"Introduce a little anarchy." "Upset the established order, and everything becomes chaos." Narcissists are agents of chaos. They're constantly looking for ways to shake things up and throw you out of kilter. This could mean anything from creating confusion with co-parenting plans, to deliberately showing up for a meeting with you at the wrong time. Any catalyst will do. The goal here is to create confusion, wait for you to react or try to fix it, then blame you for everything that has gone wrong. When the blame is placed on you, your natural reaction is to become defensive.

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The narcissist wants the old you back. They want you to be the person you first met before you knew who they really were. Narcissists thrive on manipulation and control. If you don't allow it, they will see no need for you.

If you're wondering if you're in a relationship with a narcissists, you most likely are. Some obvious signs are gaslighting and manipulation but there are some that are not so obvious and it takes time to reveal themselves. So many people are trying to recover from this type of abuse that many cannot understand due to the inability to explain what took place. Here I discuss recount 10 signs. There were many.