Anne and Matt kick off with a weekend disaster—Anne’s dog, Noodles, gets caught in a bark-collar meltdown that spirals into chaos (and a bite). From there, they pivot hard into founder psychology: why crises hit hardest when you’re already stretched thin, and how business partners balance between empathy and bluntness. They cover everything from the hidden costs of “founder guilt” to why resilience isn’t about toughness but about designing better defaults. Along the way, Matt argues that failure is a signal to re-engineer systems, not yourself, while Anne pushes back with the reality of emotional fallout. It’s raw, messy, and unusually human—an episode that proves startups aren’t built by logic alone.

🚨 Stuff You’ll Want to Remember:

• Burnout isn’t cured by grit; it’s cured by structure.
• Founder guilt is real—but often misplaced.
• Fix the system, not just the symptom.
• Empathy doesn’t mean softness; it means calibration.
• The dog will forgive you. Customers might not.

💣 Sh*t Only Founders Say:

“Every founder has a bark collar story. Different trigger, same panic.” — Matt
“I wasn’t mad at him. I was mad at me.” — Anne
“You don’t get bonus points for suffering.” — Matt
“Crisis isn’t a test of willpower. It’s a test of systems.” — Matt
“Sometimes resilience looks like quitting for the night.” — Anne

💬 Lines That Slap:

“Startups break founders before founders break startups.” — Matt
“Every problem feels personal until you realize it’s structural.” — Anne
“Guilt is the tax you pay when your system fails.” — Matt

📡 Where to Find Us:

• Anne → Fix & Form - LinkedIn
• Matt → ChipBot - LinkedIn