Join Barry and Bobby as they dive into the world of email spoofing, passkeys, and caregiving syndrome. Discover how to protect yourself from digital scams, simplify your online security, and manage the emotional toll of caregiving. With practical tips and a touch of humor, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of modern tech and caregiving.

Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction: Email Spoofing and Passkeys
05:30 - Understanding Email Spoofing
12:15 - The Rise of Passkeys
18:45 - Caregiving Syndrome: Challenges and Solutions
25:00 - Tech Tips for Caregivers
30:00 - Closing Thoughts and Resources

Key Topics

• Email Spoofing: What it is and how to avoid it
• Passkeys: A new era of password-free security
• Caregiving Syndrome: Recognizing and managing burnout
• Tech tools for caregivers: Simplifying daily tasks
• The importance of asking for help and self-care

Resources

• Mango Display: mangodisplay.com
• Cleveland Clinic Study on Caregiving Syndrome
• YouTube Channel: youtube.com/caretechandtips
• Show notes and resources are here: https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

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In this grab bag episode, Barry and Bobby cover everything from scams and digital hygiene to emotional moments in caregiving. Barry opens up with a story about learning the hard way that being “right” isn’t always helpful—especially in caregiving situations. They debunk the overhyped 16-billion credential breach, share essential password and scam-spotting tips, give an update on DMV ID changes, and dive deep into how fear often hides behind our need for control. Barry wraps with a reflective story inspired by a bicycle ride and some programming wisdom that unexpectedly applies to caregiving.

• 00:00 — Barry’s “do you want to be right or do you want it to work?” story

• 01:20 — Summer heat check-in and life updates

• 02:00 — The overhyped “16 billion credential leak” explained

• 04:45 — Why password managers and multi-factor auth still matter

• 06:00 — Have I Been Pwned? and cleaning up your password hygiene

• 07:45 — Email scams, AI-powered phishing, and red flag spotting

• 09:00 — Barry’s real-life PayPal scam attempt and how to respond

• 12:00 — The psychological toll of scams on older relatives

• 13:00 — South Carolina DMV changes: no more same-day IDs

• 15:00 — Real ID, fraud prevention, and planning ahead for ID renewals

• 15:45 — Deep thoughts from Barry’s morning ride: why we nitpick and correct

• 18:00 — Fear, control, and the importance of talking to others

• 19:30 — The power of shared fears and building emotional support

• 21:00 — Listener email invitation and how to reach out

• 21:45 — Tech meets psychology: Perl’s “3 virtues” and how they don’t always serve you in caregiving

• 24:08 — Final thoughts and sign-off

• Caregiving psychology: control vs compassion

• Digital hygiene and password safety

• Phishing and AI-powered scam prevention

• South Carolina’s DMV shift & Real ID changes

• When tech virtues don’t serve caregiving moments

• Emotional self-awareness and fear sharing

• Have I Been Pwned? – Check if your email was in a breach

• What Got You Here Won’t Get You There by Marshall Goldsmith

• DMV state list for Real ID policies (see show notes)

• Show notes and resources are here: https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

Show Notes:

This week, Barry and Bobby dive into extreme summer heat and how it uniquely affects seniors and their caregivers—plus, they uncover the magic of senior-friendly ride services that don’t require a smartphone. And yes, Barry once again brings the cookies from the "retired nap club."

Key Topics:

• Heat dome warnings and heat stroke signs to watch for

• Tips for keeping seniors safe and cool

• HVAC maintenance and hydration reminders

• New ride services that cater to seniors—smartphone optional!

• Personal stories about simple tech tasks that aren’t always so simple

• Time zone bugs, clock confusion, and how caregivers can help with “easy” phone features

️ Timestamps:

• 00:00 – Welcome & heat wave reality check

• 01:00 – Recognizing signs of heat stroke in seniors

• 02:30 – AC maintenance & hydration reminders

• 03:30 – Barry’s personal heat warning symptom

• 05:38 – Ride services for seniors (Uber Caregiver, GoGo Grandparent, etc.)

• 10:00 – Helping seniors with simple tech tasks (alarm clocks, time settings)

• 13:00 – Obscure phone bug from a cell tower

• 13:30 – Shout-out to new listeners in New Orleans & Slidell!

Resources Mentioned:

• Uber Caregiver

• Uber Call to Ride

• Lyft Silver

• GoGo Grandparent

• Arrive

• SilverRide

• Comfort Keepers

Show notes and resources are here: https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

Summary:
Barry and Bobby cover a wide spectrum of caregiver insights in this info-packed episode. They start with the importance of "margin" in daily life, then dive into cognitive screening tools like the BOCA and MOCA tests. They discuss the Real ID deadline (yep, it happened!) and break down the DMV scam surge. Barry shares a clever reminder system for his dad using iOS shortcuts, while Bobby highlights the overlooked world of donation tracking. They finish strong with critical advice on pre-registering loved ones with memory issues for safety services. Full of wisdom, tech tips, and the usual warmth and wit.

Timestamps:
00:00 – Barry’s “margin” philosophy: build breathing room
01:13 – What’s the difference between BOCA and MOCA?
05:20 – Real ID deadline hit in May 2025: what caregivers need to know
08:39 – DMV scams and phishing: how to spot and avoid
14:31 – Underused amenities in assisted living: how to encourage your loved one
20:28 – Barry’s robo-text calendar system for senior reminders
25:13 – Don’t forget donation tracking: more than just bills
27:01 – Registering wandering-prone loved ones with local safety programs
30:15 – Prevention is power: act before the emergency

Highlighted Topics:

• BOCA vs. MOCA cognitive assessments

• Real ID documentation hurdles for seniors

• Text/email/phone scam spotting tips

• Encouraging elders to use services they’ve paid for

• Personalized reminder systems via iOS shortcuts

• Donation and gift tracking for aging parents

• Registering loved ones with dementia in local/national databases

Show notes and other resources at: ➡️ https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

In this early summer episode of Care, Tech & Tips, Barry and Bobby unpack the challenges—and the laughs—that come with traveling during peak wedding season, especially when elderly loved ones are in tow. From construction-packed airports to overzealous Siri mishaps, this one’s full of practical advice and real-life anecdotes.

You’ll get five must-know airport travel tips for caregivers, a breakdown of TSA PreCheck vs. CLEAR vs. Global Entry, and a hilarious (and slightly alarming) story about how one aunt accidentally triggered iPhone call recording with her earlobe. Tech hiccups and thoughtful planning meet in this travel-savvy, care-conscious episode.

Show notes and resources are here: https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

• 00:00 – 03:00 → Family reunions, weddings & Nashville’s new “state bird” (the construction crane)

• 03:01 – 07:00 → Top 5 travel tips for flying with aging loved ones

• 07:01 – 12:40 → TSA PreCheck vs. CLEAR vs. Global Entry: Which is worth it?

• 12:41 – 15:30 → Accidental iPhone call recording: What happened, why, and how to disable it

• 15:31 – 19:30 → TeamViewer’s big changes + Apple screen sharing insights

• 19:31 – 21:16 → Shout-out to new listeners in Serbia & community call-to-action

• Elderly travel considerations

• Airport and airline accessibility tips

• CLEAR vs. TSA PreCheck vs. Global Entry

• How to disable iOS call recording

• TeamViewer changes & alternatives

• Apple screen sharing, FaceTime support quirks

• Podcast listener community growth

In this packed episode, Barry and Bobby return after a short break to dive into the tangled world of caregiving, tech hacks, and emotional resilience. They cover everything from fighting spam FaceTime calls to getting an elderly parent started with grocery lists on Apple Reminders. They share hilarious, frustrating, and heartwarming stories about remote troubleshooting, smart TVs that are too smart, and the never-ending battle with streaming apps and internet issues. The second half shifts to real talk on emotional bandwidth, perfectionism, and the importance of picking your battles as a caregiver.

Show notes and resources are here: https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

0:00 – Welcome back! Life happens.
0:30 – Bobby's spam call/FaceTime tip roundup
2:30 – Phishing texts and suspicious FaceTime spam
4:00 – Barry’s dad learning to avoid scams
5:00 – How to block spam FaceTime and texts
6:00 – Barry’s dad asks about grocery lists (!?)
6:45 – Using Apple Reminders for smart grocery lists
7:45 – Voice entry and Siri integration tips
8:30 – Sharing grocery lists with loved ones
9:30 – Faint clock display on iPhone lock screen fix
10:30 – iPad nightstand/clock setup hacks
12:00 – Battery-saving shortcut when iPad is idle
14:00 – Charging routines and iOS power management
15:30 – Barry’s ongoing battle with cell signal quality
16:45 – AT&T Air placement voodoo solved
17:30 – Entire cell tower outage (!), how Barry troubleshot it
18:45 – Bits vs Bytes: A speed and connectivity primer
20:30 – Cellular internet pros, cons, and fiber upgrades
22:00 – Why streaming holds up better than calls
23:30 – TCP/IP, latency, and interactive vs passive traffic
25:00 – Bobby’s saga with his mom’s Amazon Smart TV and Spectrum
26:00 – Barry’s thoughts on restricting purchases and remote control chaos
29:00 – Finite self-control and caregiver burnout
31:00 – Tips for stepping back when your emotional tank is empty
33:00 – "Do I have the stamina for this right now?" – a question worth asking
34:00 – Expectations vs reality and letting go of perfection
35:00 – Wrapping up: therapy for them and for us

• How to block spam FaceTime and unknown text messages

• Setting up Apple Reminders grocery lists for elders

• Custom iOS shortcuts for simplicity

• Solving faint clock bug on iPhone

• iPad battery-saving automation using Shortcuts

• AT&T Air interference and cell tower troubleshooting

• Streaming vs calling: why one often works while the other fails

• Caregiver burnout and setting emotional boundaries

• Smart TV challenges with legacy cable habits

• The curse of complex remotes and maintaining control

• When it's okay to punt the problem to tomorrow

In this episode, Barry and Bobby get real about family time, technology wins, and some of the heavy conversations that come with caregiving. Bobby shares a recent success pulling off a virtual medical appointment for his mom, complete with a how-to guide on making telehealth work smoothly. Barry then dives into the signs that it might be time to consider assisted living for a loved one — and they don't sugarcoat it. They finish up with a discussion about the real costs of assisted living, how to plan ahead, and even a surprise tech troubleshooting update about Barry’s iPhone call quality woes. (Hint: It involves Wi-Fi Calling playing ping-pong.)

Show notes and resources are here: https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

• 00:00 – Bobby’s Easter “Vintage” Shirt Story

• 02:00 – Easter Celebrations and Family Gatherings

• 04:00 – Virtual Doctor Appointments for Seniors: Bobby’s Experience

• 06:00 – How to Prepare for a Virtual Medical Visit (Checklist)

• 12:00 – Assisted Living: When Is It Time?

• 18:00 – Health Red Flags to Watch For

• 24:00 – How Much Does Assisted Living Really Cost?

• 29:00 – How to Financially Plan for Assisted Living

• 31:30 – Barry's iPhone 16 Wi-Fi Calling Mystery (And the Fix)

• 35:00 – Wrap Up and Teasers for Next Time

• How to successfully pull off virtual medical appointments for seniors

• Tech tips for making virtual health visits easy and stress-free

• How to spot the warning signs that it may be time for assisted living

• Breaking down the emotional and financial realities of assisted living

• Barry’s troubleshooting saga: How strong Wi-Fi and strong cell signals can fight each other and wreck your phone calls

Summary:
Barry and Bobby dive into the realities of caregiving from a distance—especially when surgeries, travel, and unpredictable tech snags get tossed into the mix. From planning shoulder surgery logistics for a solo senior living with pets, to tackling the emotional and logistical whiplash of funerals, they don’t shy away from the hard stuff. Plus, Barry’s MVNO switch for his dad hits an unexpected snag that’s a lesson for anyone buying used phones. And Bobby brings the practical goods with two top-5 checklists for senior-friendly travel and ride-sharing success.

Timestamps & Topics:

• 00:00 – Pine pollen, spring vibes, and life updates

• 01:20 – When loved ones pass away and the logistics begin

• 02:40 – Barry’s dad finishes PT, eyes surgery in the fall

• 04:15 – Planning for surgery: pets, visitors, and shoulder strain

• 06:30 – Rehab resistance & the pros and cons of short-term care

• 07:50 – Comfort Keepers and temporary caregiver options

• 09:30 – Bobby’s 5 senior travel tips: comfort > chaos

• 15:00 – Barry’s MVNO fail: ATT phone, unpaid balance, and Gazelle surprises

• 22:00 – Bobby’s 5 senior ride-share tips: safety, simplicity, and trust

• 27:00 – Why return rides are harder than pickups

• 29:20 – Taxi, Uber, and a wish for a senior-specific ride app

• 30:00 – Final thoughts and community shout-out