Welcome back to The Rebel’s Way podcast—your no-BS guide to breaking the rules, trusting yourself, and creating a life that actually feels like yours. I’m your host, Starlyn, and today we’re ripping the mask off something sneaky that’s been stealing your joy: people-pleasing.

This episode is a truth-teller, a wake-up call, and a gut-check—because if you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly deferring, defaulting, or disappearing in your own life… you’re not alone. And no, you’re not “just easygoing”—you’ve been taught to abandon yourself.

In this episode, we dive into:

Why “I’m fine with whatever” is actually a red flag

How people-pleasing is the most socially acceptable form of self-abandonment

What it really means to use your voice—and why it’s so hard to do

A simple experiment to start breaking the habit today

Why speaking up for your needs is the boldest rebellion of all

This episode is your reminder that your voice matters, your wants are valid, and you’re not here to play the supporting role in someone else’s story. You get to be the main character. Period.

Challenge for You:

Today, when someone asks you what you want—pause. Check in with yourself. Then say it out loud. No apologizing. No over-explaining. Just the truth. Try it. Let it feel awkward. Let it feel powerful.

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