This week, we’re joined by a new guest, Chris, as we dive into the messy world of morally grey characters, people, and actions. We explore betrayal by friends, the blurred lines between right and wrong, and whether certain choices can ever be justified. From real-life situations to fictional icons like Joe from YOU and Walter White from Breaking Bad, we unpack what makes someone truly “bad”

This week’s bonus content episode dives even deeper into the morally grey—where things get darker, messier, and way more questionable. We talk about actions that might cross the line into serious territory (allegedly), and debate whether certain behaviors are forgivable... or something else entirely.

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Timestamp (ep. 14)

0:00 - Intro

0:23 - Who is Chris?

3:10 - How did Jordan meet Chris?

10:22 - How did Chris start selling?

15:40 - Gold Digging Men

18:54 - Betrayal by friends

21:38 - Viet and his extracurricular activities

28:13 - Why did Chris go to prison?

30:40 - What it’s like wearing an ankle monitor + What it’s like getting out

35:12 - Prison politics

38:38 - Fighting in Prison

43:01 - How to stop fighting. Chris’ advice for Viet

45:12 - Chris gives background on Jordan

48:29 - Morally Grey Character segment

52:51 - Joe from YOU

57:46 - Walter White from Breaking Bad

1:07:58 - Is Viet Trap a bad guy?

1:09:26 - Is Edward Snowden a bad guy?

1:16:04 - Thomas Shelby

1:23:11 - Talking about Harry Potter

1:28:24 - Morally grey actions

1:32:49 - Telling someone you’re not the one after sleeping together

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In today’s episode we briefly discuss what has been happening with our podcast (IYKYK). We also do a little life update because it’s been a while since we’ve seen you guys. We came up with a fun little segment called “Is it rude or reasonable” where we give scenarios and discuss whether or not it was rude or reasonable such as “Is it rude or reasonable to let a random person pour shots into your mouth when you’re in a relationship? Or Is it rude or reasonable to ask someone how much money they make? We also have another segment that was created by our dear viewer called “Hot take hotline” Where we ask YOU to send in your hot takes and we discuss whether or not we agree or disagree. Comment down below if you have a hot take you want us to talk about and comment down below if you agree or disagree with our takes.

In today’s bonus content we have DOLLAR STORE THERAPY!

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Timestamp (ep. 13)

0:00 - Intro

0:22 - Life updates (addressing what happened 👀)

6:35 - Esther went to China

9:00 - Viet is in legal trouble

11:20 - Wootak got Invisalign

14:22 - Trying to grow and messing up again

31:33 - What is a performative man?

36:29 - Viet hates matcha

38:12 - Bad business ideas

40:10 - New Segment: Is it rude of reasonable?

46:28 - Letting a random person pour shots into your mouth

50:40 - How much money do you make?

59:54 - Hot take hotline (Women were never designed to live like men)

1:07:02 - The badder the women the higher the chance she’ll get cheated on

1:15:00 - Most friendships are built on convenience

1:26:20 - We all quit drinking

1:35:14 - Rice does not belong in burritos

Dollar Store Therapy

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Kira is finally back—and she’s been on a wild shiitake mushroom trip that changed her life. We dive deep into her spiritual awakening, why she left her boyfriend, and what it’s like facing life solo for the first time. Wootak shares his own trippy experience, spills on how much influencers really make, and explains why he wants 20 kids. If you’re broke, want to be a creator, or just need a laugh—this one’s for you.

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Today's bonus content is DOLLAR STORE THERAPY!

In our Dollar Store Therapy bonus segment, we dive into your juiciest personal dilemmas and give you the unfiltered advice you didn’t know you needed. This week, we explore whether dating down in looks actually leads to better relationships—and if Wootak’s pursuit of hot girls is backfiring. We also respond to a heartbreaking story about a toxic family household and the pressure to stay involved for the sake of the kids. If you love raw, honest convos with a touch of humor and a lot of heart, hit subscribe and don’t miss an episode.

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Time codes (ep. 12)

0:00 - Intro

0:45 - Kira goes on a shiitake mushroom journey

5:51 - Kira takes a break with her Bf

13:45 - Kira takes on life by herself for the first time

16:26 - Wootak’s shiitake mushroom journey

27:03 - Kira meets her highest self

27:40 - Living in the city is toxic

34:14 - Government secret

42:37 - Wootak explains the trippy show the show ‘Pantheon’

54:59 - Why you should become an influencer

55:58 - Wootak wants 20 kids?!

58:55 - Revealing how much money some influencers make

1:04:31 - Watch this if you’re broke

1:08:11 - Different ways influencers are making money now

1:16:34 - Coolest experience as a creator

1:21:01 - how much would you sell out for?

1:27:19 - Dream brand deals

1:29:40 - Wisdom Kaye

1:30:35 - How to work for creators

1:42:30 - Dollar Store Therapy preview

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HEY GUYS!

Today’s episode is all about cheating—and trust us, it’s a juicy one. We could only upload a 30-minute segment here, but the full episode is up now on our bonus content hub over at 4th Wall. Subscribe to catch the full story (and get access to Dollar Store Therapy too)!

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In today's episode, we bring up different scenarios that we've personally been through to figure out whether or not we were the problem. We go through scenarios like Jordan's addiction, Women not having other women friends, stealing your friend's crush, and more! We want to hear your thoughts as well so please let us know in the comments down below!

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Time codes (ep. 11)

0:00 - Party with Wootak in NYC

1:21 - Intro

2:35 - Life update

3:36 - Viet gets invited to a “Diddy” party

4:50 - Viet’s encounter with a gay homeless man

7:16 - Wootak’s life update

11:21 - “Am I the problem” segment intro (Jordan and drugs)

19:35 - Wootak makes all his friends alcoholics?

24:48 - How is Wootak’s Liver in pristine condition even after drinking so much?

28:11 - Thoughts/experience on addiction

32:50 - Is it a problem to have no female friends as a women?

35:56 - What makes a girl’s girl?

40:11- Breaking up with someone when they’re threatening to unalive themselves

44:40 - Men are only in love with their first love

47:59 - What do you do if the person your friend is into is more into you?

1:00:12 - Wootak beats up his boss

1:13:44 - Esther leaves her ex while he was struggling

1:17:46 - Fat shaming friend to get fit

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In this episode, we dive deep into the flirty tension and genuine connection between Tiff and Viet. From their first impressions and how they got close, to spicy questions like who wanted who first and whether they’re exclusive, WE DO NOT HOLD BACK ON THE DETAILS! We also touch on cultural differences between Asian men and American men, club drama, and what makes Viet both toxic and likable. Bonus topics include boyfriend duties, school archetypes, and a surprise mention of Tiff carrying a strap! or does she...

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In today's bonus content we play "We're Not Really Strangers" and get to know each other on a deeper level

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Watch Wootak's Interview With John Rondi

https://youtu.be/CzxvQ2_rb-k?si=Jq-WylKu_4xuhW6r

Time codes (ep. 10)

1:01 - Intro

2:10 - Vietnamese girls and Korean girl are toxic

3:21 - Tiff’s life update

5:44 - Asia vs USA night life

6:43 - Tiff’s traumatic experience in Tokyo

11:14 - Difference between Asian men and American men approaching women

16:01 - Difference between America and Asia

16:37 - Difference between Vietnamese men and Japanese men

19:09 - Dr. Pepper guy

25:55 - Tiff carries a strap?

28:32 - What were our first impressions of each other

33:41 - How Tiff and Viet got close

38:51 - Is Viet and Tiff attracted to each other?

42:29 - Viet and Tiff: Who wanted who first?

47:47 - Viet is banned from the club

53:20 - What makes Viet likable?

58:31 - Are they exclusive?

59:03 - Is this Tiff’s first Vietnamese “friend”?

1:01:46 - Vietnamese vs. Koreans

1:08:43 - What makes Viet toxic?

1:17:01 - Vietnamese food vs Korean food

1:20:53 - What are boyfriend duties?

1:41:19 - Bonus content

1:42:17 - Which archetype in school would you be?

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In today’s episode, we dive into the heated online debate: are Korean men really f-boys, or are they being unfairly villainized by the internet due to the viral videos about 'Hongdae boys'?

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Watch Wootak's Interview With John Rondi

https://youtu.be/CzxvQ2_rb-k?si=Jq-WylKu_4xuhW6r

0:00 - intro

4:40 - Life updates

5:18 - Viet’s life update

14:55 - Wootak’s life update

15:10 - Wootak gets cucked

22:09 - Sperm race

28:43 - Do labels even matter anymore?

36:17 - 100 Men VS 1 Gorilla

48:47 - Who is the fastest runner?

53:13 - What’s in Wootak’s bag?

55:09- Questions to ask your BF to know who he is

59:35 - Viet is obsessed with Labubus

1:01:36- Jordan and Wootak fights about their bets

1:08:23 - Koreans are not f-boys

1:19:03 - Is having a celebrity crush while in a relationship okay or not okay?

1:21:14 - Are men who post gym pictures, narcissistic?

1:26:04 - Intercourse in a movie theater is acceptable

1:27:57 - Should Guys go through a girl’s IG to see if he could afford her lifestyle?

1:33:14 - Bonus content preview

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Feeling lonely? Wondering why making friends feels impossible sometimes? In this episode, we break down the real reasons people struggle with friendships — and how you can actually start building real, lasting connections.

But it doesn’t stop there. We also dive into a shocking reality about friendship culture in Korea that might just blow your mind. 😳

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Timecodes (Episode #7):

0:00 - Intro

2:42 - Life Updates

3:11 - Super Bonsai

8:11 - Jordan’s Life Updates

10:47 - Wootak’s Life Updates

14:42 - Why Club Culture Is Dying

19:43 - Wootak Loses Tristan to A GIRL?

29:04 - What is the “Safe Guy” Approach?

37:38 - Kira and Wootak’s First Fight

48:29 - South Korea is Over

57:03 - Ghosted Announcement

1:02:05 - How Did People Get Split to Live In North/South Korea?

1:04:40 - Crazy Stories About North Korea

1:04:39 - How We Would Be as Parents

1:11:25 - Korean Phok Boys

1:14:38 - Kira’s Nightlife Experience in Korea

1:19:42 - Korean American Girls are Freaky

1:22:28 - Highest Birth Rates/lowest Birthrates

1:24:22 - Solution to Saving Korea

1:32:31 - Friendship Formula

1:36:45 - Best Marketing Tactic

1:38:57 - Why You Don’t Have Friends

1:52:42 - Can Girls Spot the Group Leader in a Male Friend Group?

2:09:54 - When Your Girl is NOT the Hot One In Her Friend Group

2:12:53 - Dollar Store Therapy

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