Hey, What's Up! It's Tommy. Welcome to a brand-new year! In today’s episode, I’m reflecting on the joys and challenges of navigating the holidays with an autistic child while sharing personal experiences, lessons, and encouragement for parents and caregivers in the autism community. From celebrating small victories to the importance of building a supportive village around you, this episode dives deep into what it means to advocate for and uplift our kids.

Let’s talk about keeping high standards, understanding their unique needs, and making room for those around us to learn, adapt, and join our journey.

• Creating a Supportive Village: Opening up about your child’s needs can transform the people around you into allies. It’s okay to ask for help and set expectations, even in unfamiliar spaces.
• Joy in the Little Moments: Celebrate milestones, big or small. Whether it’s your child enjoying Christmas morning or connecting with others, these moments deserve recognition and gratitude.
• Respect Their Humanity: Always talk to autistic kids (and adults!) with respect, acknowledging their intelligence and individuality, even if communication looks different.
• Protecting Health and Boundaries: Making tough decisions, like skipping events or limiting sugar, is part of advocating for your child’s well-being. It’s okay to say no when it’s in their best interest.

• Faith and Perspective: Luke 14:13-14 reminds us to give to those who can’t repay us. Caring for neurodivergent kids can be challenging, but the rewards come in ways that money can’t measure.

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• Email me your thoughts or questions: tommy@spectrumincamouflage.com

Let’s keep building this community together. We’re stronger when we support one another.

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