Finding our personal strength is building our house upon the rock. True strength is being grounded and not letting whatever waves come our way take us out. We need to get to a point where reaching in and finding our strength becomes automatic but it can only become automatic when we have experience in our life that give us the opportunity to use this strength.

Have you ever thought that finding your tribe, girlfriends, or sidekick, can be gifts from God? We are not here to walk this earth alone but with others sharing experiences as we all grow in this thing called life.

Finding your tribe takes effort on your part. If you want others to share their life with you, you first have to share your life with them. Are we denying gifts from above because we struggle to receive help from others.

Being vulnerable is one of the hardest traits to learn but as we breakdown these barriers, our live can be filled with beautiful experiences filled with so much love.

How often do we give ourselves the grace to grow? How often do we do we get frustrated because we can’t figure something out? How often do we realize that if you would have known what you knew know you wouldn’t have wasted so much time?

Our lives are full of moments that can discourage us, feel shame, embarrass, feel like we are getting beaten down, but it is these moments we can use to grow the most.

God has a hard time teaching those who always want to be safe and not have courage to progress. If we are not willing to have courage to make the next step, even if it is not the right step, then we will not grow into the person he knows we can become.

When you know better you do better. God wants us to improve our mind, knowledge, spirit, body, the way we love, think, serve, and spend our time.

The process of learn, unlearn, and relearn is what helps us do better because we have learned better. This process will help us improve our thoughts and actions.

When we do this process with the spirit, we allow the spirit of the Savior to change us and our heart to transform us into the best version of ourselves.

How do we follow the spirit when we hear so many voices telling us otherwise? The spirit is your own true guide. But when we can’t figure out what is from the spirit and what is just our own thoughts then it becomes hard to follow the spirit.

How do we find peace when there is so much uncertainty. Don’t know who to believe. What cause should we be standing for? People are dividing. Civil arrest is happing between communities. Families are fighting. People's beliefs are dividing them.

All of this takes peace away from us and create one thing, FEAR.

Here are simple easy ways you can incorporate techniques to bring clarity so you can make the best decision at the moment and live a life full of peace.

Do you believe you were born for this very moment? Do you look for evidence that you are put in circumstances to bless others? Do you believe you are prepared to give service to others?

Often we need to look at our life and see how we have been prepared, listen for guidance, and have the courage to live our best life. 

Becoming a leader to others is not just a title but an action. Being a leader means you are leading others to something. As a leader, you hold the responsibility to walk with others on their journey. How can we do this? How can we show leadership?

In this episode, I talk about how to build trust to lead others. I share experiences I have learned and also experienced in becoming a great leader. 

The real secret is that we were all born to be leaders even if we don't have a title in front of our name. We can influence others for good in every area of our lives. By learning these steps you can be the leader you were created to be.