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Have you ever stopped to think about where fear and anxiety comes from? In my quiet moments this week I found myself thinking about this question and reflecting on the times in my past when I struggled with fear and anxiety the most. What I noted was that whenever I felt powerless, alone, helpless, and inferior, these were the times fear and anxiety showed up. For years, I always felt like fear and anxiety controlled me. But God used a sickness to show me the very opposite. I talk about it in this week’s blog episode, “Amplified Anxiety”, and I pray that it blesses you!

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The waiting season. It’s almost a buzzword at this point because everywhere you look, someone is talking about it. Whether you are single, married, or somewhere in the middle, everyone finds themselves waiting for something at one point or another. Depending on how you wait, can make this period anywhere from fine to agonizing. One thing I can admit about myself is that I don’t like waiting and if I’m waiting, I don’t like feeling like I’m wasting my time. It’s a safe assumption that most individuals don’t mind waiting as long as they know something will eventually come. But how long are we willing to wait for that something and most importantly what are we doing in the meantime?

I believe that God gives us opportunities to prepare for what He has for us but it is our responsibility to recognize and use these opportunities to our benefit. The only problem is, how do you know which opportunity will benefit you and which ones can be passed on?

I attempt to answer this question in this week’s episode of the blog, “Don’t Fumble Your Blessing.” I pray it blesses you!

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Have you ever had someone say something negative about you that was either true or untrue and it left you feeling awful? Well, I bet you’re not the only one. Hurtful comments are hard to hear and sometimes these comments aren’t even intended to hurt you. But unfortunately, that doesn’t soften the blow. Our words have the ability to build someone up and cut them down. This is why scripture cautions us to use our words wisely because what you say to someone today can have lasting impacts on them for years to come. Many of us are holding onto words that were spoken to us and we have not been able to let them go. It has affected our relationships, how we see others and how we see ourselves.

In today’s blog, I am going to share how I believe you can finally let those words go and truly begin to view yourself and the life that God has for you through His eyes.

I pray that it blesses you!

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Are there any perfectionists in the room? Let me see you!

Being a perfectionist is something that I have always low-key loved about myself. I would laugh about it and proudly own that title when discussing it with others. In fact if you told me I was a perfectionist, not only would I agree with you but I would probably feel really good about it too. This was because in my mind, perfectionism and excellence went hand in hand and it was big time #goals.

However, over the years, though gaining societal applause, it has been highlighted to me why this personality trait is not as good as I once believed it to be. I talk about it all in today’s blog “Releasing Perfectionism.”

I pray it blesses you!

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In the words of Tasha Cobbs, “I’m getting ready to see something I’ve never seen!”

If that’s your meditation this year, shout, “I’m getting ready!”

Happy new year everyone! It’s 2025, we’re a couple days in and I’m back with a blog to set you up for success. Whether you are committed to getting healthier, starting a business, repairing or beginning a new relationship, we will all find ourselves at the stage of rebuilding. It’s not an easy one because rebuilding often means admitting to a failed attempt. No one likes to admit failure but being in a position to rebuild presents an opportunity to build better. If this resonates with you, I encourage you to check out today's blog entitled "(Re) Building Your Blocks".

I pray it blesses you!

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As a single Christian woman who would like to one day get married, I have tussled with the idea of marital submission for years. In fact, I told myself that I didn’t like it and it just wasn’t for me. However, in the recent couple of months, God has highlighted a few things to me that has kind of made me think differently about it and I wanted to share my thoughts with you in today’s blog “The S-Word: Reconsidering Marital Submission”

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Has anyone else noticed that Fall has arrived? Yes, it’s time for cozy layers, pumpkin-spiced lattes, warm brown and orange tones, and my personal favourite... the beautiful change of the leaves on the trees. Yes, it is no secret that Fall is one of my favorite times of the year. But the onset of Fall also places my heart in a reflective state and as always, this time of year, I often find myself thinking about change. However, as we touched on pruning in my last blog, I also find my mind reflecting on the topic of growth, and how one does not necessarily indicate the other.

How many of us know that passed time does not guarantee change and while change can occur, it does not always reflect growth? In order for growth to take place, intention needs to be part of the equation. So, in today’s blog I ask the question, How are you changing? How are you moving from season to season? Are you just going through the motions or is progress actually taking place? These are the questions that will be dropped in today’s blog, “New Season, Old Me.”

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Today we are continuing on in our self-development season and in the spirit of true self-development, we’re going there and talking about pruning. Yes, I know…no one likes to get cut but whether we want to admit it or not, cutting is part of the growing process. I remember several years ago, I did the big chop and I HATED it! I felt uncomfortable and even shed a few tears when I looked at my shortened coiffure in the mirror…BUT…did my hair GROW after that! AND it grew back healthier and stronger.

The same goes for when God does some cutting in us. Yes, it may feel uncomfortable and yes you may shed a few tears as you adjust to things, after the cut. But God promises that the cut will work FOR you, not against you. So, if you are in a season where you’re finding that God is calling you to let go of a few things ✂️✂️ and it’s a struggle, today’s blog “The Pruning”, is for you. I pray that it blesses you.

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