a story you'd like to tell about living with a mental illness or about how you escaped the rate race that you'd like to share with my podcast listeners, please book a chat via

    this link.

    Dear Podcast Listener, Thank you for your support. This podcast aims to support dads all over the world, especially those struggling with their mental health.

    This podcast is my hobby, but I'd like it to become much more than that one day. For that to happen, I need the support of either one very wealthy angel investor or a few thousand, possibly slightly less wealthy (but no less generous) angel investors.

    To develop the podcast and hopefully support more dads, I need some help. With that in mind, if you enjoyed this episode and want to help me with what I'm trying to do,

    here is the link where you can leave a tip.

    ALL tips, regardless of size, are hugely appreciated, and as a thank you, anyone who leaves a tip will be entitled to a voice note message from me on their next birthday.

    Just contact me via the website

    Thanks again for your support, and take care of yourself

    James

    To sign up for my FREE monthly newsletter - CLICK HERE

    ABOUT ME

    Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

    After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

    As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

    Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

    In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

    To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad, Click this link

    USEFUL RESOURCES

    For your free digital copy of my book One Dad & His Dog

    Please click this link

    Again to be double awesome & leave a review on Amazon

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  • #250 | The Surprising Truth About Parenting Nobody Tells You - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For Dads
    2025/01/17

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    Ever feel like parenting is a relentless cycle of stress, worry, and sleepless nights?

    What if there were three simple strategies that could ease the mental load?

    Parenting is challenging enough without the added pressure of managing mental health.

    This episode dives into three key principles that can help you handle the chaos, improve your mindset, and reduce stress as a parent.

    By listening to this episode, you'll:

    1) Learn how to embrace life's unpredictability through acceptance

    2) Strengthen your family bonds by being accountable

    3) Turn parental anxiety into a positive force that shows how much you care.

    Ready to find out how these three strategies can transform your parenting experience?

    Hit play now and start your journey to a healthier mind!

    CAN YOU HELP THE PODCAST?

    If you have a story you'd like to tell about living with a mental illness or about how you escaped the rate race that you'd like to share with my podcast listeners, please book a chat via

    this link.

    Dear Podcast Listener, Thank you for your support. This podcast aims to support dads all over the world, especially those struggling with their mental health.

    This podcast is my hobby, but I'd like it to become much more than that one day. For that to happen, I need the support of either one very wealthy angel investor or a few thousand, possibly slightly less wealthy (but no less generous) angel investors.

    To develop the podcast and hopefully support more dads, I need some help. With that in mind, if you enjoyed this episode and want to help me with what I'm trying to do,

    here is the link where you can leave a tip.

    ALL tips, regardless of size, are hugely appreciated, and as a thank you, anyone who leaves a tip will be entitled to a voice note message from me on their next birthday.

    Just contact me via the website

    Thanks again for your support, and take care of yourself

    James

    To sign up for my FREE monthly newsletter - CLICK HERE

    ABOUT ME

    Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

    After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

    As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

    Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

    In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

    To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad, Click this link

    USEFUL RESOURCES

    For your free digital copy of my book One Dad & His Dog

    Please click this link

    Again to be double awesome & leave a review on Amazon

    Please click this link

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  • #249 | Best Marriage Advice EVER for Men - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For Dads
    2025/01/15

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    Have you ever wondered what it takes to build a strong, lasting marriage?

    What do couples who have been happily married for over 25 years know that the rest of us don’t?

    Whether you're in the early years of marriage or navigating decades together, balancing work, family, and personal lives is no easy task.

    If you're seeking insights on how to build a marriage that withstands the test of time, this episode offers practical advice and timeless wisdom to guide your way.

    In this episode, you will:

    1. Learn why "keeping score" can harm your relationship and what mindset truly fosters a strong partnership.
    2. Discover how embracing both fun and disagreements can strengthen your marriage and build a resilient family unit.
    3. Understand the importance of being vulnerable and why asking for help can lead to deeper emotional connections.

    Ready to uncover the secrets to a long, happy marriage?

    Tune in to this episode and start applying these five powerful tips today

    CAN YOU HELP THE PODCAST?

    If you have a story you'd like to tell about living with a mental illness or about how you escaped the rate race that you'd like to share with my podcast listeners, please book a chat via

    this link.

    Dear Podcast Listener, thank you, I appreciate your support. This podcast aims to support dads all over the world, especially those struggling with their mental health.

    This podcast is my hobby, but I'd like it to become much more than that one day. For that to happen, I need the support of either one very wealthy angel investor or a few thousand, possibly slightly less wealthy (but no less generous) angel investors.

    To develop the podcast and hopefully support more dads, I need some help. With that in mind, if you enjoyed this episode and want to help me with what I'm trying to do,

    here is the link where you can leave a tip.

    ALL tips, regardless of size, are hugely appreciated, and as a thank you, anyone who leaves a tip will be entitled to a voice note message from me on their next birthday.

    Just contact me via the website

    Thanks again for your support, and take care of yourself

    James

    To sign up for my FREE monthly newsletter - CLICK HERE

    ABOUT ME

    Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

    After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

    As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

    Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

    In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

    To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad, Click this link

    USEFUL RESOURCES

    For your free digital copy of my book One Dad & His Dog

    Please click this...

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  • #248 | Stuck In A Sexless Marriage? How To Discuss Your Sex Life Concerns - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For Dads
    2025/01/13

    What would you do if your marriage was stuck in a rut of sexual disconnection and your partner refused to even discuss it?

    For many couples, a lack of intimacy creates growing resentment, frustration, and unhappiness.

    This episode offers practical advice and insights to reignite passion and connection, even when communication feels impossible.

    In this episode, you will:

    1. Learn actionable strategies to approach the sensitive topic of intimacy without blame or judgment.
    2. Discover how personal growth and self-awareness can transform your sexual connection.
    3. Gain tools to create a fulfilling and playful sex life, tailored to your unique relationship.

    Tune in now to uncover the steps to breaking through intimacy barriers and bringing joy and connection back into your relationship.

    To contact our guest Lianna

    https://linktr.ee/blissologistlianna

    www.liannawaldencoaching.com

    More From Dad Mind Matters

    If you have a story you'd like to tell about living with a mental illness or about how you escaped the rat race that you'd like to share with my podcast listeners, please book a chat via

    this link.

    Can you help the podcast?

    Dear Podcast Listener, Thank you for your support. This podcast aims to support dads all over the world, especially those struggling with their mental health.

    This podcast is my hobby, but I'd like it to become more than that one day. For that to happen, I need the support of either one very wealthy angel investor or a few thousand, possibly slightly less wealthy (but no less generous) angel investors.

    To develop the podcast and hopefully support more dads, I need some help. With that in mind, if you enjoyed this episode and want to help me with what I'm trying to do,

    here is the link where you can leave a tip.

    ALL tips, regardless of size, are hugely appreciated, and as a thank you, anyone who leaves a tip will be entitled to a voice note message from me on their next birthday.

    Just contact me via the website

    Thanks again for your support, and take care of yourself

    James

    To sign up for my FREE monthly newsletter - CLICK HERE

    ABOUT ME

    Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

    After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

    As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

    Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

    In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

    To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad, Click this link

    USEFUL RESOURCES

    For your free digital copy of my book One Dad & His Dog

    Please click this...

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  • #247 | Are You At Rock Bottom? These 5 Quotes Really Helped Me When I Was - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For Dads
    2025/01/10

    If you fancy a chat to see if I might be able to help you achieve something click

    this link.

    ABOUT ME

    Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

    After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

    As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

    Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

    In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

    To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad, Click this link

    USEFUL RESOURCES

    For your free digital copy of my book One Dad & His Dog

    Please click this link

    Again to be double awesome & leave a review on Amazon

    Please click this link

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    Descript has made my life so so much easier. It's AI clever ness makes everything so much quicker which leaves me more time to make up some genuinely terrible Ukulele songs.

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    Wanna Help?

    If you want to help me develop this podcast please let a friend know about it. I hear you, no one has any spare time so here's an email template you could use.

    Thanks in advance

    James

    Dear "close dad mate"

    I've just started listening to a podcast on apple podcasts for dads, which I think you might like.

    It covers dad friendly topics like men's mental health, parenting, marriage, and the importance of mental health awareness and emotional intelligence for improving men's mental health.

    The episodes are every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. They're not too long, have the occasional dad joke, one liner and parody song. The host struggles with his own mental health so seems keen to want to helps others in a similar position.

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  • #246 | Stuck in a Sexless Marriage? Advice How to Reignite Intimacy From A Sex & Relationship Coach - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For Dads
    2025/01/08

    Do you feel like your relationship has lost its spark?

    Have you and your partner drifted apart when it comes to intimacy?

    Many couples struggle with maintaining a fulfilling sex life, and discussing the issue can feel daunting.

    In this episode, I reflect on my conversation with sex and relationship coach Lianna Walden, who shares powerful insights on how to open up communication, reignite desire, and strengthen emotional connection in relationships.

    By tuning in, you will learn:

    1) How to approach sensitive conversations about intimacy without causing conflict.

    2) The importance of self-improvement and how it can impact attraction and connection.

    3) Practical steps to introduce variety and rekindle passion in your relationship.

    Don’t let a lack of communication or routine keep you stuck—press play now and discover actionable ways to bring intimacy back into your relationship!

    The 2 podcast episodes where Lianna was a guest speaker

    #245 | What Causes A Sexless Marriage & How To Stop It Happening To Yours - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For Dads

    #247 | What To Do If Your Partner Won't Discuss Your Sex Life Concerns - Parenting, Marriage & Mental Health Support For Dads

    To contact Lianna

    https://linktr.ee/blissologistlianna

    www.liannawaldencoaching.com

    CAN YOU HELP THE PODCAST?

    If you have a story you'd like to tell about living with a mental illness or about how you escaped the rat race that you'd like to share with my podcast listeners, please book a chat via

    this link.

    Dear Podcast Listener, Thank you for your support. This podcast aims to support dads all over the world, especially those struggling with their mental health.

    This podcast is my hobby, but I'd like it to become more than that one day. For that to happen, I need the support of either one very wealthy angel investor or a few thousand, possibly slightly less wealthy (but no less generous) angel investors.

    To develop the podcast and hopefully support more dads, I need some help. With that in mind, if you enjoyed this episode and want to help me with what I'm trying to do,

    here is the link where you can leave a tip.

    ALL tips, regardless of size, are hugely appreciated, and as a thank you, anyone who leaves a tip will be entitled to a voice note message from me on their next birthday.

    Just contact me via the website

    Thanks again for your support, and take care of yourself

    James

    To sign up for my FREE monthly newsletter - CLICK HERE

    ABOUT ME

    Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

    After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

    As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

    Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

    In 2010, my GP suggested I do...

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