Welcome back to The Rebel’s Way podcast—your no-BS guide to breaking free from what no longer serves you and stepping fully into the life you actually want. I’m your host, Starlyn, and today, we’re talking about something too many of us ignore—the moments we abandon ourselves because we think we should settle.

When was the last time you said yes to something that you knew wasn’t right for you? Maybe it was a job, a relationship, an opportunity that looked good on paper but felt off deep in your gut. That happened to me recently, and in this episode, I’m sharing how I got sucked into the trap of doing what I thought I should do instead of what actually aligned with me.

In this episode, we dive into:

The sneaky ways we convince ourselves to stay in situations that aren’t right

Why I took (and quickly quit) a job that went against everything I want

The truth about money and why earning it the wrong way isn’t worth it

How to recognize when you're settling—and what to do about it

Why people-pleasing and guilt cannot dictate your decisions anymore

This episode is your reminder that you don’t have to accept what’s handed to you—you get to choose what aligns with your values, your energy, and your purpose. If something feels off, trust that feeling. You are not here to play small, to settle, or to squeeze yourself into spaces that aren’t meant for you.

Challenge for You:

Take a moment today to ask yourself: Where am I settling? Is it in your job? Your relationships? Your daily routine? Once you identify it, make a small shift toward something better.

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