In this episode of Couples Connect, hosts Kevin and Tanya Locks welcome Kelly Case, a licensed professional clinical counselor specializing in marriage and family therapy. The conversation delves into critical topics such as resentment, vulnerability, forgiveness, and infidelity in relationships. Kelly emphasizes the importance of addressing resentment early in a relationship, the necessity of forgiveness for personal well-being, and the role of vulnerability in fostering deep connections. The discussion also touches on the challenges of communication, particularly defensiveness, and the prevalence of infidelity in marriages. Kelly offers valuable advice for singles seeking relationships, highlighting the significance of shared values and effective communication.

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In this episode of Couples Connect, hosts Kevin and Tanya Locks engage with sex therapist Janice Garcia to explore the complexities of intimacy within marriage. They discuss the impact of stress on sexual desire, the challenges of sexless marriages, and the importance of communication in addressing sexual issues. Janice emphasizes the need for mutual satisfaction in sexual relationships and the significance of emotional connection. The conversation also touches on navigating sexual trauma, understanding menopause, and creating a safe space for open discussions about sex. The episode concludes with practical steps couples can take to enhance their intimacy and connection.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Conversation on Sex

02:33 Understanding Common Struggles in Marital Sex

05:34 Exploring the Concept of a Sexless Marriage

08:42 The Importance of Communication in Intimacy

11:57 Defining Great Sex in a Marriage

15:47 Creating Connection Outside the Bedroom

19:27 Preparing for Intimacy: Mindset and Body Care

23:46 Addressing Sexual Trauma in Relationships

27:37 Supporting Partners with Sexual Trauma

31:43 Navigating Erectile Dysfunction in Relationships

35:46 Understanding Menopause and Its Effects on Sex

40:56 Exploring New Sexual Experiences Together

44:10 Creating Safety for Open Conversations

48:33 The Role of Emotional Connection in Intimacy

50:59 Practical Steps for Couples to Enhance Intimacy

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In this episode of Couples Connect, hosts Kevin and Tanya Locks engage with Dr. Pamela Fox and Kevin Fox, a couple with extensive experience in mental health and blended family dynamics. They discuss the complexities of blended families, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the challenges of navigating relationships amidst crises. The conversation also touches on the significance of self-care, understanding family dysfunction, and providing practical advice for couples facing challenges in their relationships. The Foxes share their personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the need for communication, support, and resilience in building strong family bonds.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Team Fox and Their Background

09:32 Navigating Blended Family Dynamics

18:59 Crisis and Resilience in Blended Families

23:26 Addressing Abuse in Blended Families

36:14 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence

48:41 Understanding Family Dysfunction

58:44 Holistic Health in Relationships

01:06:47 Advice for Couples Facing Challenges

01:13:06 Final Thoughts and Resources

01:19:14 Fox Outro.mp4

In this episode of Couples Connect, hosts Kevin and Tanya Locks engage with Josh and Tondi Montgomery, who share their inspiring journey from financial struggle to abundance. They discuss the importance of having a vision, the role of mentorship, and the discipline required for delayed gratification. The Montgomerys emphasize the significance of budgeting, understanding profit, and the necessity of teaching financial literacy to the next generation. They also highlight the psychological aspects of money management and the importance of having a supportive partner in achieving financial goals.

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In this episode of Couples Connect, Kevin and Tanya Locks discuss the topic of sex within marriage. They are joined by Ty and Sharon Bradshaw, who share their experiences and insights. The conversation covers the challenges of maintaining a healthy sex life, the importance of intentionality, and the need for open communication. Subscribe to the YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@CouplesConnectPodcast?sub_confirmation=1 Connect with us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/couplesconnectpodcast/ Connect with us on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1495204704008011 Connect with us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@couplesconnectwithkevtan ----------------------------------------------------------------- Tanya's ALL NATURAL HAIR CARE SYSTEM!! Tanya has been a hairstylist for 20+ years! And over the years she have researched and researched and finally created a All Natural Hair Care System for ALL hair types! Just Like You, All Natural Hair Care Website: https://www.justlikeyoullc.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justlikeyoutl Email: justlikeyoutl@gmail.com -----------------------------------------------------------------

Got Questions for us? Email: ccwithkevandtan@gmail.com 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 01:07 The Importance of Friendship and Longevity in Relationships 01:39 Being Intentional about Sex 03:22 The Challenges of Maintaining a Healthy Sex Life 06:07 The Evolution of Sex within a Long-Term Relationship 08:52 Closing the Windows and Creating the Right Mood 11:24 Initiation and Desire in a Marriage 16:14 The Challenge of Initiating Sex 18:58 The Impact of Environment on Sexual Dynamics 21:29 Unpacking Baggage and Learning from Past Experiences 25:24 The Importance of Therapy and Education 28:32 The Need for Vulnerability and Honesty 30:51 Understanding and Meeting Each Other's Needs 34:03 The Impact of Negative Messages on Sexual Dynamics 39:23 The Importance of Learning and Teaching Each Other 41:10 Addressing Childhood Trauma and Sexual History 43:17 The Importance of Emotional Connection and Intimacy 46:11 Exploring New Experiences in the Bedroom 51:29 The Impact of Pornography on Relationships 53:58 Navigating Changing Desires and Preferences 57:33 The Role of Communication in a Healthy Sex Life 01:04:02 Challenging Assumptions and Pushing Boundaries 01:09:10 The Power of Vulnerability and Forgiveness

In this episode, Kevin and Tanya Locks interview Mr. Myron and Lisa Coleman about the topic of finances in marriage, specifically when the woman makes more money. The Colemans share their personal journey of navigating this dynamic and how they have grown emotionally and improved their communication. They emphasize the importance of supporting each other's goals and aspirations, and the need for open conversations about money in relationships. Despite facing challenges and moments of resentment, their love and commitment to each other have helped them overcome and build a stronger marriage. Kevin and Tanya Locks share their journey of navigating the challenges that arise when the wife makes more money than the husband. They emphasize the importance of personal spiritual growth and understanding the true purpose of marriage. They also highlight the need for open communication, recognizing and addressing resentment, and finding ways to connect and have fun as a couple.

JOIN THE COUPLES CONNECT FAMILY!! Subscribe to the YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@CouplesConnectPodcast?sub_confirmation=1 Connect with us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/couplesconnectpodcast/ Connect with us on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1495204704008011 Connect with us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@couplesconnectwithkevtan ----------------------------------------------------------------- Tanya's ALL NATURAL HAIR CARE SYSTEM!! Tanya has been a hairstylist for 20+ years! And over the years she have researched and researched and finally created a All Natural Hair Care System for ALL hair types! Just Like You, All Natural Hair Care Website: https://www.justlikeyoullc.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justlikeyoutl Email: justlikeyoutl@gmail.com ----------------------------------------------------------------- Got Questions for us? Email: ccwithkevandtan@gmail.com Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Topic Selection 04:11 The Colemans' Experience with Financial Disparities 06:29 Struggles and Resentment in the Relationship 07:56 A Shift in Perspective and Taking the Lead 11:10 Myron's Perspective and Motivation 14:33 Dealing with Friction and Striving for Unity 17:57 The Importance of Personal Growth and Communication 19:52 Planning for the Future and Retirement 23:46 Shared Experiences and Overcoming Financial Challenges 29:05 The Role of Money in Relationships and Teaching Children about Finances 32:21 Navigating Difficult Times and the Power of Unconditional Love 32:48 Commitment and Sticking Together Through Challenges 33:44 Healing and Love in the Midst of Challenges 36:05 The Importance of Transparency and Sharing Your Story 39:27 The Impact of Silence and Handling Aggression 43:46 Personal Growth and the Role of Spirituality 46:24 Finding Common Interests and Maintaining Connection 50:14 Overcoming Resentment and Building a Successful Marriage 57:28 The Importance of Date Nights and Shared Interests 01:03:21 Sharing Their Story to Help Others 01:05:48 MyronLeesa Outro (1).mp4

Kevin and Tanya Locks interview Brian and Lisa Flew about their married life. They discuss how they met, their journey as a couple, and the challenges they faced. They emphasize the importance of communication, respect, and commitment in their marriage. They also talk about the role of faith and God in their relationship. Kevin and Tanya Locks share their communication strategies and tools for a successful marriage. They emphasize the importance of active listening and understanding, using a candle exercise to ensure comprehension. They also discuss the need for boundaries and respect in communication, especially during disagreements. The couple highlights the significance of forgiveness and the role of vulnerability in seeking help and support from trusted friends. They stress the importance of intentionality and being open to change and growth in the marriage. Finally, they share their love for each other and their shared interests in music and essential oils.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:29 Moving to Dallas and Adjusting to a New Environment

06:31 Challenges and Culture Shock

09:18 Raising Children and Finding Compromise

12:14 The Secret to a Long-lasting Marriage

15:09 The Importance of God in the Marriage

18:17 Overcoming Obstacles and Communicating Expectations

31:56 The Power of Active Listening and Understanding

38:45 The Healing and Growth of Forgiveness

41:52 The Importance of Intentionality and Vulnerability

47:10 The Value of a Support System

53:10 Embracing Change and Prioritizing Love, Respect, and Service

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Reginald and Natalia Giles share their journey of building a successful business as a couple. They own Jive Luxury Car Service, which stands for Jesus Is For Everybody. The business provides transportation services for various occasions and clients. They attribute their success to building relationships and providing exceptional service. Reginald takes care of the operational aspects of the business, while Natalia handles administrative work, marketing, and customer relations. The business started after Reginald left his job and tried various ventures before finding success with Jive. They emphasize the importance of trusting God's plan and being open to unexpected opportunities. Kevin and Tanya Locks share their journey from humble beginnings to running their own luxury transportation service, Jive. They emphasize the importance of providing a personal and engaging experience for their clients, focusing on building relationships rather than just making money. They also discuss the challenges they faced as a couple working together and how they learned to respect each other's strengths and communicate effectively. Their vision for the future includes giving back to the community through scholarships and investments. Overall, their story is inspiring and showcases the power of faith, perseverance, and teamwork.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Excitement

01:24 Getting to Know Reginald and Natalia Giles

05:56 Challenges of Doing Business as a Couple

06:31 Starting Jive Luxury Car Service

08:04 Building Clientele and the Power of Relationships

10:19 Trusting God's Plan and Embracing Unexpected Opportunities

12:38 Roles in the Business and the Importance of Support

14:49 The Importance of Exceptional Service

16:36 Maintaining Client Relationships and Recurring Business

18:35 Reginald's Entrepreneurial Spirit and Natalia's Support

25:01 The Birth of Jive Luxury Car Service

32:03 Trusting God's Plan and Persevering Through Challenges

38:15 Providing an Experience, Not Just a Ride

40:50 Maintaining Dignity and Supporting Each Other

41:46 Growth and Support During Tough Times

47:31 Respecting Strengths and Roles in the Business

52:43 Navigating Challenges and Staying in Your Lane

56:41 Effective Communication and Approaching Each Other

01:09:34 Providing Personal and Engaging Communication

01:13:19 Giving Back to the Community

01:15:08 The Vision for the Future