"Muuuuum! Daaaad! Watch me!"—Why Your Child Demands Your Attention (and How to Find the Balance)

Ever feel like you’re under constant surveillance by your own child? You can’t pee alone, they’re clinging to your leg like it’s the last lifeboat on the Titanic, and every five seconds, it’s, “Look at me! Watch this!” Sound familiar? 😅

Here’s the deal: young children are adorable attention-seeking machines—and for good reason. They need our love and connection to thrive. But let’s get real: that doesn’t mean you’re on the hook for 24/7 applause and high-fives. Even babies and toddlers can benefit from moments of uninterrupted, independent play—yes, it’s good for them and you!

In this episode, we dive into:

✨ Why your child craves your attention (hint: it’s not just to test your patience).

✨ The neuroscience of connection—why loving, one-on-one moments are as crucial as food and water.

✨ Magda Gerber’s genius advice on how to actually balance your attention—so you can give your child what they need without losing your sanity.

We’ll show you how to turn everyday routines—nappy changes, bedtime, mealtimes—into golden opportunities for full-hearted connection, and explain how those moments can lead to more independent, happy kiddos (and fewer bathroom interruptions!).

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